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Wandalaput Interview Posted

This interview is titled, “Real Garbage: A Pig At The Service Of Vice”, and I really have to warn viewers that this is not for the casual reader, and it is most certainly adults only. Read on if you want to explore the life of an extreme SM enthusiast.

WANDA LA PUTE EXTREME SM INTERVIEW

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858 responses to “Wandalaput Interview Posted”

  1. Warren Hiller Avatar

    speakin from experience not everyone is sexually motivated in life…Consider the Non-Sexual’s, as there are people who do not revolve their life around sex. For example, sure I talk a big game in regards to sex, how much I need/want it,etc…Yet in reality I’ve gone quite a few years without sexual intercourse. I will not die if I do not have sexual intercourse, and my modifications are not sexual based, they are differently motivated (mental, personal pretty much not revolving around sex).

    I read the article and does it have any merit? Well there’s ALWAYS some merit in writing/interviews,etc. Agreed though it seemed like an advert for him to seek out his HIV death he so yearns for…I lost count how many times he said he enjoyed drinking semen out of used condoms though…Even in questions that it wasn’t even relevant in, he brought it up.

    Maybe he’s got some mental conditions, maybe not…Ultimately we ALL have some sort of mental tweak…Something subtle perhaps, or something WAY out there on the other spectrum of ultra extreme.

    Does it disgust me? Not really, I’ll sleep soundly at night…Do I believe it’s shocking, sure…Do I believe this DOES occur, sure anything can occur if someone wills it to be.

    I’m not FOR this article, but I’m NOT AGAINST it either…BME embodies body modification as well as ritual play…I guess I see ritual play in this, via his BDSM experiences…I wouldn’t really call his piss, shit, vomit,etc eating was ritual play though.

    However Shannon has the right to interview whoever whenever, just as he said he’s willing to offer guest interviewers (as he encouraged me to do an article not long ago)…Much like we have the right to either read the articles or not…Shannon posted a warning about the subject matter within the article…So I’m curious just how many people read the warning and said: “maybe I shouldn’t read this” or just how many people read it and went: “yeah whatever I’m game I’ll read it.”

    There’s always a choice to either read or not read something.

    My one reason for posting here though is two questions:

    1) He said he wants HIV to eventually die, but then immediately says he doesn’t want to die per-se…That struck a curious cord with me…But as there are so many people who are wanting to die, but when death creeps up on them, they beckon for their nice safe healthy life to return. So it makes me wonder if this is just another one of those cases.

    2) How the hell does he get the used terminal ill patient diapers?!?! Usually that bio-hazardous material is not suppose to be just sitting around, especially in hospitals. Does he break in or does he work there, or know somebody who works there?

    Reason I ask that one is because his free source of diseased riddled feces might end…As because this has been made public on the internet, it might make it back there…You never know right?

    In closing just a quote:

    NECESSARY?! NECESSARY?!?! IS IT NECESSARY TO DRINK MY OWN URINE? Course not but its sterile and I like the taste!

  2. Warren Hiller Avatar

    speakin from experience not everyone is sexually motivated in life…Consider the Non-Sexual’s, as there are people who do not revolve their life around sex. For example, sure I talk a big game in regards to sex, how much I need/want it,etc…Yet in reality I’ve gone quite a few years without sexual intercourse. I will not die if I do not have sexual intercourse, and my modifications are not sexual based, they are differently motivated (mental, personal pretty much not revolving around sex).

    I read the article and does it have any merit? Well there’s ALWAYS some merit in writing/interviews,etc. Agreed though it seemed like an advert for him to seek out his HIV death he so yearns for…I lost count how many times he said he enjoyed drinking semen out of used condoms though…Even in questions that it wasn’t even relevant in, he brought it up.

    Maybe he’s got some mental conditions, maybe not…Ultimately we ALL have some sort of mental tweak…Something subtle perhaps, or something WAY out there on the other spectrum of ultra extreme.

    Does it disgust me? Not really, I’ll sleep soundly at night…Do I believe it’s shocking, sure…Do I believe this DOES occur, sure anything can occur if someone wills it to be.

