This interview is titled, “Real Garbage: A Pig At The Service Of Vice”, and I really have to warn viewers that this is not for the casual reader, and it is most certainly adults only. Read on if you want to explore the life of an extreme SM enthusiast.
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#348: xperfume: he might not “hurt anyone who hasn’t asked for it” but here’s the thing….Once he does obtain HIV status, what then? Will he wait for it to go into full-blown AIDS or will he double his efforts to go from HIV+ to becoming AIDS+.
Also once obtained AIDS+ status will he stop being his “whore” self? Or will he still conduct himself in this fashion, especially with other human interaction situations?
As based on what he said his activities include, it’d be extremely hard to not put people at risk…Unless he does stop being sexually active with people.
#348: xperfume: he might not “hurt anyone who hasn’t asked for it” but here’s the thing….Once he does obtain HIV status, what then? Will he wait for it to go into full-blown AIDS or will he double his efforts to go from HIV+ to becoming AIDS+.
Also once obtained AIDS+ status will he stop being his “whore” self? Or will he still conduct himself in this fashion, especially with other human interaction situations?
As based on what he said his activities include, it’d be extremely hard to not put people at risk…Unless he does stop being sexually active with people.
disgusting…yet…arousing.
disgusting…yet…arousing.
@Matt / #347:
I suppose I see your logic with sexual identity, but I would argue that sexual identity is much more a personal thing than a social thing, though it is strong influenced through society. I would go so far as to argue that the ritualized homosexuality that you mention is NOT sexual–though we would consider it as such–because the participants don’t consider it to be. (Of course, we’re keeping in mind that it is sexual contact in medical terms, we’re talking anthropologically here.) Though our social indicators point out that it is sexual, theirs do not, and since they are the ones going through it, it is not a sexual act. For us, it would be. Just like for someone who is a furry–my stuffed panda is a comfort from my childhood, to someone else it is erotic. Handcuffs to a policeman are a tool of the trade and are scary to most; to me, they are erotic. In a world where women are covered, a woman’s hair is erotic; here, it’s just hair, but a nipple is erotic. To topless tribal women in Africa, it’s just a nipple. To your standard straight religious person from 1300, sodomy is repulsive; to Christopher Marlowe 250 years later, it’s the only sex he’s interested in. Do you see what I mean? Sexuality isn’t concrete. Sexuality doesn’t even have to contain anything that we would medically consider a sex act; it’s fluid, and contextual both within the society and the psyche. It’s an expression of sexuality when someone ties me up or I tie someone up–and no sexual contact has taken place. The way I’m defining sexuality here is something that becomes erotic, and that something does not necessarily have anything to do with sex or reality. If one managed to convince Wanda that he had HIV, if the bodily decay could come from another source and he couldn’t tell the difference, would that satisfy his (sexual) desire? I think it probably would.
So I agree with you that sexuality can be socially constructed, but I think it’s constructed within one’s life experience as well, and not always in an explicable way like with Wandalepute. And I really disagree with the idea that sexuality is something concrete (“We can recognize the sexuality in it” even when they don’t) beyond the field of medicine.
Don’t mean to heckle, I’m just interested in a good debate.
@Matt / #347:
I suppose I see your logic with sexual identity, but I would argue that sexual identity is much more a personal thing than a social thing, though it is strong influenced through society. I would go so far as to argue that the ritualized homosexuality that you mention is NOT sexual–though we would consider it as such–because the participants don’t consider it to be. (Of course, we’re keeping in mind that it is sexual contact in medical terms, we’re talking anthropologically here.) Though our social indicators point out that it is sexual, theirs do not, and since they are the ones going through it, it is not a sexual act. For us, it would be. Just like for someone who is a furry–my stuffed panda is a comfort from my childhood, to someone else it is erotic. Handcuffs to a policeman are a tool of the trade and are scary to most; to me, they are erotic. In a world where women are covered, a woman’s hair is erotic; here, it’s just hair, but a nipple is erotic. To topless tribal women in Africa, it’s just a nipple. To your standard straight religious person from 1300, sodomy is repulsive; to Christopher Marlowe 250 years later, it’s the only sex he’s interested in. Do you see what I mean? Sexuality isn’t concrete. Sexuality doesn’t even have to contain anything that we would medically consider a sex act; it’s fluid, and contextual both within the society and the psyche. It’s an expression of sexuality when someone ties me up or I tie someone up–and no sexual contact has taken place. The way I’m defining sexuality here is something that becomes erotic, and that something does not necessarily have anything to do with sex or reality. If one managed to convince Wanda that he had HIV, if the bodily decay could come from another source and he couldn’t tell the difference, would that satisfy his (sexual) desire? I think it probably would.
