A black-and-white photo of a person mid-air in a Superman-style body suspension pose, supported by multiple hooks in their back and legs, smiling joyfully toward the camera. They are suspended horizontally in a large indoor space with high ceilings and visible rigging. A group of onlookers—some seated, some standing—watch with expressions of admiration, amusement, and support. The atmosphere is lively and communal, capturing a moment of shared experience and transformation.

My Love…

With sincere apologies to the wearer, I really hate saying anything negative about someone’s body modification, but you know, when it comes to tattoo quality, I would never tackle a portrait until I was very confident as a tattoo artist, because the implications of getting it even a little off are so unpleasant. It’s really important to understand I think that doing a portrait is a very different set of skills, and someone can be a quite solid artist on other levels but have difficulty with them… It’s very, very important when you’re looking at someone’s portfolio that you see pieces in the style of what you want.

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Comments

168 responses to “My Love…”

  1. Alkaline_fairy Avatar
    Alkaline_fairy

    Apart from the difference between the eyebrows on skin and on paper, have you noticed how the tattooed ones are so different from each other?
    This makes me sad inside, I wouldn’t like it if it was mine, but if they’re happy with it so be it I guess.

  2. Alkaline_fairy Avatar
    Alkaline_fairy

    Apart from the difference between the eyebrows on skin and on paper, have you noticed how the tattooed ones are so different from each other?
    This makes me sad inside, I wouldn’t like it if it was mine, but if they’re happy with it so be it I guess.

  3. aivi Avatar
    aivi

    I have no idea what’s it like to do shading or realistic portraits with a tattoo machine, but when drawing with pencil you need to use more that dark lines, blank space and one shade for the shadows! The hardest thing when drawing people is the shading to make it look like 3d and not as if the features (eyes, nose..) are just floating on top of a head-shaped ball.

    The starting sketch is good but not great and the tattoo is just horrible in my opinion.
    #43 – I actually like that one because it doesn’t look like a bad attemt at realism (more like cartoonish/stylised). The only thing wrong are the shake lines 🙂

  4. aivi Avatar
    aivi

    I have no idea what’s it like to do shading or realistic portraits with a tattoo machine, but when drawing with pencil you need to use more that dark lines, blank space and one shade for the shadows! The hardest thing when drawing people is the shading to make it look like 3d and not as if the features (eyes, nose..) are just floating on top of a head-shaped ball.

    The starting sketch is good but not great and the tattoo is just horrible in my opinion.
    #43 – I actually like that one because it doesn’t look like a bad attemt at realism (more like cartoonish/stylised). The only thing wrong are the shake lines 🙂

  5. aivi Avatar
    aivi

    *actually not a head-shaped BALL because then it would be 3d :D. I meant to say circle/ellipse.

  6. aivi Avatar
    aivi

    *actually not a head-shaped BALL because then it would be 3d :D. I meant to say circle/ellipse.

  7. Toser Avatar

    Where was this done? I don’t ever want to go there.

  8. Toser Avatar

    Where was this done? I don’t ever want to go there.

  9. jess Avatar
    jess

    Umm, wow. That’s…special. He has pretty eyelashes at least.

  10. jess Avatar
    jess

    Umm, wow. That’s…special. He has pretty eyelashes at least.

  11. sugar_lippy Avatar
    sugar_lippy

    I think I’d sue.

  12. sugar_lippy Avatar
    sugar_lippy

    I think I’d sue.

  13. MR.C Avatar
    MR.C

    THEY FUCKED UP SO BAD IT’S NOT FUNNY

  14. MR.C Avatar
    MR.C

    THEY FUCKED UP SO BAD IT’S NOT FUNNY

  15. Bobb Avatar
    Bobb

    The lettering could be the wearer’s own handwriting. What confuses me is why the, er, original is a drawing and not a photo…

  16. Bobb Avatar
    Bobb

    The lettering could be the wearer’s own handwriting. What confuses me is why the, er, original is a drawing and not a photo…

  17. At9 Avatar
    At9

    I just can’t stop laughing at the differences.. It reminds me of Napoleon Dynamite’s drawing.

  18. At9 Avatar
    At9

    I just can’t stop laughing at the differences.. It reminds me of Napoleon Dynamite’s drawing.

  19. Anne Avatar
    Anne

    People are saying that they hope the customer didn’t end up paying, they should sue, etc, but if the customer had done any research she would have seen that this artist obviously can’t do portraits. I don’t feel sorry for her at all.