    I’m not FOR this article, but I’m NOT AGAINST it either…BME embodies body modification as well as ritual play…I guess I see ritual play in this, via his BDSM experiences…I wouldn’t really call his piss, shit, vomit,etc eating was ritual play though.

    However Shannon has the right to interview whoever whenever, just as he said he’s willing to offer guest interviewers (as he encouraged me to do an article not long ago)…Much like we have the right to either read the articles or not…Shannon posted a warning about the subject matter within the article…So I’m curious just how many people read the warning and said: “maybe I shouldn’t read this” or just how many people read it and went: “yeah whatever I’m game I’ll read it.”

    There’s always a choice to either read or not read something.

    My one reason for posting here though is two questions:

    1) He said he wants HIV to eventually die, but then immediately says he doesn’t want to die per-se…That struck a curious cord with me…But as there are so many people who are wanting to die, but when death creeps up on them, they beckon for their nice safe healthy life to return. So it makes me wonder if this is just another one of those cases.

    2) How the hell does he get the used terminal ill patient diapers?!?! Usually that bio-hazardous material is not suppose to be just sitting around, especially in hospitals. Does he break in or does he work there, or know somebody who works there?

    Reason I ask that one is because his free source of diseased riddled feces might end…As because this has been made public on the internet, it might make it back there…You never know right?

    In closing just a quote:

    NECESSARY?! NECESSARY?!?! IS IT NECESSARY TO DRINK MY OWN URINE? Course not but its sterile and I like the taste!

  3. gracefire Avatar
    gracefire

    Aiglos – And do you you know the costs of caring for some one with a mental illness? See, cuz, I do. I am on three different medications – an anti-depressant, anti-anxiety and anti-psychotic. Without insurance, filling a prescription for these drugs would cost me in excess of $2500. This is, of course, on top of the several-hundred dollar fee to see a psychiatrist, because being on these medications takes monitoring a family doctor cannot do.

    Then, of course, there is therapy. To find a good psychologist – “good,” for me, being one that caters to my specific issues of being a trauma survivor, and having a variety of other diagnosed mental issues – is another several hundred dollars per visit, as many of them don’t take insurance even if I did have it.

    Lastly, there are those glorious periodic stays in psych wards, which average in the several thousands…after insurance. Before? I don’t even want to talk about it.

    Oh! Wait! I forgot one other things. Many AIDS treatments are covered through state/government insurance plans. You would be surprised how few mental health services are covered by the same plans, and how little help there is available for people that may require specialized care.

    So, please, stop with the whole “the strain on your wallet is much less” schtick. For those with serious mental health issues, the cost of care is astronomical.

  4. gracefire Avatar
    gracefire

    Aiglos – And do you you know the costs of caring for some one with a mental illness? See, cuz, I do. I am on three different medications – an anti-depressant, anti-anxiety and anti-psychotic. Without insurance, filling a prescription for these drugs would cost me in excess of $2500. This is, of course, on top of the several-hundred dollar fee to see a psychiatrist, because being on these medications takes monitoring a family doctor cannot do.

    Then, of course, there is therapy. To find a good psychologist – “good,” for me, being one that caters to my specific issues of being a trauma survivor, and having a variety of other diagnosed mental issues – is another several hundred dollars per visit, as many of them don’t take insurance even if I did have it.

    Lastly, there are those glorious periodic stays in psych wards, which average in the several thousands…after insurance. Before? I don’t even want to talk about it.

    Oh! Wait! I forgot one other things. Many AIDS treatments are covered through state/government insurance plans. You would be surprised how few mental health services are covered by the same plans, and how little help there is available for people that may require specialized care.

    So, please, stop with the whole “the strain on your wallet is much less” schtick. For those with serious mental health issues, the cost of care is astronomical.

  5. dana Avatar
    dana

    it made me happy to see that most of these comments were mature and understanding. i thought they would be 300 comments of insults and people calling him names. i guess theres more open minded people than i thought

  6. dana Avatar
    dana

    it made me happy to see that most of these comments were mature and understanding. i thought they would be 300 comments of insults and people calling him names. i guess theres more open minded people than i thought

  7. brave men run Avatar
    brave men run

    Would there really be any point in trying to insult someone who lives for degradation?

  8. brave men run Avatar
    brave men run

    Would there really be any point in trying to insult someone who lives for degradation?

