A black-and-white photo of a person mid-air in a Superman-style body suspension pose, supported by multiple hooks in their back and legs, smiling joyfully toward the camera. They are suspended horizontally in a large indoor space with high ceilings and visible rigging. A group of onlookers—some seated, some standing—watch with expressions of admiration, amusement, and support. The atmosphere is lively and communal, capturing a moment of shared experience and transformation.

Life Changing

My friend Ferg sent me some incredible photos of a ceremony he recently took part in, read more for some amazing photos and his story. More to come soon!

I was the main participant this weekend in a male initiation ceremony at one of the nearby outstations that involved horizontal chest cutting done with a sharp (although could have been sharper and less serrated thank you very much) stone. We all danced the night before, slept, got up at sunrise, were painted, danced all along the beach to the men’s business area where I was laid down and sliced open. I was told (translated from Yolgnu Matha) the things that a man has to do from now on and after a final dance with my immediate Aboriginal family members it was off home for a well deserved hot bath.

The History Channel were there filming for three days, and the five and a half hours of footage they got will have to be condensed into about fifteen minutes for a one hour show they’re doing about traditional ceremonies around the world.

The local people have completely blown me away with their enthusiasm and energy and of course for giving me the opportunity to actually go through a traditional and authentic ritual. The younger generation got the chance to learn a bit more about a ceremony that is not being practised as much as it used to be and I got to develop a whole new level of respect and gratitude for the people I work and live with.

This has been life changing, and I’m completely serious when I say that. I’m humbled beyond words to have been able to do this and my lifetime gratitude goes to the Aboriginal people of NE Arnhem Land for organising this cultural exchange for us both and allowing me to step into their world. Their generosity has been amazing.

Ferg.

Comments

136 responses to “Life Changing”

  1. bettie cracker Avatar
    bettie cracker

    I love this.

  2. bettie cracker Avatar
    bettie cracker

    I love this.

  3. Angela Avatar

    Felicidades Ferg!

  4. Angela Avatar

    Felicidades Ferg!

  5. Angela Avatar

    Felicidades Ferg!

  6. Angela Avatar

    Felicidades Ferg!

  7. Sarah Avatar

    What a lucky duck! But wow, seriously, that is such an amazing opportunity!! I am jealous ^_^

  8. Sarah Avatar

    What a lucky duck! But wow, seriously, that is such an amazing opportunity!! I am jealous ^_^

  9. Sarah Avatar

    What a lucky duck! But wow, seriously, that is such an amazing opportunity!! I am jealous ^_^

  10. Sarah Avatar

    What a lucky duck! But wow, seriously, that is such an amazing opportunity!! I am jealous ^_^

  11. Jimmy Landby Avatar

    That last photo is wonderful!

  12. Jimmy Landby Avatar

    That last photo is wonderful!

  13. Jimmy Landby Avatar

    That last photo is wonderful!

  14. Jimmy Landby Avatar

    That last photo is wonderful!

  15. dirt Avatar
    dirt

    Where is it ?

  16. dirt Avatar
    dirt

    Where is it ?

  17. dirt Avatar
    dirt

    Where is it ?

  18. dirt Avatar
    dirt

    Where is it ?

  19. La Negra Avatar
    La Negra

    <3

  20. La Negra Avatar
    La Negra

    <3

  21. La Negra Avatar
    La Negra

    <3

  22. La Negra Avatar
    La Negra

    <3

  23. n0ir Avatar
    n0ir

    One of the entries on Modblog with the most attached photos, it gives me the sour taste of Rousseaus philosophy (http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Romanticism).

  24. n0ir Avatar
    n0ir

    One of the entries on Modblog with the most attached photos, it gives me the sour taste of Rousseaus philosophy (http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Romanticism).

  25. n0ir Avatar
    n0ir

    One of the entries on Modblog with the most attached photos, it gives me the sour taste of Rousseaus philosophy (http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Romanticism).

  26. n0ir Avatar
    n0ir

    One of the entries on Modblog with the most attached photos, it gives me the sour taste of Rousseaus philosophy (http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Romanticism).

  27. Marisa Avatar

    I love Ferg! You need a full reality show, my friend.
    Perhaps a more detailed article on BME about your experience?

  28. Marisa Avatar

    I love Ferg! You need a full reality show, my friend.
    Perhaps a more detailed article on BME about your experience?

