A black-and-white photo of a person mid-air in a Superman-style body suspension pose, supported by multiple hooks in their back and legs, smiling joyfully toward the camera. They are suspended horizontally in a large indoor space with high ceilings and visible rigging. A group of onlookers—some seated, some standing—watch with expressions of admiration, amusement, and support. The atmosphere is lively and communal, capturing a moment of shared experience and transformation.

This is not self-deprecation, but it is NSFW!

It is not that the Kiva is a worthless cunt, but that the cunt between its legs is worthless to it. This is not self-deprecation!

Comments

86 responses to “This is not self-deprecation, but it is NSFW!”

  1. Tom Avatar
    Tom

    Now I dont know who’s blog is more ‘out there’, bme’s or Kivas….

  2. bradly Avatar
    bradly

    worthless tattoo

  3. kozy Avatar

    she really ought to be sitting on plastic or paper or something :/

    the script is beautiful though. 🙂

  4. Tsarik Avatar

    omg i read the blog since Tom mentioned it.

    i can’t stop laughing. the blog reads like it was written by Golum from Lord of the Rings, only Golum is a now some gimp bitch sex slave. too fucking funny. i realize its probably very serious and that just makes it more funny to me.

    i love the fucked up people. gimmie more

  5. Shaun Avatar
    Shaun

    I love this tattoo.

    LOVE IT.

  6. cassandra.anne Avatar
    cassandra.anne

    I disagree with bradly and Warborn completely; this is a fantastic tattoo, and the owner probably got it because there was deep meaning behind it. There’s no reason to flame it.

    The script is wonderfully done, I commend the artist!

  7. Nemski Avatar
    Nemski

    lovely script, but i feel sorry for her due to the razor rash! 🙁

  8. hardkohr Avatar
    hardkohr

    Mommy.. why does your bo-bo have bad words on it?

  9. Madeline Avatar
    Madeline

    yeah the deep meaning behind it is that she has no self respect and drinks piss. i have to 110% agree with bradly. i couldnt have put it better myself.

  10. iam:Lil Miss Strange Avatar
    iam:Lil Miss Strange

    people who can’t find happiness in self-respect and putting a value to them selfs make me sad.

  11. stephaniellauren Avatar
    stephaniellauren

    Not a fan, don’t care for the tattoo, and somebody needs to learn how to shave.
    That’s just personal though – I’ve never liked vulgar tattoos involving the word “cunt”.

  12. E-Rich Avatar
    E-Rich

    wow just wow, reading her blog is like driving past a horrible car accident, it just can’t look away lol.

  13. brute Avatar

    stephanie–what, you’ve never had razor burn? give me a break.

  14. Caleb Avatar
    Caleb

    Wow,

    That blog was super intense. A warning would have been nice.

    I feel like the majority of people are totally not into that kind of thing, or even reading about it.

  15. brute Avatar

    ps–shouldnt have posted the blog link, roo, she’s just going to get a shitstorm because of it.

  16. RooRaaah Crumbs Avatar
    RooRaaah Crumbs

    brute – Link removed. Didn’t realise it was quite so explicit.

  17. Ashlyn Avatar

    The script is the only thing beautiful about this tattoo.

  18. noah Avatar
    noah

    can someone tell me the name of the blog in question everyone is discussing?

    i would like to read it but i am confused as to how to get there.

  19. Confused Avatar
    Confused

    What’s the link to her blog and why are blog links being censored? Was it offensive or something?

  20. peyton Avatar
    peyton

    seriously modblog, wtf??
    this is censored but the dick a couple entries down isn’t???

  21. Smurf666 Avatar
    Smurf666

    Horrible. I wanna see the blog tho!

  22. peteD3 Avatar
    peteD3

    WAY TO GO KIVA!
    Your Master must be very proud.

    some of these comments are pretty obnoxious, but after looking at thier MySpace & such i just laugh and laugh at them. human beings are so fucking stupid.
    us freaks gotta stand together or we’ll all be destroyed.

  23. heythar Avatar
    heythar

    wow classy stuff.

  24. jessica Avatar
    jessica

    . . are you serious.

  25. cere Avatar

    Repost the link!!!! Or just IM it to me privately if you dont want to repost it.

  26. esmeray Avatar
    esmeray

    I totally agree with E-Rich about the blog.. the tattoo does look well done though.

  27. eli Avatar
    eli

    everything about this
    the picture and the blog
    make me super sad

  28. melanie Avatar
    melanie

    Maybe, since she claims the tattoo is not self-deprecation, she got the tattoo because, literally speaking, her “cunt” IS “worthless,” as in maybe she had some kind of uterine/ovarine cancer or other such disease that has effected her fertility or sex drive? come on people, think about WHY the non-self-deprecation claim was made, other than flaming the tattoo for reasons that have already been discredited.