  9. lauren Avatar
    lauren

    drinking strangers’ semen out of used condoms he finds in the trash…i get that he’s accepting AIDS with open arms, but what about the other diseases he exposes himself to with these foul acts?
    although it is for no one to go about making assumptions as to how others live, he comes across so completely enamored with his own depravity, that i wonder if it’s the acts himself that he enjoys or the fact that he can live through them and manage to say he “enjoys” them. i’m sorry, but i think it quite difficult to reasonably justify acts like eating shit out of AIDS patients diapers from a hospital, and sipping from random condoms he gets from prostitutes and the garbage as part of any sort of legitimate, safe, “ritual” or “lifestyle”. these are acts of total desperation, and he himself admits this (through his obsessive need to become infected with HIV). i strongly support self expression and freedom in every way, but what is it he is expressing to the world by not only engaging in these acts, but discussing them so candidly? the boastful tone he maintained throughout worries me; if he seriously looks at contracting a deadly virus as some sort of ultimate attainment in whatever mission this is, i wonder what would happen once he finally does get HIV…

  10. lauren Avatar
    lauren

    drinking strangers’ semen out of used condoms he finds in the trash…i get that he’s accepting AIDS with open arms, but what about the other diseases he exposes himself to with these foul acts?
    although it is for no one to go about making assumptions as to how others live, he comes across so completely enamored with his own depravity, that i wonder if it’s the acts himself that he enjoys or the fact that he can live through them and manage to say he “enjoys” them. i’m sorry, but i think it quite difficult to reasonably justify acts like eating shit out of AIDS patients diapers from a hospital, and sipping from random condoms he gets from prostitutes and the garbage as part of any sort of legitimate, safe, “ritual” or “lifestyle”. these are acts of total desperation, and he himself admits this (through his obsessive need to become infected with HIV). i strongly support self expression and freedom in every way, but what is it he is expressing to the world by not only engaging in these acts, but discussing them so candidly? the boastful tone he maintained throughout worries me; if he seriously looks at contracting a deadly virus as some sort of ultimate attainment in whatever mission this is, i wonder what would happen once he finally does get HIV…

  11. choice Avatar

    lauren, i believe he will carelessly infect somebody else.

  12. choice Avatar

    lauren, i believe he will carelessly infect somebody else.

  13. anabella Avatar
    anabella

    Nothing really bothered me until I read up to the necrophilia parts. If I ever found him masterbating on a grave, he wouldn’t live long enough to die from aids. That is the most disrespectful thing he could do. He can eat shit all he wants, get aids, get every known sti in existance, just leave the deceased the hell out of it. If only ghosts existed, I’d hope they haunt him til he completely lost his mind. People put those grave stones up to remember the people that they loved and lost, and this fuck thinks its for his personal pleasure, that is the only thing that truely, absolutely disgusts me. I’ve become fairly desensitized, but that is one thing that will always bother me.

  14. anabella Avatar
    anabella

    Nothing really bothered me until I read up to the necrophilia parts. If I ever found him masterbating on a grave, he wouldn’t live long enough to die from aids. That is the most disrespectful thing he could do. He can eat shit all he wants, get aids, get every known sti in existance, just leave the deceased the hell out of it. If only ghosts existed, I’d hope they haunt him til he completely lost his mind. People put those grave stones up to remember the people that they loved and lost, and this fuck thinks its for his personal pleasure, that is the only thing that truely, absolutely disgusts me. I’ve become fairly desensitized, but that is one thing that will always bother me.

  15. rori Avatar

    the thing that grossed me out the most was the idea that his breath must be rank

  16. rori Avatar

    the thing that grossed me out the most was the idea that his breath must be rank

  17. Izzy Avatar
    Izzy

    This just blows my mind. Like the rest of you, I want to believe I have an open mind as a modified person…but there are just some things I can’t agree with. So many of the commentators here have said “as long as he isn’t hurting anyone else, it’s fine by me.” Well the simple fact is this kind of sexual behavior becomes addictive and necessary to life, and anyone who thinks he’ll stop having unprotected sex after he achieves his goal of contracting HIV is crazy. He will infect someone else, and they will infect someone else, etc. I’m all for letting someone express themselves and do whatever makes them happy, but when you start changing other people’s lives without their consent (like all of his future partners’ partners), it crosses the line and becomes something reprehensible. I seriously hope he is responsible and tells everyone he is involved with about the risks they’re taking.

