A black-and-white photo of a person mid-air in a Superman-style body suspension pose, supported by multiple hooks in their back and legs, smiling joyfully toward the camera. They are suspended horizontally in a large indoor space with high ceilings and visible rigging. A group of onlookers—some seated, some standing—watch with expressions of admiration, amusement, and support. The atmosphere is lively and communal, capturing a moment of shared experience and transformation.

Stretched Lobes and Frostbite: A Cautionary Tale


Be warned: This is a pretty grisly story, and the photos after the jump are not pretty. We’ll let the gentleman pictured above take it away:

“It’s a chilly Saturday morning and snowboarding sounded like precisely what the day needed. Unfortunatly, the closest New Hampshire mountain was a bone chilling -14 degrees with a 30 mph wind chill. But did this stop me? Nahhh. I packed up and a friend and I headed up to good ole NH for some morning/afternoon shredding.

“After approximately five or six hours of being blasted in the face with negative-degree weather, I thought not feeling my ears was a side effect of just being a bit under-dressed for the occasion — no big deal …

“VERY BIG DEAL. Getting home, I noticed my lobes — or whatever skin I had from my 1 1/4″ stretched lobes — was frozen solid. Literally, to the touch, frozen, and to make it better? The bottom skin was black. So I, being the smart person I am, decided to just go sleep and let them defrost. Wrong again. I woke up a few hours later and noticed some bleeding, some liquid discharge, and some ripping. Forcing the plug out was no easy task, by any means; they were basically frozen to my skin. Finally, after getting them both off, I popped a seemingly gross mid-sized bubble of liquidy stuff and the skin just peeled off like a grape … revealing fresh, bare, bleeding skin.

“Noticing a pattern here, I decided to go to the ER and try to get Medicare, because in this situation, of course, I don’t have any insurance. That’d be ridiculous, right? All the nurses were shocked my earlobes were still attached, as if they would’ve just fallen right off my face for some reason. Basically, the worst day ever. I am not allowed to wear any earrings for about three months to see if anything heals itself or if they have to re-construct or just cut the lobe off.

Don’t go outside and risk life and — literally — limb. Be cautious. That’s my moral for this story.

Comments

116 responses to “Stretched Lobes and Frostbite: A Cautionary Tale”

  1. Dimruthien Avatar
    Dimruthien

    It’s times like these I’m glad I live in the tropics!

  2. cardboardfrog Avatar
    cardboardfrog

    the only thing i can think to say is:
    ‘EWWWWWWWW’

  3. Peter Avatar
    Peter

    LOL at ^41

  4. Philipp Avatar
    Philipp

    yummy they look like candysnakes

  5. Day Avatar
    Day

    Love the idea with the babysocks, though the first thing that came to my mind was to invent some freaky, battery-powered heated plugs for the winter. How cool would that be (pun not intended…)

  6. Dean Farrar Avatar

    hes natrally ugly i just think freckles are ugly

    and ooo bad ears

  7. Barinthus Avatar
    Barinthus

    Lobes frozen solid? Black skin? I think the first hint to go to a doctor or ER was etheir of those things. Thats like fracturing a bone and sleeping it off to see if it’ll set itself.

  8. Kaitlin Avatar
    Kaitlin

    for winter sports i wear solid kaos then a beanie, earmuffs, then goggles and a bandana over my face and tucked into my goggles in the back..

    fuck getting frost bite

  9. Kati Avatar
    Kati

    Having just made the transition from Fl to NY, the frozen plug has been a fun battle. Bandanas worn through eyelets to keep them up and your plugs close to the sides of your head. My wife knit me a wee teeny pair of plugs to put inside my eyelets to block the wind and keep in body heat. We’ve been messing around with putting little slips of those instant pocket warmers in the middle to give it a kick. Maybe not such a bad idea…

  10. Joni the Finn Avatar
    Joni the Finn

    I live in northern Finland where -14 degrees in wintertime is not even chilly 😀 I was on a shortfilm project that was filmed outside and it was about -25 to -28 degrees, but I managed by wearing smaller jewelry, a warm hat and my hood pulled over my head. And you can forget about wearing titanium or stainless steel because they are a suicide on cold weather.

  11. cookie Avatar
    cookie

    lol @ #52 troll.

    I think freckles are cute.

    I feel really bad about those lobes. Living in Michigan, mine get really cold too. So far I just wear Kaos earskins and hats, and I’m fine. His lobes look like they were so healthy before they got the frostbite =[ It makes me sad when things like this happen to people with nice lobes.

  12. pastille Avatar

    Well if it’s frozen outside just take your jewelry out,it will help a lot cause there will be more blood pressure going trough your lobes!…

    Personnaly i wear 35mm plugs and i take them off when the weather is cold and i never had any trouble!
    You can also rub a little oil on them,can help too!

