A black-and-white photo of a person mid-air in a Superman-style body suspension pose, supported by multiple hooks in their back and legs, smiling joyfully toward the camera. They are suspended horizontally in a large indoor space with high ceilings and visible rigging. A group of onlookers—some seated, some standing—watch with expressions of admiration, amusement, and support. The atmosphere is lively and communal, capturing a moment of shared experience and transformation.

Another one for Self-Injury Awareness Day, or is it?

The post below this is one about today being Self-Injury Awareness Day. That is why I am posting this now rather than tomorrow, even though today’s modblog plate has already been filled up. The words self-injury in this context brings up one of the oldest arguments in the body modification world which is modification vs. mutilation. Obviously, a lot of the deciding factor is in the eye of the beholder. Seriously, ask around enough and you will find plenty of people who think that a standard navel piercing is a mutilation. However, I think most modblog readers, even those that are not fans of navel piercings, would never consider one to be a mutilation. However, there are some other modification we cover on BME are not so black and white.

No one modification is responsible for more modification vs. mutilation arguments then the voluntary amputation of healthy and viable body parts. That is why I couldn’t overlook the coincidence of a photo submission of a finger amputation (amputation submissions in general are extremely rare) on Self-Injury Awareness day.

In my many years of involvement in this community, I have met and talked to a lot of amputees. Some of whom had the most sane justifications for their choice to amputate a part of themselves. So justified, in fact, that there was no question it was a modification and a sane decision for them. Others I met were a little bit more questionable in their level of mental stability, but still managed to make me feel like this modification was the right choice for them.

Then there is a small minority, people who I might dare call insane, who hate themselves and are slowly cutting away bits of them selves in a hateful fashion. Those people obviously fall into the mutilation category.

So to me, amputation and pretty much any body mod for that matter is neither modification nor mutilation 100% of the time. It is the owner of these mods and their decision making process that, to me, determine whether something is a modification or a mutilation, or to keep with the theme of the day, a modification or a self-injury.

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So I ask you, the modblog readers, where do you draw the line between modification and mutilation?  To answer that question, see unwrapped photos of this amputation and learn what other non-major (but far sweeter) holiday today is, keep on keeping on.

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These photos were submitted  by Devo238, for whom I could not find any contact info on. If Devo238 sees this and wants to provide me some information on it, please shoot me an email.

So what do you guys think, modification or mutilation? Share your thoughts in the comments section, I like hearing where everyone stands.

PS: Besides being Self-Injury Awareness Day today is also (in the states at least) National Pancake Day, so when your done reading modblog why not head over to IHOP and get some free pancakes?

Comments

124 responses to “Another one for Self-Injury Awareness Day, or is it?”

  1. HelloLion Avatar
    HelloLion

    As someone who used to self-harm, I am so glad nothing I ever did left a scar. On the other hand, I still have a scar from a piercing and it doesn’t bother me at all; I sort of cherish the little mark of what it once was. I’ve watched people go through lengths to hide the evidence of self-harm, and I’d say this is one of the deciding factors for me; regret.

  2. HelloLion Avatar
    HelloLion

    As someone who used to self-harm, I am so glad nothing I ever did left a scar. On the other hand, I still have a scar from a piercing and it doesn’t bother me at all; I sort of cherish the little mark of what it once was. I’ve watched people go through lengths to hide the evidence of self-harm, and I’d say this is one of the deciding factors for me; regret.

  3. HelloLion Avatar
    HelloLion

    As someone who used to self-harm, I am so glad nothing I ever did left a scar. On the other hand, I still have a scar from a piercing and it doesn’t bother me at all; I sort of cherish the little mark of what it once was. I’ve watched people go through lengths to hide the evidence of self-harm, and I’d say this is one of the deciding factors for me; regret.

  4. HelloLion Avatar
    HelloLion

    As someone who used to self-harm, I am so glad nothing I ever did left a scar. On the other hand, I still have a scar from a piercing and it doesn’t bother me at all; I sort of cherish the little mark of what it once was. I’ve watched people go through lengths to hide the evidence of self-harm, and I’d say this is one of the deciding factors for me; regret.

  5. Krista Avatar
    Krista

    I’m with the mutilation, this is one thing I don’t understand but am trying to

    I used to do self harm and I did leave A LOT of deep scars that will never go away

  6. Krista Avatar
    Krista

    I’m with the mutilation, this is one thing I don’t understand but am trying to

    I used to do self harm and I did leave A LOT of deep scars that will never go away

  7. Krista Avatar
    Krista

    I’m with the mutilation, this is one thing I don’t understand but am trying to

    I used to do self harm and I did leave A LOT of deep scars that will never go away

  8. Krista Avatar
    Krista

    I’m with the mutilation, this is one thing I don’t understand but am trying to

    I used to do self harm and I did leave A LOT of deep scars that will never go away

  9. John Avatar
    John

    On March15th, I attempted to amputate my pinky. I had it all staged and could explain it as an accident with an axe in the back yard. I had my pinky on the tree limb that had yet to move into the limb pile. I rested the axe across the middle phalynx of my pinky for several seconds. When I raised the axe to make the chop it landed on my pinky below the middle knuckle breaking the bone and creating only a half-inch open wound.
    I think for a moment I was shocked as to how easy it really was to break a bone.