So I agree with you that sexuality can be socially constructed, but I think it’s constructed within one’s life experience as well, and not always in an explicable way like with Wandalepute. And I really disagree with the idea that sexuality is something concrete (“We can recognize the sexuality in it” even when they don’t) beyond the field of medicine.
Don’t mean to heckle, I’m just interested in a good debate.
I wonder what he does for a living.. as i hear being garbage just isnt that profitable..
I wonder what he does for a living.. as i hear being garbage just isnt that profitable..
When self hatred is glorified, I weep for the future of body modification.
When self hatred is glorified, I weep for the future of body modification.
Its only a matter of time before this guy kills someone and fulfills his necrophilia fantasy.
Maybe not everyone into the extremes of what he’s into is mentally insane, but I’m pretty sure this guy is. And I don’t see the point of this interview other than to shock people
Its only a matter of time before this guy kills someone and fulfills his necrophilia fantasy.
Maybe not everyone into the extremes of what he’s into is mentally insane, but I’m pretty sure this guy is. And I don’t see the point of this interview other than to shock people
No, you’re not heckling at all. I understand your point, which was very well written by the way, and I agree with everything you said. I think we’ve somewhat been saying the same thing, or at least I’ve been trying to and just not conveying my thoughts well, because everything you just said is pretty much what I was thinking. I just didn’t delve into the personal aspect of it, of which there is of course overwhelming evidence in psychological field that life experiences have great impacts on sexuality.
No, you’re not heckling at all. I understand your point, which was very well written by the way, and I agree with everything you said. I think we’ve somewhat been saying the same thing, or at least I’ve been trying to and just not conveying my thoughts well, because everything you just said is pretty much what I was thinking. I just didn’t delve into the personal aspect of it, of which there is of course overwhelming evidence in psychological field that life experiences have great impacts on sexuality.
for danger bitch
you meet me and abuse of me when you want i like it i’m realy worm and “pute”
for danger bitch
you meet me and abuse of me when you want i like it i’m realy worm and “pute”
Whelp… I’m gonna go cry myself to sleep now.
Whelp… I’m gonna go cry myself to sleep now.
Shawn, there are a lot of people weeping right along side you.
Shawn, there are a lot of people weeping right along side you.
I was originally going to post about watching people I’ve known and cared about die as a result of AIDS, and how very far from sexy that is, but then I got side tracked.
I can understand that people are concerned about his future sex partners but a thought occurred to me – every person is responsible for their own sexual health. If you are concerned about sero-conversion then chances are you would do everything you can to protect your sexual health (condoms, dental dams etc) I know that it isn’t 100% safe (only abstinence is) but people seem to be saying that they think it is the protecting themselves.
It was an enlightening read and I thank you for ahring.
I was originally going to post about watching people I’ve known and cared about die as a result of AIDS, and how very far from sexy that is, but then I got side tracked.
I can understand that people are concerned about his future sex partners but a thought occurred to me – every person is responsible for their own sexual health. If you are concerned about sero-conversion then chances are you would do everything you can to protect your sexual health (condoms, dental dams etc) I know that it isn’t 100% safe (only abstinence is) but people seem to be saying that they think it is the protecting themselves.
It was an enlightening read and I thank you for ahring.
part of my post seems to have dissappeared o__O
What I was saying is that people seem to be saying that they think it is the responsibility of OTHER people to NOT infect them, when in reality we should all be responsible for our own sexual safety.
part of my post seems to have dissappeared o__O
What I was saying is that people seem to be saying that they think it is the responsibility of OTHER people to NOT infect them, when in reality we should all be responsible for our own sexual safety.
I’m not closed minded or trying to put BME down, but honestly this article is too much for me.
Hes basically promoting AIDS. It almost feels like BME is!
I’m not closed minded or trying to put BME down, but honestly this article is too much for me.
Hes basically promoting AIDS. It almost feels like BME is!
This really disturbed me.
First off, I have no problem with homosexuality, religion or bdsm. All power to you if thats what you’re into 🙂
That is not healthy. I usually do not judge people’s lifestyles; but in my opinion this is just too far and plain sick.
The most concerning part for me is the AIDS matter. Im highly, highly offended by his statements to be honest. That is disgusting and sick.
I’m not religious – but I think the the things he does in churches/graveyards is also sick. I just. ugh.