    It sucks to loose lobes,that’s my nightmare!

    😉

  13. Kristen Avatar
    Kristen

    That’s no joke, man. I have a friend whose lobe is in two pieces thanks to frostbite. Turned black like his, and then broke in two. Be careful friends, and make sure to cover your ears!!!

  14. joe Avatar
    joe

    #31 totally agreed, If you have large lobes like that I’d like to believe you would know better than going into exetreme cold like that without having them atleast covered if not wearing no jewelry. Sorry for your lobes dude but

  15. johnkid Avatar
    johnkid

    yea 31 and 64. i totally agree. i feel bad for you man, but that was stupid. im sure its a mistake he wont make again.

  16. zoewarriner Avatar
    zoewarriner

    I agree, I was prepared for more shocking pictures.
    I’m so happy it never gets that cold in North East England 🙂
    And lmao at number 42 ^_^

  17. De Avatar
    De

    OWWWYYY

    I don’t wear metal plugs in the winter. It gets cold here (in Buffalo…) and just experiencing not even 10 minutes of cold combined with the feeling of frozen metal and my skin made me think uhmmm… this probably isn’t good. So I switched to Acrylic for the time being…

  18. mucus marcus Avatar
    mucus marcus

    sorry but when i clicked thru i was expecting worse…

    when did pink and swollen w/ a little blood become ‘grisly’?

  19. Ctz Avatar
    Ctz

    Jackass

    That’s all I can say when I see stuff like this
    You live where it gets this cold and you have obviously had stretched lobes for a while, you didn’t think twice?

  20. Andy Avatar

    If he’s in the US then I assume it’s -14 Farenheit? For Canadians, that’s -25 or so Celcius. We’ve been blasted with that general temperature pretty much across the country lately. Up in Northern Ontario, we’ve been below -30 *before* the wind chill within the last week… It’s ‘orrible.

    Me, I usually take my jewelry out and tuck the lobes under my toque. This will do until the missus knits me custom shaped ear warmers 😉

  21. mutumbo Avatar
    mutumbo

    so rry you had to learn the hard way bud. hoped you will learn something from it

  22. Tom For Real Avatar
    Tom For Real

    Ive Had Similar Problems,Silicone And My Ears Reacting In The Glorious Scottish Weather,The Just Became Really Soft And Started To Scab,No Sign Of Infection Tho 🙁 Had To Remove Em…Bye Bye Inchies 🙁

  23. Andy Gonzo Avatar
    Andy Gonzo

    Dayum, I know when I go out snow boarding I flip my lobes (2 3/4″) up over my ears and wear a hat. I think I would cry if that shit would have happend to me.

  24. Nikki Avatar

    OUCH!
    I worry about that when snowboarding.
    Another harsh lesson :\

  25. Kim Avatar

    My 30mms have fallen foul of this, nowhere near as serious as this poor guy, but after a few days of being stiff to put plugs in, I decided to downsize the left to 28mm, its been fine so far. The right one was ok, but started behaving in the same way, except more painful. I noticed some swelling, took the plug out and noticed a little tear towards the back of the hole, so that one was swiftly taken down to 26mm.

    2 days of sheer panic and vitamin e lotion massages and both are doing well. Hoping to get back up to 30mm in the summer (or the british excuse for a summer…)

    Ive also found that switching to acrylic/natural materials instead of metal in the winter helps (lighter and less easy to conduct heat away from your lobe)

  26. Shoe Avatar
    Shoe

    i always wear a hat outside and no jewllery when its cold. i also think #56 should get over themselves.

  27. Stormchaser Avatar

    OUCH!!!!

    Still…. after reading the description i feared it would look MUCH WORSE. That looks gory, ouch and really unhappy, but also kind of healing properly. Now, there will be quite a loss of diameter, and due to scarring extra hard work to restretch, but that is on the right way. I tohougt about dark purple with a load of black speckles due to completely destroyed vasculature (and that would be the death of the tissue).

    Hearing “frozen literally stiff (good that you didn’t got any hard shock, thay would have broken like ice – they were ice), and seeing stuff on the healing side is not that common.

    Now… -14F, or roughly -26 degrees Centigrade AND Windchill due to movement can cost you non-pierced ears (and not only the lobes) when they are not really well protected. I wonder what the guy thought before riding the board.?! Likely it was not a lot.
    This temperature and sport…. Without proper protection you will lose ears, probably nose, even fingers are in acute danger…. think before…

  28. Laurel Avatar

    Personally, I want to see the guy with baby socks on his lobes.

    But yeah…I always keep a scarf wrapped around my head when it’s cold here. Even if all I’m doing is walking across campus. Yeah Michigan winter!