  20. Anne Avatar
    Anne

    People are saying that they hope the customer didn’t end up paying, they should sue, etc, but if the customer had done any research she would have seen that this artist obviously can’t do portraits. I don’t feel sorry for her at all.

  21. ishinenotburn Avatar
    ishinenotburn

    this reminds me of when I was in grade 2 – the teacher had us pick a partner and face our desks towards each other so we could draw our partners portraits. I got stuck with this boy in my class who had really light colored hair, almost white. Since we had only crayons to use to do the pictures I made his hair pink, because come on who can see white crayon on white paper? He told me if I made his hair pink he would never talk to me again, I still think to this day he hates me for it. This portrait looks alot like the one I made that day – all it needs is pink hair haha

  22. ishinenotburn Avatar
    ishinenotburn

    this reminds me of when I was in grade 2 – the teacher had us pick a partner and face our desks towards each other so we could draw our partners portraits. I got stuck with this boy in my class who had really light colored hair, almost white. Since we had only crayons to use to do the pictures I made his hair pink, because come on who can see white crayon on white paper? He told me if I made his hair pink he would never talk to me again, I still think to this day he hates me for it. This portrait looks alot like the one I made that day – all it needs is pink hair haha

  23. Losing Grip! Avatar
    Losing Grip!

    has anyone perhaps thought that the point of the potrait was to make it stylized and cartoony?
    I personally would rather have something that looked cartoony like that on my body then a godawful B+W perfect potrait.

    (I think potraits of any kind make for awful tattoos, but that’s just me)

  24. Losing Grip! Avatar
    Losing Grip!

    has anyone perhaps thought that the point of the potrait was to make it stylized and cartoony?
    I personally would rather have something that looked cartoony like that on my body then a godawful B+W perfect potrait.

    (I think potraits of any kind make for awful tattoos, but that’s just me)

  25. castro. Avatar

    the original drawing being held up next to it implies it’s supposed to be realistic (or at least as realistic as the drawing is), but I can’t help but like how cartoony the tattoo turned out. it’s so whimsical and happy-looking ^^

  26. castro. Avatar

    the original drawing being held up next to it implies it’s supposed to be realistic (or at least as realistic as the drawing is), but I can’t help but like how cartoony the tattoo turned out. it’s so whimsical and happy-looking ^^

  27. stainless Avatar

    I think a big part in things like this is that a lot of people don’t want to pay for quality work. We have a lot of people come in and ask to get portraits, then when they hear the price they turn right around and say another shop told them $100 so they’re going there instead.
    That, and I’d say about 90% of people out there can’t tell the difference between a good tattoo and a bad one, so they don’t know they have a bad one or what a bad one looks like in a portfolio.

  28. stainless Avatar

    I think a big part in things like this is that a lot of people don’t want to pay for quality work. We have a lot of people come in and ask to get portraits, then when they hear the price they turn right around and say another shop told them $100 so they’re going there instead.
    That, and I’d say about 90% of people out there can’t tell the difference between a good tattoo and a bad one, so they don’t know they have a bad one or what a bad one looks like in a portfolio.

  29. TheLexPest Avatar
    TheLexPest

    This makes me sad inside.

  30. TheLexPest Avatar
    TheLexPest

    This makes me sad inside.

  31. dee Avatar
    dee

    this reminds me of the artist who does the cartoons on the back page of bust magazine. as someone had mentioned, if it were a stylistic choice, it would be awesome. who knows, maybe it was? i still find it kind of amazing.

  32. dee Avatar
    dee

    this reminds me of the artist who does the cartoons on the back page of bust magazine. as someone had mentioned, if it were a stylistic choice, it would be awesome. who knows, maybe it was? i still find it kind of amazing.

  33. Earthbound Misfit Avatar
    Earthbound Misfit

    And what if the original sketch is the one that’s wrong??? maybe the guy actually looks like the tattoo! You know, tiny eyes, 3-4 inches apart, and with 5 eyelashes on each! At least, the baseball cap is almost exactly the same…

  34. Earthbound Misfit Avatar
    Earthbound Misfit

    And what if the original sketch is the one that’s wrong??? maybe the guy actually looks like the tattoo! You know, tiny eyes, 3-4 inches apart, and with 5 eyelashes on each! At least, the baseball cap is almost exactly the same…

  35. Sixums Avatar

    I’m… just confused. It’s bad enough that I almost imagine that it was MEANT to be that way, but then why put up against a drawing?

    …I do have to agree with some other people though. Thems some perty eyelashes.