    I think I’m sure I will try again. The doctor was having problem setting the break so I had surgery the next day to insert two pins on either side of my finger. More than a week later one of the pins came out and had to be replaced. That required one more surgery. My hand is still wrapped up from the last surgery.

    I was looking at my ring finger as it sticks out beyond the the wrapping on my hand. I crossed my mind that I could cut the distal joint of my ring finger off. I’m just trying to determine how.

    And suggestions??

  10. John Avatar
    John

    On March15th, I attempted to amputate my pinky. I had it all staged and could explain it as an accident with an axe in the back yard. I had my pinky on the tree limb that had yet to move into the limb pile. I rested the axe across the middle phalynx of my pinky for several seconds. When I raised the axe to make the chop it landed on my pinky below the middle knuckle breaking the bone and creating only a half-inch open wound.
    I think for a moment I was shocked as to how easy it really was to break a bone.

    I think I’m sure I will try again. The doctor was having problem setting the break so I had surgery the next day to insert two pins on either side of my finger. More than a week later one of the pins came out and had to be replaced. That required one more surgery. My hand is still wrapped up from the last surgery.

    I was looking at my ring finger as it sticks out beyond the the wrapping on my hand. I crossed my mind that I could cut the distal joint of my ring finger off. I’m just trying to determine how.

    And suggestions??

  11. John Avatar
    John

    On March15th, I attempted to amputate my pinky. I had it all staged and could explain it as an accident with an axe in the back yard. I had my pinky on the tree limb that had yet to move into the limb pile. I rested the axe across the middle phalynx of my pinky for several seconds. When I raised the axe to make the chop it landed on my pinky below the middle knuckle breaking the bone and creating only a half-inch open wound.
    I think for a moment I was shocked as to how easy it really was to break a bone.

    I think I’m sure I will try again. The doctor was having problem setting the break so I had surgery the next day to insert two pins on either side of my finger. More than a week later one of the pins came out and had to be replaced. That required one more surgery. My hand is still wrapped up from the last surgery.

    I was looking at my ring finger as it sticks out beyond the the wrapping on my hand. I crossed my mind that I could cut the distal joint of my ring finger off. I’m just trying to determine how.

    And suggestions??

  12. John Avatar
    John

    On March15th, I attempted to amputate my pinky. I had it all staged and could explain it as an accident with an axe in the back yard. I had my pinky on the tree limb that had yet to move into the limb pile. I rested the axe across the middle phalynx of my pinky for several seconds. When I raised the axe to make the chop it landed on my pinky below the middle knuckle breaking the bone and creating only a half-inch open wound.
    I think for a moment I was shocked as to how easy it really was to break a bone.

    I think I’m sure I will try again. The doctor was having problem setting the break so I had surgery the next day to insert two pins on either side of my finger. More than a week later one of the pins came out and had to be replaced. That required one more surgery. My hand is still wrapped up from the last surgery.

    I was looking at my ring finger as it sticks out beyond the the wrapping on my hand. I crossed my mind that I could cut the distal joint of my ring finger off. I’m just trying to determine how.

    And suggestions??

  13. John Avatar
    John

    Had I been successful, the my pinky stump on my left hand would have looked alot like Devo238′s. I think it’s cool!!

  14. John Avatar
    John

    Had I been successful, the my pinky stump on my left hand would have looked alot like Devo238′s. I think it’s cool!!

  15. John Avatar
    John

    Had I been successful, the my pinky stump on my left hand would have looked alot like Devo238′s. I think it’s cool!!

  16. John Avatar
    John

    Had I been successful, the my pinky stump on my left hand would have looked alot like Devo238′s. I think it’s cool!!

  17. desu Avatar
    desu

    I really don’t have anything against any kind of bodymodding. But amputation, I really don’t get it. But I don’t have anything against it either. I guess anyone can do just anything with their bodies and I’m not one to judge. If amputation makes you happy, then you do it.

  18. desu Avatar
    desu

    I really don’t have anything against any kind of bodymodding. But amputation, I really don’t get it. But I don’t have anything against it either. I guess anyone can do just anything with their bodies and I’m not one to judge. If amputation makes you happy, then you do it.

  19. desu Avatar
    desu

    I really don’t have anything against any kind of bodymodding. But amputation, I really don’t get it. But I don’t have anything against it either. I guess anyone can do just anything with their bodies and I’m not one to judge. If amputation makes you happy, then you do it.

  20. desu Avatar
    desu

    I really don’t have anything against any kind of bodymodding. But amputation, I really don’t get it. But I don’t have anything against it either. I guess anyone can do just anything with their bodies and I’m not one to judge. If amputation makes you happy, then you do it.

  21. j Avatar
    j

    Seems a lot more like xenomelia, “the dysphoric feeling that one or more limbs of one’s body do not belong to one’s self.”

  22. j Avatar
    j

    Seems a lot more like xenomelia, “the dysphoric feeling that one or more limbs of one’s body do not belong to one’s self.”

  23. j Avatar
    j

    Seems a lot more like xenomelia, “the dysphoric feeling that one or more limbs of one’s body do not belong to one’s self.”

  24. j Avatar
    j

    Seems a lot more like xenomelia, “the dysphoric feeling that one or more limbs of one’s body do not belong to one’s self.”

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