A black-and-white photo of a person mid-air in a Superman-style body suspension pose, supported by multiple hooks in their back and legs, smiling joyfully toward the camera. They are suspended horizontally in a large indoor space with high ceilings and visible rigging. A group of onlookers—some seated, some standing—watch with expressions of admiration, amusement, and support. The atmosphere is lively and communal, capturing a moment of shared experience and transformation.

Goodbye to you my trusted friend

I saw this tattoo submitted by April_Eileen and knew I had to post it.  While I’m certain this is a memorial tattoo it seemed fitting since my best friend moved away yesterday.  I’ve been feeling pretty sad and this tattoo summed up how I feel quite well.  Luckily, my best friend is only a 3 hour drive away so I will see her, just nowhere near as often.  I can certainly relate to the sentiment of permanent goodbyes as well.  The tattoo was inked by AJ Pell in Fredericksburg, VA.

I have to say, the lettering on this tattoo is fabulous.  I love the soft colour and the watery look of it.  Perfect choice.

Comments

46 responses to “Goodbye to you my trusted friend”

  1. Paul Avatar

    Beautiful, its moving, and i can totally understand the emotions behind it.
    all the best =]
    Paul x

  2. Paul Avatar

    Beautiful, its moving, and i can totally understand the emotions behind it.
    all the best =]
    Paul x

  3. Ian McKown Avatar

    underdone. will not loko good or read well in the lettering in a few years. nice sentiment though

  4. Ian McKown Avatar

    underdone. will not loko good or read well in the lettering in a few years. nice sentiment though

  5. STEDIE Avatar
    STEDIE

    This had better be a Converge reference!

  6. STEDIE Avatar
    STEDIE

    This had better be a Converge reference!

  7. AbbY Avatar

    beautiful and meaning ful. AbbY

  8. AbbY Avatar

    beautiful and meaning ful. AbbY

  9. rachel Avatar
    rachel

    Nice idea, but that lettering won’t hold up to the test of time. And the bird are very blah.

  10. rachel Avatar
    rachel

    Nice idea, but that lettering won’t hold up to the test of time. And the bird are very blah.

  11. bri Avatar
    bri

    i think the lettering looks kinda ghetto in comparison to the rest of it. some parts look darker than the rest. i would make it more bold. but that’s just me.

  12. bri Avatar
    bri

    i think the lettering looks kinda ghetto in comparison to the rest of it. some parts look darker than the rest. i would make it more bold. but that’s just me.

  13. ScottNash Avatar
    ScottNash

    I hate to be cynical of other people’s bodies, But purely aesthetically, the mole throws this whole piece off for me.

  14. ScottNash Avatar
    ScottNash

    I hate to be cynical of other people’s bodies, But purely aesthetically, the mole throws this whole piece off for me.

  15. SS Avatar
    SS

    @6 – same here. I feel like the placement of the tattoo should’ve been different because of that

    I think the lettering would’ve been better had the lines been darker, like the lining on the birds.

  16. SS Avatar
    SS

    @6 – same here. I feel like the placement of the tattoo should’ve been different because of that

    I think the lettering would’ve been better had the lines been darker, like the lining on the birds.

  17. VOMIT Avatar

    The birds are alright, but I really dislike the lettering

  18. VOMIT Avatar

    The birds are alright, but I really dislike the lettering

  19. Tom Avatar
    Tom

    It’s a sparklehorse lyric. Very sad : (

  20. Tom Avatar
    Tom

    It’s a sparklehorse lyric. Very sad : (

  21. shean Avatar
    shean

    is it just me or does the lettering look like it was done before?
    the birds are the only part that look irritated

  22. shean Avatar
    shean

    is it just me or does the lettering look like it was done before?
    the birds are the only part that look irritated

  23. Noemi Avatar

    I think the lettering is faded because it’s older, and the birds are new.

  24. Noemi Avatar

    I think the lettering is faded because it’s older, and the birds are new.

  25. Jules Avatar
    Jules

    It somehow reminds me of Kurt Halsey and his drawings.

  26. Jules Avatar
    Jules

    It somehow reminds me of Kurt Halsey and his drawings.

  27. JD Avatar
    JD

    Sloppy lettering. Compare the weight of the lines in the “y” to any of the others letters. Did the “artiste” decide to design a font as he went along? Look at the four “o”(s), all different.

  28. JD Avatar
    JD

    Sloppy lettering. Compare the weight of the lines in the “y” to any of the others letters. Did the “artiste” decide to design a font as he went along? Look at the four “o”(s), all different.

  29. Xenobiologista Avatar

    @JD: I don’t think it’s a font, I think it’s copied from handwriting.

    Anybody have any idea if the pink-outlined stars on the shoulder are actually pink/red ink, or is that blood (e.g. from being tattooed with a fluorescent ink that’s not visible in daylight)?

  30. Xenobiologista Avatar

    @JD: I don’t think it’s a font, I think it’s copied from handwriting.

    Anybody have any idea if the pink-outlined stars on the shoulder are actually pink/red ink, or is that blood (e.g. from being tattooed with a fluorescent ink that’s not visible in daylight)?

  31. Marjolein Avatar

    It’s probably a Sparklehorse/Mark Linkous memorial.
    Mark Linkous, the frontman, songwriter and multi-instrumnetalist of the band, killed himself 3.5 months ago.
    Sich of Goodbyes is a song off their “Good Morning, Spider” album.

  32. Marjolein Avatar

    It’s probably a Sparklehorse/Mark Linkous memorial.
    Mark Linkous, the frontman, songwriter and multi-instrumnetalist of the band, killed himself 3.5 months ago.
    Sich of Goodbyes is a song off their “Good Morning, Spider” album.

  33. Jen Avatar

    I kind of want to hear the song now.

    The pink around the stars is tattooed that way, a pink shade, at least that’s what it looks like to me.

    I also don’t think the lettering is that colour because it’s faded, I think it was intended to look like it was watery. I could be wrong but it looks to me like it was intended to look like watered down brush strokes. It reminds me of some of the Japanese calligraphy fonts I have on my computer.

  34. Jen Avatar

    I kind of want to hear the song now.

    The pink around the stars is tattooed that way, a pink shade, at least that’s what it looks like to me.

    I also don’t think the lettering is that colour because it’s faded, I think it was intended to look like it was watery. I could be wrong but it looks to me like it was intended to look like watered down brush strokes. It reminds me of some of the Japanese calligraphy fonts I have on my computer.

  35. apostf Avatar
    apostf

    looks like Sparklehorse.

  36. apostf Avatar
    apostf

    looks like Sparklehorse.

  37. Nat Avatar

    I was also thinking this was a Converge reference.

  38. Nat Avatar

    I was also thinking this was a Converge reference.

  39. oppositronic Avatar
    oppositronic

    kind of looks like it was designed in MS Word ’96

  40. oppositronic Avatar
    oppositronic

    kind of looks like it was designed in MS Word ’96

  41. PC Avatar
    PC

    6: Are you sure you meant to say ghetto?

    Anyways, I like the font.

  42. PC Avatar
    PC

    6: Are you sure you meant to say ghetto?

    Anyways, I like the font.

  43. resilient Avatar

    Love Converge. Don’t care too much for this.

  44. resilient Avatar

    Love Converge. Don’t care too much for this.

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