A black-and-white photo of a person mid-air in a Superman-style body suspension pose, supported by multiple hooks in their back and legs, smiling joyfully toward the camera. They are suspended horizontally in a large indoor space with high ceilings and visible rigging. A group of onlookers—some seated, some standing—watch with expressions of admiration, amusement, and support. The atmosphere is lively and communal, capturing a moment of shared experience and transformation.

One Chance, One Life. So Get A Job!!

Ok, I know I said today would be a BMEBoys day, but I can’t seem to find these two guys on IAM, I’m going to post them anyway as I’m sure someone will recognise them!

Second photo after the break..

Tattoo on Cory by Mark Brettrager, Rising Tide Tattoo, Newark, Ohio.

Poland is a crazy country!! People here don’t understand that if you have piercings or tattoos you’re a normal person. I am twenty years old and I cant find a job in my city because of how I look.

I know how he feels in a way as I’ve lost a job due to my piercings (although they really were being unreasonable and I wasn’t willing to let them get away with such ignorance, but I’ll save that story for another day). Personally though I’d much rather sacrifice a job if it meant I could be myself and find employment in an atmosphere that made me happy. If an employer can’t look past physical appearance and are incapable of basing their decision on your skills, experience and personality, it’s likely they’re not worth working for anyway.

Just don’t wear a t-shirt like that to the interview. Kthx

Comments

89 responses to “One Chance, One Life. So Get A Job!!”

  1. Amber Avatar
    Amber

    Sometimes a person has to make some sacrifices in order to get a paycheck. I’d love to have full sleeves tattooed and multiple facial piercings but I won’t because I know how it’ll affect my professional image. I dream of a day when people can do what they want to their bodies and not be judged by it, but unfortunately that’s not the world we live in, and bitching about other people’s closemindedness when you’ve deliberately chosen to go against the norms of society in general isn’t going to do a damn thing to change the way people think. Prioritize.

  2. Raziel Avatar
    Raziel

    “yes. our little crazy country. i will not lost a chance to escape from it. i’ve got my job only beacause my boss thinks that my tunnels are “normal” piercing, and there are no holes but mirrors Oo

    zychu on June 12th, 2008 at 4:51 pm ”

    That made me lol hard! :)) I wish employers here in Romania would be so stupid

  3. Chaq Avatar
    Chaq

    They are really beautiful men there!
    *clicks the “save as” button*

  4. HJP Avatar
    HJP

    Call center can’t be said enough. I work at one that is open to mods and many of them are. A few here are more ‘business’ is business and mods are professional (even if nobody sees you cause you’re on a phone). I think they do it to keep everyone thinking they are special to work at a professional level. Most call centers here are happy if you are competant and show up to work.

  5. HJP Avatar
    HJP

    A few here are more ‘business’ is business and mods are **un**professional (even if nobody sees you cause you’re on a phone).

    Yeah, I typoed it. 😛

  6. nyne Avatar

    Haha I don’t know what amuses me more: the people who don’t get “the mods that they really want” because of the job potentials, or the people that think they’re getting away with ‘being modded and working” while they rock 00g ears and a tiny labret.

    I think mods are a copout. You’re not jobless because of your piercings/tattoos. And if you are, clearly you’re only applying at the bottom of the barrel places that can be picky as all hell. Once you have some qualifications and can stand on your own feet “mods” don’t mean shit all. You just need to learn how to sell yourself PAST your physical appearance. Yeah, you might be getting more static because of how you look, but that’s part of the package. Step up or sit out, seriously.

  7. Bluey Avatar

    If anyone culey with retail work in brissy Australia wants a part time job in a few months ,emale me.. Facial tats etc don’t matter as long as your not an idiot 😀

  8. Bluey Avatar

    Email , hahah @ “emale” , ugh

  9. matt Avatar
    matt

    clap clap to t. thomas and nyne.

  10. Louie Avatar

    Yay Ohio!! <3

  11. Therese Avatar
    Therese

    Kinda like sweden then..And if they want to hire you even if you’ve got mods they almost always tell you to take them out or wear retainers.

  12. Necro[keely]a Avatar
    Necro[keely]a

    One of my bst mates has ‘One Life One Chance’ tattooed on his wrists, but I love it in that placement.
    I swear to god I will find that boy and steal his sex.

  13. xo Avatar
    xo

    i think i/m in love

  14. Melf Avatar
    Melf

    What Nyne said.

  15. Miley. Avatar
    Miley.

    I really like the script on the that boy’s jaw. And he has a really cute chin.
    The other boy is cute, too.
    I live in Spain, and have nothing visible, but no one will hire me ’cause I am American. I speak Spanish perfectly, but they don’t care.