  18. Izzy Avatar
    Izzy

    This just blows my mind. Like the rest of you, I want to believe I have an open mind as a modified person…but there are just some things I can’t agree with. So many of the commentators here have said “as long as he isn’t hurting anyone else, it’s fine by me.” Well the simple fact is this kind of sexual behavior becomes addictive and necessary to life, and anyone who thinks he’ll stop having unprotected sex after he achieves his goal of contracting HIV is crazy. He will infect someone else, and they will infect someone else, etc. I’m all for letting someone express themselves and do whatever makes them happy, but when you start changing other people’s lives without their consent (like all of his future partners’ partners), it crosses the line and becomes something reprehensible. I seriously hope he is responsible and tells everyone he is involved with about the risks they’re taking.

  19. Zar Avatar

    So… about three of us have mentioned the whole necrophilia thing…
    Is THAT not hurting anybody? How would you feel if he dug up your dead grandpa and fisted his ass with his foot?
    PS: Feet can’t make fists.

  20. Zar Avatar

    So… about three of us have mentioned the whole necrophilia thing…
    Is THAT not hurting anybody? How would you feel if he dug up your dead grandpa and fisted his ass with his foot?
    PS: Feet can’t make fists.

  21. marijke Avatar
    marijke

    aiglos, you comparing the prices of ‘providing care’ for hiv+s and failed suiciders is just plain silly. i found it kinda offensive? “do you have any idea?” yea i do actually.. “they need all kinds of shit”. yea those suicide victims that failed at killing themselves… how you worded everything just made you sound like a right twat, rather upsetting. and then going on about the prices of ‘cheap care’? id sure hope i didnt run into you staffing a ward.. its that kind of thing that makes me not talk to anyone and do my best to avoid hospitals and medical ‘professionals’ at all costs..

    before you go bantering your ‘authority’ on the subject, please be considerate, and actually get the things straight, instead of being ‘plain silly’. dont go around ‘do you have any idea??/ this costs thousands/ twice+ a day/ cheap care/ smaller straining wallet in comparison’.. its really demeaning.

  22. marijke Avatar
    marijke

    aiglos, you comparing the prices of ‘providing care’ for hiv+s and failed suiciders is just plain silly. i found it kinda offensive? “do you have any idea?” yea i do actually.. “they need all kinds of shit”. yea those suicide victims that failed at killing themselves… how you worded everything just made you sound like a right twat, rather upsetting. and then going on about the prices of ‘cheap care’? id sure hope i didnt run into you staffing a ward.. its that kind of thing that makes me not talk to anyone and do my best to avoid hospitals and medical ‘professionals’ at all costs..

    before you go bantering your ‘authority’ on the subject, please be considerate, and actually get the things straight, instead of being ‘plain silly’. dont go around ‘do you have any idea??/ this costs thousands/ twice+ a day/ cheap care/ smaller straining wallet in comparison’.. its really demeaning.

  23. marijke Avatar
    marijke

    lol but back to the post, eww, rori, that was exactly what i was thinking halfway through reading lol. he needs green wafty stink lines comming out his mouth onto those shoes. or maybe chronic brown ones.. and maybe a coughed out condom to complete the ensemble.

    mmm deliciousness..

  24. marijke Avatar
    marijke

    lol but back to the post, eww, rori, that was exactly what i was thinking halfway through reading lol. he needs green wafty stink lines comming out his mouth onto those shoes. or maybe chronic brown ones.. and maybe a coughed out condom to complete the ensemble.

    mmm deliciousness..

  25. Penny Avatar

    Hmm, sounds like he’d be the guy to go to when you’re feeling upset and angry at life. He’d let you bash the shit out of him.

    The thing that made me do a “double-take” was the thing about getting diapers from the hospital. Uh, sorry?! Does he just walk on up and ask the nurses at the ward? I know that in piercing studios, etc, you can’t just throw out your hazardous waste, you organise for it to be destroyed properly – so wtf is this hospital doing?

