A black-and-white photo of a person mid-air in a Superman-style body suspension pose, supported by multiple hooks in their back and legs, smiling joyfully toward the camera. They are suspended horizontally in a large indoor space with high ceilings and visible rigging. A group of onlookers—some seated, some standing—watch with expressions of admiration, amusement, and support. The atmosphere is lively and communal, capturing a moment of shared experience and transformation.

…and Wednesday too

There’s something to be said for subtlety.  A lot of times we focus on the big picture, bright bold images of drastic modification.  Don’t get me wrong, I love those images as much as the next person, but sometimes I like to see an image that is subdued.

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Looking at this image from Altered Designs you may not even notice any modifications.  I know I didn’t.  I took me almost a full minute to see the anchors on her back for corseting.  Once I saw them of course, I couldn’t miss them again.  The photo, and the piercing job, combined to make this image both about the modification, and not at all about it.  Just because this woman doesn’t have the most noticeable mods we’ve ever seen on ModBlog, it doesn’t detract at all from quality of the image.

You see, as much as I love seeing modifications that can best be described as being on a large scale, a nuanced image like this can really remind me that modifications aren’t just about getting the biggest and best.  They’re about altering your body to the way you want.  I’m not going to go on about that point, as I covered it yesterday, but you can see in this image a person whose mods are visible, yet they blend in with her.  They have become an extension of who she is, and we can look past the superficial trappings of modern expectations towards modifications, and see her for who she is:  A woman who just happens to have mods as part of who she is.

Personally I had a moment a few years ago when someone asked me a question about one of my tattoos.  For a moment I was puzzled at the question.  Not about the question itself, but the fact that I had completely forgot that the tattoo wasn’t always there.  I have had it so long, it is just my skin to me.  My mod has become just a natural extension of of my self, to the point that I can’t remember what it was like before then.  So when faced with a question about it, I blanked simply because it seemed odd to me that someone would ask me a question about something that to me had felt like it was always there.

Have you had a moment like that?  The first time you realized that your mods have become a permanent extension of yourself and you forgot that they were even there?

Comments

32 responses to “…and Wednesday too”

  1. MoseZ Avatar

    Almost every time I knock a piece of jewelry out when getting out of the shower, drying off. I’ve broken and lost so much jewelry down the drain that way.

  2. MoseZ Avatar

    Almost every time I knock a piece of jewelry out when getting out of the shower, drying off. I’ve broken and lost so much jewelry down the drain that way.

  3. MoseZ Avatar

    Almost every time I knock a piece of jewelry out when getting out of the shower, drying off. I’ve broken and lost so much jewelry down the drain that way.

  4. MoseZ Avatar

    Almost every time I knock a piece of jewelry out when getting out of the shower, drying off. I’ve broken and lost so much jewelry down the drain that way.

  5. UnconventionalLove Avatar

    Gorgeous pic!

    Sometimes I will notice elderly folks giving me strange looks, and it takes me a minute to catch on “Oh yea, I have tattoos and piercings!” haha. It’s ok though, they’ll be dead soon anyways 😛

  6. UnconventionalLove Avatar

    Gorgeous pic!

    Sometimes I will notice elderly folks giving me strange looks, and it takes me a minute to catch on “Oh yea, I have tattoos and piercings!” haha. It’s ok though, they’ll be dead soon anyways 😛

  7. UnconventionalLove Avatar

    Gorgeous pic!

    Sometimes I will notice elderly folks giving me strange looks, and it takes me a minute to catch on “Oh yea, I have tattoos and piercings!” haha. It’s ok though, they’ll be dead soon anyways 😛

  8. UnconventionalLove Avatar

    Gorgeous pic!

    Sometimes I will notice elderly folks giving me strange looks, and it takes me a minute to catch on “Oh yea, I have tattoos and piercings!” haha. It’s ok though, they’ll be dead soon anyways 😛

  9. Detectable Avatar
    Detectable

    I usually sleep on my back, cant imagine having something like that 😀 Still, looks great

  10. Detectable Avatar
    Detectable

    I usually sleep on my back, cant imagine having something like that 😀 Still, looks great

  11. Detectable Avatar
    Detectable

    I usually sleep on my back, cant imagine having something like that 😀 Still, looks great

  12. Detectable Avatar
    Detectable

    I usually sleep on my back, cant imagine having something like that 😀 Still, looks great

  13. Duncan Domingue Avatar
    Duncan Domingue

    Every old photo of me looks weird without my piercings. Also, I tend to forget I have a tattoo on my back and am excited every time I see it and remember it’s there!

  14. Duncan Domingue Avatar
    Duncan Domingue

    Every old photo of me looks weird without my piercings. Also, I tend to forget I have a tattoo on my back and am excited every time I see it and remember it’s there!