  16. 69xemx69 Avatar

    Co prwda to prawda, Polska jeszcze dow ielu rzeczy nie dorosła;/

  17. Allison Avatar
    Allison

    Gotta love the H2O tattoo. 🙂

  18. aivi Avatar
    aivi

    “Once you have some qualifications and can stand on your own feet “mods” don’t mean shit all. You just need to learn how to sell yourself PAST your physical appearance.”-nyne
    But even if you’re qualified and suitable for a certain job, there most likely are at least few other applicants that are about as qualified as you are and are not visibly modded. Guess who they will most likely choose?
    But I do agree that visibly modded people need to take more time to learn how to sell themselves, network etc.

    The boys and their mods are yummy <3.

  19. Huge Avatar
    Huge

    Love the facial work! Very bold, to take that step forwards like you have is re-assuring to say the least, I have my eyebrows, chin, sideburns, beside my eyes, side of my head tattooed and I can safely say I am one very happy satisfied person. The tattoo’s I see every day in the mirror remind me of how I overcame ‘fitting’ in to what everyone told me I should be.

  20. Huge Avatar
    Huge

    I know that is very non-specific, but that is the basics of how I feel, in all honesty I am 30 now, I am a piercer and also a qualified sheet metal fabricator, if you are struggling with direction just come over to australia and do a trade, we need more qualified people, no matter what they look like!

  21. B Avatar
    B

    I really like the script it would have been nice to see a front side shot of his face as well, very cool facial work,the only thing he needs now is more ink on his face haha.

  22. Julene Avatar

    Wow… now that is a pretty face.

  23. MAE Avatar
    MAE

    I feel it’s not always the mods themselves that create this image to employers, but to the crowd it associates you to. In my area at least (huge generalizing here) there are many pierced teenagers, and high schoolers who have no strive for work ethics and bring down the community. Unfortunate as it is, these are those who take mods as a trend and I believe that is true with a lot of individuals that I know. Employers then judge and categorize others who look similar in a negative manner. Thats why I work harder and go the extra distance to be kind and helpful both at the workplace and in public. Not because I feel I have to, not at all, but because I want to give off a better image for myself and those who take mods seriously.

  24. leavemeout Avatar

    i could side with the “you know how it works, deal with it” argument as much as could side with the “mods affect neither intelligence nor personality so maybe the rest of the world should open the triple bolted doors their minds are behind” theory. but when it comes down to it, i, as someone who very much expects to be a Director of IT one day, would RATHER hire modders (who are qualified) because, well, they are stereotypically some of the most open-minded people in the world, and life experience often counts just as much as work experience and school education combined. i am in my last year of college with a very solid resume (with professional experience) and am scared to death to get the mods i want (lots of ink and 1/2-1” lobes) because i really really really like money. i guess it’s all about balance? my ramblings

  25. leavemeout Avatar

    also, i love all of the first guys facial tats and the guy in the get a job t-shirt has some of the most awesomely-placed & perfectly symmetrical piercings

  26. infernalmachine Avatar
    infernalmachine

    i completely agree with #31 and #33.

    the only visible mods i have are 0g lobes and a couple of cartilage piercings. i work in government and i am VERY lucky that the atmosphere in my office is kind of casual (it’s a science department)

    i HATE seeing 17 and 18 year olds thinking that they can get 2″ lobes and stars on their faces and that the world is required to accept them and that they are entitled to a job. think again. that isn’t how the world works.

    sure, you can be an idealist and hope that the corporate world will change its ways but right now there are still blacks and asians and even women being unfairly discriminated against in job opportunities and wages, let alone people with giant tattoos or lip plates! let’s take this one step at a time.

    anyway, nobody says you can’t get 1/2 sleeves under your suit, or a fuckload of genital piercings. just hide them when you go to work at World Bank.

  27. TuckGrr Avatar
    TuckGrr

    I believe the top dude’s name is jason and he plays in a death metal/ hardcore band called “Salt the Wound” from Cleveland. That’s if that really is jason.

  28. Cucuy Avatar
    Cucuy

    I can sympathize with the employers. Before I started in the industry I worked in the back of a lot of restaurants that didn’t even let me enter through the front door. I didn’t complain because I was the one who decided to get my skull tattooed. On the other side of the coin there is a tattoo artist in town that does really nice work, but doesn’t have any visible tattoos. He can’t get a job in my shop no matter how good his work is; I expect my employees to look a certain way and I think any good business person has the right to do the same.

  29. shanel Avatar
    shanel

    if anyone knows this guys contact i need to know him, hes from the same area code as me which is hard to find lol !!

  30. Kris Avatar
    Kris

    his myspace:
    surprised no one clicked on the tattoo studio and saw him in the top 8 friends.
    http://www.myspace.com/coryeis

  31. lost raevyn Avatar

    The second guy is absolutely lovely!

  32. akibare Avatar
    akibare

    I have to go with #76 as well.

    Certainly, if you’re stand out and have a resume as long as your arm, eventually mods aren’t a problem, particularly in technical fields.