    And you know, I saw a documentary on people with the AIDS virus going out getting ‘revenge’ on unsuspecting strangers (who didn’t want the AIDS virus) and having unprotected sex with them etc in order to pass on the virus. That story freaked me out more than this guy. I get why he wants AIDs – he wants to watch his body decay – and I understand he doesn’t want to pass it on. So, really, I don’t see the big deal with it. He is 50 years old, it’s not like some 20 year old kid looking to end his life.

  26. Penny Avatar

    Hmm, sounds like he’d be the guy to go to when you’re feeling upset and angry at life. He’d let you bash the shit out of him.

    The thing that made me do a “double-take” was the thing about getting diapers from the hospital. Uh, sorry?! Does he just walk on up and ask the nurses at the ward? I know that in piercing studios, etc, you can’t just throw out your hazardous waste, you organise for it to be destroyed properly – so wtf is this hospital doing?

    And you know, I saw a documentary on people with the AIDS virus going out getting ‘revenge’ on unsuspecting strangers (who didn’t want the AIDS virus) and having unprotected sex with them etc in order to pass on the virus. That story freaked me out more than this guy. I get why he wants AIDs – he wants to watch his body decay – and I understand he doesn’t want to pass it on. So, really, I don’t see the big deal with it. He is 50 years old, it’s not like some 20 year old kid looking to end his life.

  27. Melissa Avatar
    Melissa

    @ Matt / #320:

    I would love to hear you name any real civilization / society in which sexuality in any form plays absolutely no part.

  28. Melissa Avatar
    Melissa

    @ Matt / #320:

    I would love to hear you name any real civilization / society in which sexuality in any form plays absolutely no part.

  29. Melissa Avatar
    Melissa

    @ Matt / #320:

    Also, complete submersion / subordination of sexuality also counts as recognizing sexuality as a force within society; therefore, sexuality plays a role as an enforced taboo.

  30. Melissa Avatar
    Melissa

    @ Matt / #320:

    Also, complete submersion / subordination of sexuality also counts as recognizing sexuality as a force within society; therefore, sexuality plays a role as an enforced taboo.

  31. LotN Avatar

    I understand the body play/ritual aspect, but if this had been submitted through the Experience Engine, it would have been denied for lack of BME-related material.

    And the guy just seems to be using the interview as a personals ad..

  32. LotN Avatar

    I understand the body play/ritual aspect, but if this had been submitted through the Experience Engine, it would have been denied for lack of BME-related material.

    And the guy just seems to be using the interview as a personals ad..

  33. sam gideon Avatar

    i find a hard time believing that…i mean i see the pictures. I dunno…I just can’t understand how a person could get like that. I know exposure to certain things can distort the mind into thinking some things are pleasurable that normally wouldn’t be. I’m one to talk….but all that…wow.

  34. sam gideon Avatar

    i find a hard time believing that…i mean i see the pictures. I dunno…I just can’t understand how a person could get like that. I know exposure to certain things can distort the mind into thinking some things are pleasurable that normally wouldn’t be. I’m one to talk….but all that…wow.

  35. ishinenotburn Avatar
    ishinenotburn

    yah the guys different, yah he keeps saying the same thing over and over again. But maybe stop to think that maybe Shannon did try to ask other questions, get a bit deeper into the guys life and maybe the guy just didnt want to talk about it? Im glad its not a forced interview and that all we are seeing is Wanda in his lowest form – a garbage worm. Should some of his answers be more in depth sure – but thats not for us to decide. It was his interview and his alone- and well when it comes time for you to have yours you all can answer what ever you want in your questions. yay for freedom of speech.

    that aside – I wonder if hes ever had any long term relationships? Seems most of his sex acts and memories consist of small random encounters or brief sexual contact?

    also It sure would be interesting to find those kids from the school and let them talk/see Wanda now !!

