A black-and-white photo of a person mid-air in a Superman-style body suspension pose, supported by multiple hooks in their back and legs, smiling joyfully toward the camera. They are suspended horizontally in a large indoor space with high ceilings and visible rigging. A group of onlookers—some seated, some standing—watch with expressions of admiration, amusement, and support. The atmosphere is lively and communal, capturing a moment of shared experience and transformation.

Beauty over harm

Tami sent me these pictures of a nice scarification piece done by JesseV at Thrive Studios in Cambridge.

I immediately noticed the scars behind her new scarification piece, and assumed you guys would too. Rather than let myself or the commenters make assumptions, I went on and asked her about them.

They are clearly self harm scars, self injury was something that I struggled with for the better part of the last 10 years. It has now been a year since I have hurt myself, and since I first learned about scarification (about 5 years ago) I had decided that someday I want something done to cover up the scars. Not that the scars were embarrasing, but it was just uncomfortable to me to have perfect strangers asking about them, and when I would reply that was just the way my skin was people seemed to be offended.

I have always liked the look of scars and decided that I wanted one that actually looked nice and wanted to show to people. It seemed to make more sense to me to cover up or disguise the existing scars with another scar instead of a tattoo.

To me, this is a perfect example of what body modification can be, an opportunity to reclaim one’s body. This piece turned  something negative into something positive and beautiful and that, to me, is a big part  of why I love body mods so much.

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Fore a few more shots, keep on keeping on.

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Comments

39 responses to “Beauty over harm”

  1. hate_is_man Avatar
    hate_is_man

    itll be interesting to see what the scars turn out like since they’re going through other scars

  2. Colin. Avatar
    Colin.

    This is beautiful.

  3. Monoceros Avatar
    Monoceros

    Lovely! One of the best pieces I’ve seen. I’m so glad for her!

  4. ike urbaniak Avatar
    ike urbaniak

    Want to see what this heals like. Very interested in doing this.

  5. Shifty_Sway Avatar
    Shifty_Sway

    Really great post for many reasons.

    Nice work.

  6. Brendan Avatar

    looks so good!

  7. Stembot Avatar

    Beautiful story

  8. Brittney Avatar
    Brittney

    YAY for Jesse!!

    This has been one of my favourite posts in a while. Not only is the piece gorgeous, but the story is as well. This was wonderful!

  9. LABL_CTA Avatar
    LABL_CTA

    This is really beautiful in many ways. The contrast between the old and new scars will be interesting.

  10. Celestial Avatar
    Celestial

    Great story and a stunning piece! Really well done.

  11. Aja Avatar
    Aja

    hoping we get to see what it looks like healed, whether or not the other scars interfere too badly. This is something I’ve been considering doing for a long time so hopefully it turns out beautifully.

    Congrats on a year Tami

  12. Kat Avatar
    Kat

    This is beautiful in every way possible.

  13. connorforrest Avatar
    connorforrest

    jesse’s such a chill mate (:

  14. connorforrest Avatar
    connorforrest

    jesse’s such a chill mate (:

  15. AbbY Avatar

    beautifulllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllll

  16. nikk Avatar

    man im excited to see how that heals

    sean please post updates on it!!!!

  17. Jackie Avatar
    Jackie

    i also want to see how it heals. i’m considering getting a similar scarification over old si scars.

  18. hairy_testicles Avatar
    hairy_testicles

    great story, nice work, beautiful young lady…i too would love to see a healed version…

  19. Dimruthien Avatar

    I also have self-injury scars on my arm and I want something very similar, but not covering my old SI scars. I have decided to keep one arm as my “scar arm” and have the other arm to have similar designs tattooed on. The same, but different 🙂

  20. Dimruthien Avatar

    Oh, and congratulations on one year 🙂 Every day, week, month and year is a milestone, and you should be really proud of yourself and your achievements!

  21. press_corpse Avatar
    press_corpse

    really beautiful, good to see you’re a survivor.

  22. Insideout Avatar
    Insideout

    Gorgeous work on a gorgeous person

  23. Céline Avatar

    i love the story behind it

  24. Ich Avatar
    Ich

    Its kinda like a scarification cover-up…though don’t know if it could have been possible to include the old scars in the design.

  25. Ich Avatar
    Ich

    ok alright it already says so in the text…first reading then posting…

  26. redredred Avatar
    redredred

    That scars-over-scars-thing is romantic.

  27. Zoe Avatar
    Zoe

    Ive been thinking of getting a scarification to cover bad SI scars. Im extremely happy for this lady and Id love to see some healed pics. If I DO go ahead with the SI cover up, Ill be sure to submit them here 🙂

  28. encanta Avatar

    I love these kinds of posts. <3 It’s beautiful.

  29. jewels-sale Avatar
    jewels-sale

    i love u tami, keep updating me on pics <3 its gorgeous

  30. JustJen Avatar

    It looks fantastic. Like most of the other commenters, I’d love to see photos of it healed!

  31. PETEd3 Avatar
    PETEd3

    WOW! what a wonderful thing

  32. analise Avatar
    analise

    wonderful post/idea!

    congrats on the one year, i’ve lost count of how long it’s been for me but i remember all the times i kept tallies and how good it felt to pass a certain milestone =)

  33. Katie Avatar

    Lovely!
    I hope I can do a similar thing with the SI scars I have on my legs.

    What a great post!

  34. Xenobiologista Avatar

    Don’t have any experience with self mutilation or depression so it may be a bit presumptuous of me to ask, but if a person like this becomes depressed again in the future, do the ornamental scars help as a reminder not to self harm again?

  35. Anya Avatar
    Anya

    Good question, fiudgfuiwdfhuio, but better still, I think she’s all fixed now.

  36. .caitlin. Avatar
    .caitlin.

    How wonderful to see something that seems to be resonating positively with so many members of the community 🙂
    This is beautiful, and like everyone else I would be very interested in seeing how it heals!

  37. gav tatu Avatar
    gav tatu

    great to see you smiling so beautifully !

  38. Whitney Avatar

    This is beautiful, and something I was just thinking of as I came across it. I too would love to see updates on this, especially to see it once it is healed, and I am also considering doing the same thing over my scars.

  39. Amanda Avatar
    Amanda

    Congratulations on your 1 year! Stay strong! I’ve almost made it a full year.
    I’m obsessed with the texture of scars which makes stopping harder because when the old scars get flat I want to make new ones so I can feel them again.
    I love the idea of scarification and would love one day to try it .

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