This person needs a serious mental evaluation.
This really disturbed me.
First off, I have no problem with homosexuality, religion or bdsm. All power to you if thats what you’re into 🙂
That is not healthy. I usually do not judge people’s lifestyles; but in my opinion this is just too far and plain sick.
The most concerning part for me is the AIDS matter. Im highly, highly offended by his statements to be honest. That is disgusting and sick.
I’m not religious – but I think the the things he does in churches/graveyards is also sick. I just. ugh.
This person needs a serious mental evaluation.
Wanda: E-mail address?
Wanda: E-mail address?
just when i thought i’ve seen it all…
just when i thought i’ve seen it all…
I hope France doesn’t have public healthcare, because this guy looks like he would be one hell of a burden. It’s one thing to want to be treated like a piece of shit; it’s quite another to actually be a piece of shit. Seeking out AIDS and then relying on the people to help you deal with your disease is disgusting.
Wanda: To equate having AIDS with being a slut is ignorant. There are plenty of people who suffer from AIDS and who are not promiscuous. Grow up.
I hope France doesn’t have public healthcare, because this guy looks like he would be one hell of a burden. It’s one thing to want to be treated like a piece of shit; it’s quite another to actually be a piece of shit. Seeking out AIDS and then relying on the people to help you deal with your disease is disgusting.
Wanda: To equate having AIDS with being a slut is ignorant. There are plenty of people who suffer from AIDS and who are not promiscuous. Grow up.
Sweet fancy moses!
Sweet fancy moses!
Jen: To answer your question (since it was too hard to look on wikipedia or something), yes France has public healthcare and their system is considered the best in the world.
All of those who think it’s disgusting to masturbate in a graveyard/get penetrated by a corpse: It’s dead! A corpse doesn’t have any emotions, he’s lacking respect for what could basically be considered an object… Now YOU need to grow up, once someone is dead he won’t come back to haunt you because you weren’t respectful of his body… The only use for graveyards today is so that people can have a harder time forgetting someone and to use parcels of land that would be much more useful to build houses on or whatever. To think that playing with a body is disrespectful is completely archaic and if you are religious, isn’t the soul what’s important and not the body any way? I’m not pro-necrophilia, but come on guys, respecting something that isn’t alive? You might as well respect a rock or your Playstation… What’s important is the memories that you have of the person, not the way his corpse will be treated…
Jen: To answer your question (since it was too hard to look on wikipedia or something), yes France has public healthcare and their system is considered the best in the world.
All of those who think it’s disgusting to masturbate in a graveyard/get penetrated by a corpse: It’s dead! A corpse doesn’t have any emotions, he’s lacking respect for what could basically be considered an object… Now YOU need to grow up, once someone is dead he won’t come back to haunt you because you weren’t respectful of his body… The only use for graveyards today is so that people can have a harder time forgetting someone and to use parcels of land that would be much more useful to build houses on or whatever. To think that playing with a body is disrespectful is completely archaic and if you are religious, isn’t the soul what’s important and not the body any way? I’m not pro-necrophilia, but come on guys, respecting something that isn’t alive? You might as well respect a rock or your Playstation… What’s important is the memories that you have of the person, not the way his corpse will be treated…
“What I was saying is that people seem to be saying that they think it is the responsibility of OTHER people to NOT infect them, when in reality we should all be responsible for our own sexual safety.”
This is true, but I also think that people should be responsible for protecting others as well. Yes, I get tested because I want to know/practice safe sex because I don’t want to seroconvert/blah. But I also do those things because if I do, I don’t want to put others at risk. I consider that part of my responsibilities to my sexual partners
“What I was saying is that people seem to be saying that they think it is the responsibility of OTHER people to NOT infect them, when in reality we should all be responsible for our own sexual safety.”
This is true, but I also think that people should be responsible for protecting others as well. Yes, I get tested because I want to know/practice safe sex because I don’t want to seroconvert/blah. But I also do those things because if I do, I don’t want to put others at risk. I consider that part of my responsibilities to my sexual partners
“The only use for graveyards today is so that people can have a harder time forgetting someone…”
Hold the phone buddy. I don’t know if you’ve ever lost anybody close to you, but the REAL purpose of cemeteries is to honor the dead, to celebrate and remember their lives. Yes, their is a period of grieving that goes on, and it can be prolonged by tangible symbols of their lives, but NEVER, NEVER, EVER will I even attempt to forget the people I have loved and lost. In fact, that is probably the saddest possible scenario I could imagine.
