A black-and-white photo of a person mid-air in a Superman-style body suspension pose, supported by multiple hooks in their back and legs, smiling joyfully toward the camera. They are suspended horizontally in a large indoor space with high ceilings and visible rigging. A group of onlookers—some seated, some standing—watch with expressions of admiration, amusement, and support. The atmosphere is lively and communal, capturing a moment of shared experience and transformation.

Becoming an Hourglass

Possessed has currently cinched down to a 24″ corset, and is training down to a 22″ final size.

Comments

732 responses to “Becoming an Hourglass”

  1. wiggledance Avatar
    wiggledance

    gorgeous waist, it looks so natural on her.

  2. wiggledance Avatar
    wiggledance

    gorgeous waist, it looks so natural on her.

  3. wiggledance Avatar
    wiggledance

    gorgeous waist, it looks so natural on her.

  4. wiggledance Avatar
    wiggledance

    gorgeous waist, it looks so natural on her.

  5. wiggledance Avatar
    wiggledance

    gorgeous waist, it looks so natural on her.

  6. wiggledance Avatar
    wiggledance

    gorgeous waist, it looks so natural on her.

  7. Molly Avatar
    Molly

    Where did she start? What measurement?

    I’ve really wanted to start training–I’ve thought about trying for an 18″ waist. (4 1/2″ reduction)

  8. Molly Avatar
    Molly

    Where did she start? What measurement?

    I’ve really wanted to start training–I’ve thought about trying for an 18″ waist. (4 1/2″ reduction)

  9. Molly Avatar
    Molly

    Where did she start? What measurement?

    I’ve really wanted to start training–I’ve thought about trying for an 18″ waist. (4 1/2″ reduction)

  10. Molly Avatar
    Molly

    Where did she start? What measurement?

    I’ve really wanted to start training–I’ve thought about trying for an 18″ waist. (4 1/2″ reduction)

  11. Molly Avatar
    Molly

    Where did she start? What measurement?

    I’ve really wanted to start training–I’ve thought about trying for an 18″ waist. (4 1/2″ reduction)

  12. Molly Avatar
    Molly

    Where did she start? What measurement?

    I’ve really wanted to start training–I’ve thought about trying for an 18″ waist. (4 1/2″ reduction)

  13. Lunar Avatar
    Lunar

    Usually I don’t post just to say that, but wah, this is fucking gorgeous !

  14. Lunar Avatar
    Lunar

    Usually I don’t post just to say that, but wah, this is fucking gorgeous !

  15. Lunar Avatar
    Lunar

    Usually I don’t post just to say that, but wah, this is fucking gorgeous !

  16. Lunar Avatar
    Lunar

    Usually I don’t post just to say that, but wah, this is fucking gorgeous !

  17. Lunar Avatar
    Lunar

    Usually I don’t post just to say that, but wah, this is fucking gorgeous !

  18. Lunar Avatar
    Lunar

    Usually I don’t post just to say that, but wah, this is fucking gorgeous !

  19. Zena Avatar
    Zena

    Um, oh wow. #4 pisses me off, because in my own bi-girl opinion hips wider than shoulders are the sexiest thing ever. Even if it’s just the angle that looks like that… dayuuuum. What a totally gorgeous woman. And an accomplishment! Good luck on 22″~

  20. Zena Avatar
    Zena

    Um, oh wow. #4 pisses me off, because in my own bi-girl opinion hips wider than shoulders are the sexiest thing ever. Even if it’s just the angle that looks like that… dayuuuum. What a totally gorgeous woman. And an accomplishment! Good luck on 22″~

  21. Zena Avatar
    Zena

    Um, oh wow. #4 pisses me off, because in my own bi-girl opinion hips wider than shoulders are the sexiest thing ever. Even if it’s just the angle that looks like that… dayuuuum. What a totally gorgeous woman. And an accomplishment! Good luck on 22″~

  22. Zena Avatar
    Zena

    Um, oh wow. #4 pisses me off, because in my own bi-girl opinion hips wider than shoulders are the sexiest thing ever. Even if it’s just the angle that looks like that… dayuuuum. What a totally gorgeous woman. And an accomplishment! Good luck on 22″~

  23. Zena Avatar
    Zena

    Um, oh wow. #4 pisses me off, because in my own bi-girl opinion hips wider than shoulders are the sexiest thing ever. Even if it’s just the angle that looks like that… dayuuuum. What a totally gorgeous woman. And an accomplishment! Good luck on 22″~

  24. Zena Avatar
    Zena

    Um, oh wow. #4 pisses me off, because in my own bi-girl opinion hips wider than shoulders are the sexiest thing ever. Even if it’s just the angle that looks like that… dayuuuum. What a totally gorgeous woman. And an accomplishment! Good luck on 22″~

  25. Shannon Larratt Avatar

    Good news: Fakir wants to do a corsetry column on BME!

  26. Shannon Larratt Avatar

    Good news: Fakir wants to do a corsetry column on BME!

  27. Shannon Larratt Avatar

    Good news: Fakir wants to do a corsetry column on BME!

  28. Shannon Larratt Avatar

    Good news: Fakir wants to do a corsetry column on BME!

  29. Shannon Larratt Avatar

    Good news: Fakir wants to do a corsetry column on BME!

  30. Shannon Larratt Avatar

    Good news: Fakir wants to do a corsetry column on BME!