  36. Sixums Avatar

    I’m… just confused. It’s bad enough that I almost imagine that it was MEANT to be that way, but then why put up against a drawing?

    …I do have to agree with some other people though. Thems some perty eyelashes.

  37. justin obscure Avatar
    justin obscure

    does anyone see something van-gogh-esque about this, i know it’s not a ‘good’ tattoo, but artistically, and unconsciously, this looks really good to me.

  38. justin obscure Avatar
    justin obscure

    does anyone see something van-gogh-esque about this, i know it’s not a ‘good’ tattoo, but artistically, and unconsciously, this looks really good to me.

  39. Mixxi Avatar

    Ouch.. It’s not the entire fault of the customer though. I really think if an artist knows they’re not skilled/enough or aren’t comfortable doing a tattoo then they should just be honest about it rather than do an awful attempt as that is going to be really bad for their business if word gets around.

  40. Mixxi Avatar

    Ouch.. It’s not the entire fault of the customer though. I really think if an artist knows they’re not skilled/enough or aren’t comfortable doing a tattoo then they should just be honest about it rather than do an awful attempt as that is going to be really bad for their business if word gets around.

  41. uuu Avatar
    uuu

    ouch…
    if i were the wearer of this tattoo, i would feel like getting a big solid black rectangle done over it immediately! (and not by the same artist!)

  42. uuu Avatar
    uuu

    ouch…
    if i were the wearer of this tattoo, i would feel like getting a big solid black rectangle done over it immediately! (and not by the same artist!)

  43. herekittykitty Avatar
    herekittykitty

    Being an artist is like being a singer. You must have some talent and feel for it even before you perfect a technique and grow into it. You can learn to hold a pencil or tattoo machine but if you aren’t an artist then no book (or teacher) can make you one. It can improve what you’re doing, and you can learn theory which will help…but you will ALWAYS be able to tell the ones with inborn talent.

    Case in point, incredible Vincent Price portraiture by the artist Bob Tyrell:

    http://www.bmeink.com/A50210/high/bmegl019780.jpg

  44. herekittykitty Avatar
    herekittykitty

    Being an artist is like being a singer. You must have some talent and feel for it even before you perfect a technique and grow into it. You can learn to hold a pencil or tattoo machine but if you aren’t an artist then no book (or teacher) can make you one. It can improve what you’re doing, and you can learn theory which will help…but you will ALWAYS be able to tell the ones with inborn talent.

    Case in point, incredible Vincent Price portraiture by the artist Bob Tyrell:

    http://www.bmeink.com/A50210/high/bmegl019780.jpg

  45. brandon j Avatar

    i dunno if anyones said this already because 71 comments are a lot to read through, but it looks kind of like common. that is if common were drawn by napolean dynamite. either way i don’t dislike it. i mean its definitely not what it’s supposed to be, but its taken on a life of its own

  46. brandon j Avatar

    i dunno if anyones said this already because 71 comments are a lot to read through, but it looks kind of like common. that is if common were drawn by napolean dynamite. either way i don’t dislike it. i mean its definitely not what it’s supposed to be, but its taken on a life of its own

  47. Darwin Avatar
    Darwin

    portraits have to be felt not just done,if i didn’t feel comfortable doing a portrait i wouldn’t even consider doing one, i would recommend another artist. at this point it must be just money instead of thinking about their client, it’s a really poor judgment of skill on that tattooers position. it makes me really sad.

    p.s. where is the fucking stencil?

  48. Darwin Avatar
    Darwin

    portraits have to be felt not just done,if i didn’t feel comfortable doing a portrait i wouldn’t even consider doing one, i would recommend another artist. at this point it must be just money instead of thinking about their client, it’s a really poor judgment of skill on that tattooers position. it makes me really sad.

    p.s. where is the fucking stencil?

  49. Jeebus Avatar
    Jeebus

    Ummmm… I don’t think anyone has noticed BUT… It’s supposed to say “My Love Since….” Instead the “n” really looks like an “r”. I looked at the tattoo and that does not say “since” in cursive writing….it says “SIRCE”
    http://www.intlschool.org/images/english_cursive.jpg

  50. Jeebus Avatar
    Jeebus

    Ummmm… I don’t think anyone has noticed BUT… It’s supposed to say “My Love Since….” Instead the “n” really looks like an “r”. I looked at the tattoo and that does not say “since” in cursive writing….it says “SIRCE”
    http://www.intlschool.org/images/english_cursive.jpg

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