  29. Syohh Avatar
    Syohh

    I wear a cap over my ears

  30. Sara Avatar
    Sara

    I feel for you dude, but I’d expect more intelligence regarding your mods. It was -35 here with the windchill last week– I dont even have STRETCHED lobes and my ears still get wonky from the cold. Were talking standard size 16 or 14 gauge earrings, 15 of them. I still get near frostbite even just stepping outside with them.

    Leaving your large gauge lobes exposed to the elements for 5 hours? You kind of had it coming :[

  31. Sheldo Avatar

    ouchies 🙁 I can feel that…

  32. candycovered Avatar

    In that sort of weather, I’d have flipped my lobes over my ears and/or worn ear muffs for def.
    I’m always terrified about getting frost bitten lobes.

  33. katy prost Avatar
    katy prost

    #25 TRIP

    BMEshop better get on that ASAP!

  34. hub Avatar
    hub

    I live in alaska and i had this happen one day while out sking, dumb me id woren steel tunnels with out even thinking of the cold, 6 hours later when i got hopemy skin had frozen to my tunnels, and they hurt for 3 weeks easy

  35. acid.free Avatar

    i take my tunnels out if i’m walking outside for more than 5 minuets. over pre-cautious?
    probably. but in my opinion, it’s not worth risking it.

  36. fras Avatar
    fras

    I recently climbed kilimanjaro for a second time (last time with no piercings) and I just decided to take my 16mm out for the whole time, there is no way Id risk anything happening to them….mind you it was -35 when we did the final ascent.

    Even with no earrings in, and being partially covered I still experienced a bit of numbness, especially on the inside of my lobes.

  37. Brittney Avatar
    Brittney

    OWWWW!
    I’m definitely experiencing sympathy pains.

    I make sure that before I set foot outside that I’m wearing my touque with ear flaps. I’m sooo paranoid about fucking up my ears it’s not even funny. I feel bad for this guy.

    I hope they get better! 🙂

  38. Piercerdan Avatar

    I have never understood why anyone would wear their lobe jewelry while boarding. One it gets stupid cold out there with or without a hat sometimes. Two what about taking a bail and losing plugs in the snow? Meh sorry to hear hes having a hard time but i hardly even wear jewelry in winter let alone when going to the mountain.

  39. Xenobiologista Avatar

    I think the battery powered heated plugs are a great idea…although a battery that holds enough charge to keep your ears warm for several hours would either have to be a) pretty big or b) kind of expensive, if I’m not mistaken. Electronics people?

  40. Warren Avatar
    Warren

    I rarely wear jewelry in the winter…glass, steel, titanium, gold, niobium, any metals or glass will damage your ears…organics are alright, silicone is acceptable…not wearing anything is even better.

    Although I think perhaps BMEShop should start investing in developing new head gear for winter purposes…I believe someone was making them before, knitting I believe…toques/hats that had like “ear pouches” for you to slip your ears into to keep warm

  41. jenny Avatar
    jenny

    =O ouch. pretty green eyes though =D very nice

  42. Prism Avatar

    God that sucks so badly.

    I am wearing glass plugs right now in the cold and it’s like 20 to 30 below and it is awful.

  43. Nic Fletcher Avatar

    My condolences. I was worried about the same thing during a recent trip to Korea. I am now a firm believer in Ear Muffs.

  44. AmiiMetalFace Avatar
    AmiiMetalFace

    #72; I’m from Scotland, woohoo!
    I just wear silicone in winter. My ears don’t bode too well in winter, my skin never does, so by the time October rolls around it’s time to bring out the earmuffs!
    I have a have that has earflaps…I wear my silicone tunnels, my earmuffs and then the hat over that.
    Eep. x]

    awww, poor boy and poor lobes. 🙁 hope they heal soon! that’ll teach him though, haha.

  45. Amy Avatar
    Amy

    that’s a much more severe version of what happened to my ears in a snowstorm in Norway. Metal tunnels + snow + being up a freakin mountain + woolly hat that doesnt cover your ears fully = ear pain

  46. Damarus Avatar
    Damarus

    it will heal soon ,in two weeks probably
    so i think there’s nothing to worry about

  47. pretty_pantyhead Avatar
    pretty_pantyhead

    it was -30c earlier today and I WILL NOT go out without a hood AND scarf combo!

  48. Sade Avatar
    Sade

    i only wear silicone when it’s cold, and because i have no earmuffs, i always make sure my hood is over my head.

  49. Garrett xVx Avatar

    That’s a bad day.

  50. Krystine Avatar
    Krystine

    I wouldn’t wear silicone in the winter either, especially if you don’t have a hat.

    I have seen it stick to earlobes in about -2 C weather and it honestly TORE A STRIP off of the inside of the earlobe. It wasn’t on me, thank god, but watching it heal was painful enough!!

    Just wear an earflap toque, people. And find a friend who knits.

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