  36. ishinenotburn Avatar
    ishinenotburn

    yah the guys different, yah he keeps saying the same thing over and over again. But maybe stop to think that maybe Shannon did try to ask other questions, get a bit deeper into the guys life and maybe the guy just didnt want to talk about it? Im glad its not a forced interview and that all we are seeing is Wanda in his lowest form – a garbage worm. Should some of his answers be more in depth sure – but thats not for us to decide. It was his interview and his alone- and well when it comes time for you to have yours you all can answer what ever you want in your questions. yay for freedom of speech.

    that aside – I wonder if hes ever had any long term relationships? Seems most of his sex acts and memories consist of small random encounters or brief sexual contact?

    also It sure would be interesting to find those kids from the school and let them talk/see Wanda now !!

  37. TrinityVA Avatar
    TrinityVA

    319: “Caring for a suicide victim that failed at killing themselves is alot cheaper than caring for an AIDS/HIV patient. Do you have any idea what the daily mix of pills goes for? It’s in the low thousands.”

    Don’t assume we don’t know what caring for someone with AIDS is like. Don’t assume we haven’t watched people dying.

    Hell, my experiences doing so are exactly why I think people deserve care regardless of their bugchasing.

    I know someone who got this disease who was not at all rational, not at all kind, not at all anything but a deeply selfish person with, on top of that, mental health issues a mile wide too.

    Was this person responsible? No. Does he deserve to die this way? NO.

    I understand the basic feeling that society doesn’t owe someone something as expensive in labor and money as medical care like this. But I do not agree with that at all, and I *am not* speaking out of ignorance. So disagree with me if you like, but please don’t assume I’m talking out my ass. I’m not.

    In fact, one of the things I wonder if Wanda knows and understands is that brain infections (toxoplasmosis is lovely to watch, kids) and various sorts of dementia are not all that rare in people with AIDS. Even if he really does welcome the bodily wasting, has he considered the possible neurological effects of various sorts?

  38. TrinityVA Avatar
    TrinityVA

    319: “Caring for a suicide victim that failed at killing themselves is alot cheaper than caring for an AIDS/HIV patient. Do you have any idea what the daily mix of pills goes for? It’s in the low thousands.”

    Don’t assume we don’t know what caring for someone with AIDS is like. Don’t assume we haven’t watched people dying.

    Hell, my experiences doing so are exactly why I think people deserve care regardless of their bugchasing.

    I know someone who got this disease who was not at all rational, not at all kind, not at all anything but a deeply selfish person with, on top of that, mental health issues a mile wide too.

    Was this person responsible? No. Does he deserve to die this way? NO.

    I understand the basic feeling that society doesn’t owe someone something as expensive in labor and money as medical care like this. But I do not agree with that at all, and I *am not* speaking out of ignorance. So disagree with me if you like, but please don’t assume I’m talking out my ass. I’m not.

    In fact, one of the things I wonder if Wanda knows and understands is that brain infections (toxoplasmosis is lovely to watch, kids) and various sorts of dementia are not all that rare in people with AIDS. Even if he really does welcome the bodily wasting, has he considered the possible neurological effects of various sorts?

  39. TrinityVA Avatar
    TrinityVA

    338: Yeah, I wondered that too. Makes me wonder if 1) Wanda is lying or 2) there’s some pretty weirdly uncareful disposal of biohazardous waste going on…

  40. TrinityVA Avatar
    TrinityVA

    338: Yeah, I wondered that too. Makes me wonder if 1) Wanda is lying or 2) there’s some pretty weirdly uncareful disposal of biohazardous waste going on…

  41. TrinityVA Avatar
    TrinityVA

    335: PS: Feet can’t make fists.

    Yeah, but when fisting, one’s hand is at least at first not in the shape of a fist anyway.

  42. TrinityVA Avatar
    TrinityVA

    335: PS: Feet can’t make fists.

    Yeah, but when fisting, one’s hand is at least at first not in the shape of a fist anyway.

  43. Matt Avatar
    Matt

    Melissa, the point I was really trying to make was about sexual identity, not so much sexuality. I should have been more specific (although I did mention it once). Its hard to identify people or cultures where sexuality doesn’t play a major role because we know what to look for. We can observe and say “See? Right there. Thats sexuality being expressed.” But to the people actually living in those cultures, like the Sambia in New Guinea, who practice ritualized homosexuality, they don’t see it as sexual in any ways. Its the process of a boy becoming a man. Obviously, we can see the sexuality of it, but because they live in a place detached from society, and really civilization, they don’t have the same concepts.