  29. Marisa Avatar

    I love Ferg! You need a full reality show, my friend.
    Perhaps a more detailed article on BME about your experience?

  30. Marisa Avatar

    I love Ferg! You need a full reality show, my friend.
    Perhaps a more detailed article on BME about your experience?

  31. Cardboardfrog Avatar

    wow, that looks like such an amazing experience i must say i am very jealous!

  32. Cardboardfrog Avatar

    wow, that looks like such an amazing experience i must say i am very jealous!

  33. Cardboardfrog Avatar

    wow, that looks like such an amazing experience i must say i am very jealous!

  34. Cardboardfrog Avatar

    wow, that looks like such an amazing experience i must say i am very jealous!

  35. Sassie_L Avatar

    #17 – Australia. (There is a helpful wiki link in the text.)
    Great photos, and experience. Thank you for sharing.

  36. Sassie_L Avatar

    #17 – Australia. (There is a helpful wiki link in the text.)
    Great photos, and experience. Thank you for sharing.

  37. Sassie_L Avatar

    #17 – Australia. (There is a helpful wiki link in the text.)
    Great photos, and experience. Thank you for sharing.

  38. Sassie_L Avatar

    #17 – Australia. (There is a helpful wiki link in the text.)
    Great photos, and experience. Thank you for sharing.

  39. Mari Avatar
    Mari

    What an amazing event to be a part of.

  40. Mari Avatar
    Mari

    What an amazing event to be a part of.

  41. Mari Avatar
    Mari

    What an amazing event to be a part of.

  42. Mari Avatar
    Mari

    What an amazing event to be a part of.

  43. Jon P Avatar

    I agree with post #10 – You should earn this kind of thing as an Outside or foreigner. If you have to pay for it to participate, it’s probably some watered down tourist thing. The fact Ferg says that film crew got five hours of footage (and that won’t be the entirety of the ritual) shows that this wasn’t an *exotic afternoon activity for the public at large*.

    What I thought was funny as hell about these pics was the lil girl throwing up the ‘WEST SIDE’ in the photo fourth from the bottom hahahaha G’s up!

  44. Jon P Avatar

    I agree with post #10 – You should earn this kind of thing as an Outside or foreigner. If you have to pay for it to participate, it’s probably some watered down tourist thing. The fact Ferg says that film crew got five hours of footage (and that won’t be the entirety of the ritual) shows that this wasn’t an *exotic afternoon activity for the public at large*.

    What I thought was funny as hell about these pics was the lil girl throwing up the ‘WEST SIDE’ in the photo fourth from the bottom hahahaha G’s up!

  45. Jon P Avatar

    I agree with post #10 – You should earn this kind of thing as an Outside or foreigner. If you have to pay for it to participate, it’s probably some watered down tourist thing. The fact Ferg says that film crew got five hours of footage (and that won’t be the entirety of the ritual) shows that this wasn’t an *exotic afternoon activity for the public at large*.

    What I thought was funny as hell about these pics was the lil girl throwing up the ‘WEST SIDE’ in the photo fourth from the bottom hahahaha G’s up!

  46. Jon P Avatar

    I agree with post #10 – You should earn this kind of thing as an Outside or foreigner. If you have to pay for it to participate, it’s probably some watered down tourist thing. The fact Ferg says that film crew got five hours of footage (and that won’t be the entirety of the ritual) shows that this wasn’t an *exotic afternoon activity for the public at large*.

    What I thought was funny as hell about these pics was the lil girl throwing up the ‘WEST SIDE’ in the photo fourth from the bottom hahahaha G’s up!

  47. Xenobiologista Avatar

    Isn’t this kind of like the thing that ModBlog posted a casting call for a couple weeks ago? Guy travels around the world, shooting a documentary about body modification traditions?

  48. Xenobiologista Avatar

    Isn’t this kind of like the thing that ModBlog posted a casting call for a couple weeks ago? Guy travels around the world, shooting a documentary about body modification traditions?

  49. Xenobiologista Avatar

    Isn’t this kind of like the thing that ModBlog posted a casting call for a couple weeks ago? Guy travels around the world, shooting a documentary about body modification traditions?

  50. Xenobiologista Avatar

    Isn’t this kind of like the thing that ModBlog posted a casting call for a couple weeks ago? Guy travels around the world, shooting a documentary about body modification traditions?

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