  29. RooRaaah Crumbs Avatar
    RooRaaah Crumbs

    Melanie – That’s what I first thought when I saw the photos! I didn’t censor the link but after re-reading her blog I thought she might not appreciate it being posted here so I removed it.

  30. jessica Avatar
    jessica

    Despite your response Melanie, I still cannot see any sort of justification in the choice she made.
    Even if someone were to have uterine or ovarian cancer I really cannot grasp why someone would take their success story and turn it into something so negative. The word ‘cunt’ has never had positive connotations. It’s just another person starving for attention through shock factor. It’s distasteful and repugnant.

  31. Ashlyn Avatar

    peteD3-

    Lack of favor does not denote a lack of loyalty. We can all “stand together” without falsifying our personal opinions, vaginal tattoos aside.

  32. H Avatar
    H

    Melanie- after reading her blog I highly doubt that’s the reasoning behind the tattoo.

  33. Mrs. Penguin Avatar
    Mrs. Penguin

    Look at the bright side – the tattoo appears to be in an area which would be covered by hair if/when she decides to stop shaving. I didn’t get to see the blog (link was gone by the time I saw this post) so I don’t know what the ‘back story’ is, i.e. is she in a relationship etc. If she’s not, though, I can’t help but wonder what future lovers would think of this? And I’ll echo what some of the others here have said, I’m not a huge fan of the word ‘cunt’ either. I curse like a sailor at times, and I RARELY use that word. She may not think it’s self deprecating – but honestly, that word is vulgar and insulting to women in general. (let the flames begin, and I probably won’t even see them…..)

    Whatever. It’s her ‘cash and prizes’, not mine, and she can do what she wants to with them.

  34. cere Avatar

    Im reading her blog now. Holy shit, that is some of the hottest fucking erotica ive had a chance to read.

    This girl is my hero. If only more were like her….

  35. Kleptomaniac Avatar

    For once, I’m not diggin’ it…

  36. ErinLynn Avatar

    cere i need that link now now now now, im too nosy not to see it! hand it over please?

  37. driftwood Avatar

    I have a feeling a lot of people are going to be begging for that link…and I’m one of them! If someone’s got it I would really really like to see it. 🙂

  38. Ryan Avatar
    Ryan

    Ya I want to read her blog too!!

  39. Lauren Avatar
    Lauren

    I’m so nosy I tried googling for her blog. No luck yet…

  40. b. Avatar
    b.

    http://www.menarebetterthanwomen.com

    ^ this modblog entry further proves everything.
    at least she knows that she’s a female, therefore automatically making her a worthless cunt.

    she didn’t need to get it tattooed for everyone to be aware.

  41. b. Avatar
    b.

    oh, and she’s fat, too.

    wonderful.

  42. Emma Avatar
    Emma

    Oh c’mon, try a little harder there b.

  43. lost raevyn Avatar

    #39/Lauren – Hahaha, me too. 😀

  44. Jessta Avatar

    Jessica:
    The world “cunt” wasn’t always a dirty word. It was a neutral term for female genitalia. It wasn’t considered obscene until the 17th Century.

  45. Sade Avatar
    Sade

    hmm, i think i just lost a piece of my soul looking at that website lol.

  46. lolo_at_heart Avatar
    lolo_at_heart

    b. – got a problem with fat chicks? WE SHALL SIT ON YOU!! (I say this as I am a plump girl)

    I’m not a big fan of the word “cunt” so it’s not a fav. But hey, everyone can tattoo themselves the way they want

  47. Melf Avatar
    Melf

    #9 made me lol.

  48. knifefight Avatar

    Roo, or anyone, could you please PM me the url of her blog?

  49. Miss Jack Avatar
    Miss Jack

    You guys are hypocrites. How many times have ignorant people ranted that you’re mutilating your bodies? How often have they said that your tattoos, your scars, your gauged piercing just prove that you have no respect for yourself or your bodies?
    How dare you sit at your keyboards and flame Kiva. How dare you say her actions, the behaviors SHE has chosen for herself because they make HER happy, are wrong? She isn’t asking you to do it too. Why can’t you respect her choices and happiness?

    You draw such arbitrary lines in your head. A guy cuts his cock into 4 pieces, that’s self-expression. A girl drinks piss, she’s clearly ill and hates herself.
    Just because you would never do it and find it repulsive doesn’t mean it can’t bring another person bliss.

    Get off your high horse and try and open your minds an inch. You don’t have to want to do it. You don’t have to think it’s hot. But you should respect HER right to. Say:
    “I don’t understand why anyone would want those things, but she does. She found what makes her happy and she pursues it regardless of what other people think. Good for her.”

  50. carla Avatar

    please anyone send me the link to her blog.. . .

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