    I agree that sexuality is a force within society, but that was where I was trying to make the distinction. Sexuality is not a part of nature per say, meaning that I don’t think it is at the core of humanity like some argue, but rather, a construct of society, if that makes my point any clearer.

  44. Matt Avatar
    Matt

    Melissa, the point I was really trying to make was about sexual identity, not so much sexuality. I should have been more specific (although I did mention it once). Its hard to identify people or cultures where sexuality doesn’t play a major role because we know what to look for. We can observe and say “See? Right there. Thats sexuality being expressed.” But to the people actually living in those cultures, like the Sambia in New Guinea, who practice ritualized homosexuality, they don’t see it as sexual in any ways. Its the process of a boy becoming a man. Obviously, we can see the sexuality of it, but because they live in a place detached from society, and really civilization, they don’t have the same concepts.

    I agree that sexuality is a force within society, but that was where I was trying to make the distinction. Sexuality is not a part of nature per say, meaning that I don’t think it is at the core of humanity like some argue, but rather, a construct of society, if that makes my point any clearer.

  45. xperfume Avatar
    xperfume

    you can feel that he isn’t insane. he wouldn’t hurt anyone who hasn’t asked for it. i wish he could find true love.

  46. xperfume Avatar
    xperfume

    you can feel that he isn’t insane. he wouldn’t hurt anyone who hasn’t asked for it. i wish he could find true love.

  47. lauren Avatar
    lauren

    it seems to me that true love is a myth to this man, something he has no knowledge of and no desire for. people keep saying this interview comes across as more so a “personal ad”, but by the same token, it could be perceived by some as a cry for help. if i am not mistaken (and forgive me if i am, because i don’t engage), many of those who partake in BDSM live/play within the framework of the notion/phrase “safe, sane, consensual”. everything he’s described (with the exception of his childhood) seems consensual enough, but objectively speaking, there is absolutely nothing safe or sane about the activities he’s engaging in. eating shit exposes him to not only HIV, potentially, but also Hep A & E, Pneumonia, and influenza…he claims to revel in acting as a garbage bin for human waste, but who will fuck him once he eventually contracts these viruses? will he bother to tell them? if his role as garbage bin means that much to him, i question why he’d essentially throw that away (as i can only assume those who would know about any diseases, would stop messing with him). to say “if he’s happy, leave him be” seems irresponsible to me. how can anyone genuinely be happy living like this? how do we know? based on what this man says? he doesn’t say he’s happy, he essentially enjoys acting like bacteria. he’s not a real person therefore we can’t measure him in terms of happiness. this is not passing judgment, it is a matter of human psychosis.

  48. lauren Avatar
    lauren

    it seems to me that true love is a myth to this man, something he has no knowledge of and no desire for. people keep saying this interview comes across as more so a “personal ad”, but by the same token, it could be perceived by some as a cry for help. if i am not mistaken (and forgive me if i am, because i don’t engage), many of those who partake in BDSM live/play within the framework of the notion/phrase “safe, sane, consensual”. everything he’s described (with the exception of his childhood) seems consensual enough, but objectively speaking, there is absolutely nothing safe or sane about the activities he’s engaging in. eating shit exposes him to not only HIV, potentially, but also Hep A & E, Pneumonia, and influenza…he claims to revel in acting as a garbage bin for human waste, but who will fuck him once he eventually contracts these viruses? will he bother to tell them? if his role as garbage bin means that much to him, i question why he’d essentially throw that away (as i can only assume those who would know about any diseases, would stop messing with him). to say “if he’s happy, leave him be” seems irresponsible to me. how can anyone genuinely be happy living like this? how do we know? based on what this man says? he doesn’t say he’s happy, he essentially enjoys acting like bacteria. he’s not a real person therefore we can’t measure him in terms of happiness. this is not passing judgment, it is a matter of human psychosis.

  49. marijke Avatar
    marijke

    lol trinityva- so true.
    lol feets dont make fists. lol but you get the idea.

    stinkfooted..

  50. marijke Avatar
    marijke

    lol trinityva- so true.
    lol feets dont make fists. lol but you get the idea.

    stinkfooted..

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