  31. Chel Avatar
    Chel

    so much for breathing…

    corsets are fun but only for short periods of time. at least to me, constant shallow breathing doesn’t seem that healthy(hence the fainting scenes in POTC).

    to possessed: from my experience its much easier to go much smaller with an under-bust corset, because then you’re less squishing your boobs rather than your mid-section, but looks great anyways!

    ps. can’t wait for the corsetry column!

  32. Chel Avatar
    Chel

    so much for breathing…

    corsets are fun but only for short periods of time. at least to me, constant shallow breathing doesn’t seem that healthy(hence the fainting scenes in POTC).

    to possessed: from my experience its much easier to go much smaller with an under-bust corset, because then you’re less squishing your boobs rather than your mid-section, but looks great anyways!

    ps. can’t wait for the corsetry column!

  33. Chel Avatar
    Chel

    so much for breathing…

    corsets are fun but only for short periods of time. at least to me, constant shallow breathing doesn’t seem that healthy(hence the fainting scenes in POTC).

    to possessed: from my experience its much easier to go much smaller with an under-bust corset, because then you’re less squishing your boobs rather than your mid-section, but looks great anyways!

    ps. can’t wait for the corsetry column!

  34. Chel Avatar
    Chel

    so much for breathing…

    corsets are fun but only for short periods of time. at least to me, constant shallow breathing doesn’t seem that healthy(hence the fainting scenes in POTC).

    to possessed: from my experience its much easier to go much smaller with an under-bust corset, because then you’re less squishing your boobs rather than your mid-section, but looks great anyways!

    ps. can’t wait for the corsetry column!

  35. Chel Avatar
    Chel

    so much for breathing…

    corsets are fun but only for short periods of time. at least to me, constant shallow breathing doesn’t seem that healthy(hence the fainting scenes in POTC).

    to possessed: from my experience its much easier to go much smaller with an under-bust corset, because then you’re less squishing your boobs rather than your mid-section, but looks great anyways!

    ps. can’t wait for the corsetry column!

  36. Chel Avatar
    Chel

    so much for breathing…

    corsets are fun but only for short periods of time. at least to me, constant shallow breathing doesn’t seem that healthy(hence the fainting scenes in POTC).

    to possessed: from my experience its much easier to go much smaller with an under-bust corset, because then you’re less squishing your boobs rather than your mid-section, but looks great anyways!

    ps. can’t wait for the corsetry column!

  37. Jonn t. NØTHING Avatar

    I was about to say as a guy i’ve been wanting to learn about corsetry with fakir as a rolemodel and where can i find more information but i guess if fakir is doing a column that answers my question

    Secondly, her ass gives me thoughts and feelings that are probably illegal somewhere MWAHAHAHA *orders coach to scotland*

    and thirdly not only is #4′s statement incredibly small minded and offensive he can’t spell shit it seems…

  38. Jonn t. NØTHING Avatar

    I was about to say as a guy i’ve been wanting to learn about corsetry with fakir as a rolemodel and where can i find more information but i guess if fakir is doing a column that answers my question

    Secondly, her ass gives me thoughts and feelings that are probably illegal somewhere MWAHAHAHA *orders coach to scotland*

    and thirdly not only is #4′s statement incredibly small minded and offensive he can’t spell shit it seems…

  39. Jonn t. NØTHING Avatar

    I was about to say as a guy i’ve been wanting to learn about corsetry with fakir as a rolemodel and where can i find more information but i guess if fakir is doing a column that answers my question

    Secondly, her ass gives me thoughts and feelings that are probably illegal somewhere MWAHAHAHA *orders coach to scotland*

    and thirdly not only is #4′s statement incredibly small minded and offensive he can’t spell shit it seems…

  40. Jonn t. NØTHING Avatar

    I was about to say as a guy i’ve been wanting to learn about corsetry with fakir as a rolemodel and where can i find more information but i guess if fakir is doing a column that answers my question

    Secondly, her ass gives me thoughts and feelings that are probably illegal somewhere MWAHAHAHA *orders coach to scotland*

    and thirdly not only is #4′s statement incredibly small minded and offensive he can’t spell shit it seems…

  41. Jonn t. NØTHING Avatar

    I was about to say as a guy i’ve been wanting to learn about corsetry with fakir as a rolemodel and where can i find more information but i guess if fakir is doing a column that answers my question

    Secondly, her ass gives me thoughts and feelings that are probably illegal somewhere MWAHAHAHA *orders coach to scotland*

    and thirdly not only is #4′s statement incredibly small minded and offensive he can’t spell shit it seems…

  42. Jonn t. NØTHING Avatar

    I was about to say as a guy i’ve been wanting to learn about corsetry with fakir as a rolemodel and where can i find more information but i guess if fakir is doing a column that answers my question

    Secondly, her ass gives me thoughts and feelings that are probably illegal somewhere MWAHAHAHA *orders coach to scotland*

    and thirdly not only is #4′s statement incredibly small minded and offensive he can’t spell shit it seems…

  43. edible Avatar

    she’s beautiful! I loove her hourglass figure!

  44. edible Avatar

    she’s beautiful! I loove her hourglass figure!

  45. edible Avatar

    she’s beautiful! I loove her hourglass figure!

  46. edible Avatar

    she’s beautiful! I loove her hourglass figure!

  47. edible Avatar

    she’s beautiful! I loove her hourglass figure!

  48. edible Avatar

    she’s beautiful! I loove her hourglass figure!

  49. JenO33 Avatar

    she’s got a great round bootie

  50. JenO33 Avatar

    she’s got a great round bootie

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