  15. Duncan Domingue Avatar
    Duncan Domingue

    Every old photo of me looks weird without my piercings. Also, I tend to forget I have a tattoo on my back and am excited every time I see it and remember it’s there!

  16. Duncan Domingue Avatar
    Duncan Domingue

    Every old photo of me looks weird without my piercings. Also, I tend to forget I have a tattoo on my back and am excited every time I see it and remember it’s there!

  17. AlteredDesigns Avatar
    AlteredDesigns

    They’re actually no problem to sleep with on your back 🙂 I’m a back sleeper most of the time.

    Thanks!

  18. AlteredDesigns Avatar
    AlteredDesigns

    They’re actually no problem to sleep with on your back 🙂 I’m a back sleeper most of the time.

    Thanks!

  19. AlteredDesigns Avatar
    AlteredDesigns

    They’re actually no problem to sleep with on your back 🙂 I’m a back sleeper most of the time.

    Thanks!

  20. AlteredDesigns Avatar
    AlteredDesigns

    They’re actually no problem to sleep with on your back 🙂 I’m a back sleeper most of the time.

    Thanks!

  21. José Carrilho Avatar

    Hi,

    I never imagined myself having a tattoo or even less a pircing, but I do like to see them when there’s good taste and they’re aesthetically pleasant.
    I’m of the opinion that something like that should be made not to follow a trend, but because the “victim” 🙂 feels that he or she should do it, either to pass a message, or because it finds aesthetically pleasant, for insteance.

    José

  22. José Carrilho Avatar

    Hi,

    I never imagined myself having a tattoo or even less a pircing, but I do like to see them when there’s good taste and they’re aesthetically pleasant.
    I’m of the opinion that something like that should be made not to follow a trend, but because the “victim” 🙂 feels that he or she should do it, either to pass a message, or because it finds aesthetically pleasant, for insteance.

    José

  23. José Carrilho Avatar

    Hi,

    I never imagined myself having a tattoo or even less a pircing, but I do like to see them when there’s good taste and they’re aesthetically pleasant.
    I’m of the opinion that something like that should be made not to follow a trend, but because the “victim” 🙂 feels that he or she should do it, either to pass a message, or because it finds aesthetically pleasant, for insteance.

    José

  24. José Carrilho Avatar

    Hi,

    I never imagined myself having a tattoo or even less a pircing, but I do like to see them when there’s good taste and they’re aesthetically pleasant.
    I’m of the opinion that something like that should be made not to follow a trend, but because the “victim” 🙂 feels that he or she should do it, either to pass a message, or because it finds aesthetically pleasant, for insteance.

    José

  25. peteD3 Avatar
    peteD3

    even better are the mods that are a part of you before you get them

  26. peteD3 Avatar
    peteD3

    even better are the mods that are a part of you before you get them

  27. peteD3 Avatar
    peteD3

    even better are the mods that are a part of you before you get them

  28. peteD3 Avatar
    peteD3

    even better are the mods that are a part of you before you get them

  29. Stormchaser Avatar

    quite puzzled how you not cn see these beautiful anchors… But Ok, i always look, if there are nice anchors, or surface piercings in anyones back, as I like my own there. PS.: Usually I am aware of my piercings, I like to see, feel them. Now I had to give up my arm-siver-chains after long time.I still feel them sometimes – as these piercings were real body parts (and it was strange enough to see them being removable after all, but due to the reason I had to remove them, chronic infection, inflammation)

  30. Stormchaser Avatar

    quite puzzled how you not cn see these beautiful anchors… But Ok, i always look, if there are nice anchors, or surface piercings in anyones back, as I like my own there. PS.: Usually I am aware of my piercings, I like to see, feel them. Now I had to give up my arm-siver-chains after long time.I still feel them sometimes – as these piercings were real body parts (and it was strange enough to see them being removable after all, but due to the reason I had to remove them, chronic infection, inflammation)

  31. Stormchaser Avatar

    quite puzzled how you not cn see these beautiful anchors… But Ok, i always look, if there are nice anchors, or surface piercings in anyones back, as I like my own there. PS.: Usually I am aware of my piercings, I like to see, feel them. Now I had to give up my arm-siver-chains after long time.I still feel them sometimes – as these piercings were real body parts (and it was strange enough to see them being removable after all, but due to the reason I had to remove them, chronic infection, inflammation)

  32. Stormchaser Avatar

    quite puzzled how you not cn see these beautiful anchors… But Ok, i always look, if there are nice anchors, or surface piercings in anyones back, as I like my own there. PS.: Usually I am aware of my piercings, I like to see, feel them. Now I had to give up my arm-siver-chains after long time.I still feel them sometimes – as these piercings were real body parts (and it was strange enough to see them being removable after all, but due to the reason I had to remove them, chronic infection, inflammation)

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