    That said, at 18, most people aren’t anywhere close to that position. They’re looking for “bottom of the barrel” jobs as someone put it, because that’s where you start. Fresh out of school, you’re one of the herd, and yeah, people discriminate.

    It’s the combination of unhideable mods (particularly face tattoos) with very young that makes me go “hmm. Was that the best idea?” And places I’ve been, it’s THAT association, that “big face work at 18 = doesn’t think ahead” that dooms the applicant, even for those same tech jobs. Not to justify it, but that’s very often the thought process. Just… know you’re joining that battle.

    I do like the script here though. One question = what is the Ohio with 740 in it about? Highway? Area code? (Googling I see it IS the area code now used in the place my neighbor grew up, interesting…)

  33. TheLegendHimself Avatar

    hahaha job stoppers, i’ve been thinking of getting my hands lasered

  34. october_c Avatar
    october_c

    I just graduated from some prestigious & elitist high school in my country and took up an internship in a bank as “summer job” (yes, I did have an interview with the HR). I was quite surprised that at one of the branches where I had to work, the whole staff, especially the assistant manager, were actually intrigued and then interested by the few visible mods I have (but which are nowhere close to 2″ lobes or stars tattooed on the forehead). I probably got lucky to work with open-minded people, or maybe the name of my school or the way I was doing my job somehow influenced the way they judged me. Even if I intend to gradually increase my mod-count in the near future, I still have some doubts about whether walking out of some law school or having my walls covered with degrees is actually going to speak louder than any visible tattoos. So even if this generation thinks it’s going to bring about some drastic cultural liberation, it should still remember that this is the intermediary stage of the whole reaction. So, no matter how unfair it is, it just can’t assume that individuals aren’t going to be judged by their appearance when they’ll be propelled onto the job market (and consequently I’m admitting that the rest of my family is right! haha!).

  35. CoryEis Avatar

    Hey everybody, I would just like to say that that is me in the first picture…lol

    I just got sent this link, I didnt even know my pic was being used.

    Just wanted to say whats up to everyone!

  36. Rebeccalwitt Avatar
    Rebeccalwitt

    sooo gorgeous.

  37. snakelady1956 Avatar
    snakelady1956

    I used to work for Motorola. and they had implemented a program called IDE- individual dignity entitlement, and they did not look down on anyone with mods of any type. I worked with people with facial tattoos, piercings, turbans, burka,etc. I think it all depemds on what type of business you work in, and how much you are exposed to the public at large. I personally have no problem with any facial mods ( I have some too), but use common sense, and stick with ones that are hideable, as I did.

  38. snakelady1956 Avatar
    snakelady1956

    OOPS! I misspelled ” depends” above. Nowadays, I drive a school bus, and our district just dropped the restriction on facial mods, but they can only be small or easily hidden. I keep my tongue, septum (retainer), and remove my nostril piercings during work.

  39. deadlypoison Avatar

    i just thought i’d drop this note in (after all this time)

    in england, it is illegal for an employer or potential employer to make you remove piercings or cover tattoos, or to refuse you a job due to your mods unless it is a genuine health and safety risk. i.e. electricals / food

    the law was passed in 2006 i believe.

Latest Tattoo, Piercing, and Body Modification News

  • Skin and Strings: The Art of Human Puppetry
    One of the most powerful things about being at a convention like OSC is the sheer concentration of experience, creativity, and capability in one place. When you’re surrounded by people who not only understand the technical complexities of suspension but are excited by the challenge… Read more: Skin and Strings: The Art of Human Puppetry
  • Twelve Points to the Sky
    There’s a particular kind of magic that happens at your first big suspension gathering when you arrive with nerves, an open heart, and the quiet hope of flight. Guided by the encouragement of mentor Lynn Loheide and driven by the quiet confidence of belonging, Alex… Read more: Twelve Points to the Sky
  • Ontario SusCon 2025
    In March 2025, BME attended the Ontario Suspension Convention in Hamilton, hosted by the Kevin Donaghy and the Ontario Suspension Collective. We had the pleasure to take part and help document the event, but also run a booth to sell a bunch of old (but… Read more: Ontario SusCon 2025
  • Welcome Back to Body Modification Ezine
    Dear BME Community, We’ve been gone far too long, but BME is back to give people a voice, a space, a community. With time everything evolves, and BME may be different than you remember. Our goal is to stay true to Shannon and Rachel’s values… Read more: Welcome Back to Body Modification Ezine
  • BME Social Media
    Word of mouth has been our method of reuniting the community, and it has brought a substantial amount of us together. I am inspired by your loyalty and I want to remind more people of BME’s existence. In 2020 we gained control over @bmezine on… Read more: BME Social Media
  • BMEShop
    Despite the hurricanes in 2015 which destroyed almost all of what Rachel owned, she managed to save the original inventory from BME. We have relisted some of the stock on BMEShop.com with the hopes you may be interested.  Our first drop includes a selection of… Read more: BMEShop