Yes, the memories are what is important, and thats the point of graves and cemeteries. Its just another tangible reminder of the dead. Because a gravestone is an object, doesn’t mean its ONLY an object. It has meaning attached to it, maybe not to you specifically, but everyone stone is important to someone somewhere.
“The only use for graveyards today is so that people can have a harder time forgetting someone…”
Hold the phone buddy. I don’t know if you’ve ever lost anybody close to you, but the REAL purpose of cemeteries is to honor the dead, to celebrate and remember their lives. Yes, their is a period of grieving that goes on, and it can be prolonged by tangible symbols of their lives, but NEVER, NEVER, EVER will I even attempt to forget the people I have loved and lost. In fact, that is probably the saddest possible scenario I could imagine.
Yes, the memories are what is important, and thats the point of graves and cemeteries. Its just another tangible reminder of the dead. Because a gravestone is an object, doesn’t mean its ONLY an object. It has meaning attached to it, maybe not to you specifically, but everyone stone is important to someone somewhere.
Apologies for my terrible grammar and spelling.
Apologies for my terrible grammar and spelling.
fuck…after reading about 100 comments I am sick of the ones bashing shannon. Props for finding this guy and interviewing him. No matter how the interview was done,this guy will obviously find a way to self advertise so its not the interview setup. It would have been cool to know about his personal life…I will say that but either way it obviously interested most of the people botching enough to read it and isn’t that the point of an interview? I don’t agree with his views but to say this was posted to “push the limits”…no. To me its just to open peoples minds about the other people share the world with and the lifestyles THEY choose. It is a diverse world and it seems interviews like these are reminders of just how diverse it is. That man isn’t crazy because who can claim themselves fit to decide the line of sanity and insanity…because that same person to call him crazy could lack self awareness and be someone elses definition of crazy. To that man…though he never said it I wonder if he thinks people who don,t act like him are a little off….like how could someone not get pleasure from even a small pain. Or maybe how could some people live life getting pleasure from flowers or a gentle kiss. Anyways, some people here seem pretty quick to judge him, Shannon but its always easy to be the critic…it just annoys me I guess…extreme is in the eye of the beholder. Live and let live.
fuck…after reading about 100 comments I am sick of the ones bashing shannon. Props for finding this guy and interviewing him. No matter how the interview was done,this guy will obviously find a way to self advertise so its not the interview setup. It would have been cool to know about his personal life…I will say that but either way it obviously interested most of the people botching enough to read it and isn’t that the point of an interview? I don’t agree with his views but to say this was posted to “push the limits”…no. To me its just to open peoples minds about the other people share the world with and the lifestyles THEY choose. It is a diverse world and it seems interviews like these are reminders of just how diverse it is. That man isn’t crazy because who can claim themselves fit to decide the line of sanity and insanity…because that same person to call him crazy could lack self awareness and be someone elses definition of crazy. To that man…though he never said it I wonder if he thinks people who don,t act like him are a little off….like how could someone not get pleasure from even a small pain. Or maybe how could some people live life getting pleasure from flowers or a gentle kiss. Anyways, some people here seem pretty quick to judge him, Shannon but its always easy to be the critic…it just annoys me I guess…extreme is in the eye of the beholder. Live and let live.
sorry about typos cuz I am on a friends iPod and this small ass touch screen isn’t working for me.
sorry about typos cuz I am on a friends iPod and this small ass touch screen isn’t working for me.
“All of those who think it’s disgusting to masturbate in a graveyard/get penetrated by a corpse: It’s dead! A corpse doesn’t have any emotions, he’s lacking respect for what could basically be considered an object… Now YOU need to grow up, once someone is dead he won’t come back to haunt you because you weren’t respectful of his body…”
i cannot believe i have just read that it’s basically ok to go masturbate over graves..
how would you feel if it was your mother or one of your family? would you still just think “well they’re just an object now”. would you seriously not have any problem if you found him doing this on one of your loved ones graves?!
“All of those who think it’s disgusting to masturbate in a graveyard/get penetrated by a corpse: It’s dead! A corpse doesn’t have any emotions, he’s lacking respect for what could basically be considered an object… Now YOU need to grow up, once someone is dead he won’t come back to haunt you because you weren’t respectful of his body…”
i cannot believe i have just read that it’s basically ok to go masturbate over graves..
how would you feel if it was your mother or one of your family? would you still just think “well they’re just an object now”. would you seriously not have any problem if you found him doing this on one of your loved ones graves?!