A black-and-white photo of a person mid-air in a Superman-style body suspension pose, supported by multiple hooks in their back and legs, smiling joyfully toward the camera. They are suspended horizontally in a large indoor space with high ceilings and visible rigging. A group of onlookers—some seated, some standing—watch with expressions of admiration, amusement, and support. The atmosphere is lively and communal, capturing a moment of shared experience and transformation.

Like a fine wine

There is an ultra-large BME update with I think over 6,000 new pictures and a couple hundred stories that was posted earlier today, along with a wonderful “new” interview, but other than that I’m taking the weekend off for family fun. If you’re in Toronto, I’ll be at the fire sculptures and at various winter festival events, so say hello if you see me!

But anyway, I just can’t stop looking at this wonderful photo of a customer of Ashley‘s — she pierces at Cape Fear Piercing in Greenville, NC. I love seeing people of all ages with facial tattoos (click here for BME’s full facial/neck tattoo galleries) and mods (the ring-bridge is by Ashley), but facial tattoos on older individuals just look so distinguished and handsome…

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Comments

57 responses to “Like a fine wine”

  1. hopewillfailyou Avatar
    hopewillfailyou

    his bridge piercing looks kind of pissed.

  2. Shannon Avatar

    Looks fine to me for a fresh piercing. I’m 99% sure it’ll heal fine.

  3. hopewillfailyou Avatar
    hopewillfailyou

    i was thinking about getting one but i would go crosseyed from looking at it too much 😛

  4. IC2163 Avatar

    yes..indeed.

    he looks so nice! I wish i will look like that, if i ever make it that far!

    nice to have you back posting, shannon! have fun with your family!

  5. Natalie Avatar
    Natalie

    I think I have an old man fetish starting……..NOW!

  6. kristen182 Avatar
    kristen182

    haha, yeah seriously.
    you can definitely tell he was a stud back in the day 😉 lol

  7. hellvig Avatar
    hellvig

    oh, those tattoos are really nice. handsome, i agree.

  8. Matney X Avatar

    That guy could be Roo’s dad, seriously.

  9. manini Avatar
    manini

    I thought the same exact thing.

    Very handsome indeed.

  10. cyber_android Avatar

    The tattoos are lovely, the bride piercing isn’t my cup of tea but he has the warmest eyes that I’ve seen for a long time.

  11. greendayfan333 Avatar
    greendayfan333

    I love this picture 😀

  12. Giles Avatar

    >>>That guy could be Roo’s dad, seriously.

    I was all set to write exactly the same thing !!! 🙂

  13. MissButterflyy Avatar

    Reminds me of a modded Gary Oldman.
    Hm, I think I’d like to photoshop some mods onto Mr. Oldman, just for the pure fun of a new state of turn-on. 😉

  14. bill Avatar
    bill

    99% seems a little optimistic on the success of healing that piercing.

  15. SNAPLLL Avatar
    SNAPLLL

    snap he is damn fine!

  16. Cosette Avatar
    Cosette

    the tattoos on his cheeks almost play up his wrinkles instead of hiding them… now *that’s* the way to age!

  17. DWC Avatar
    DWC

    Ashley’s a great piercer, it’s good to see her work get Modblog’d.

  18. Cheza Marie Avatar

    >>>That guy could be Roo’s dad, seriously.

    lol! first thing i thought of when i saw this picture!

  19. Shannon Avatar

    bill – It looks like a decently deep placement, and older guys have excellent healing rates on pseudo-surface work because their skin exerts less pressure on the piercing. I really feel that he shouldn’t have any issues with the ring.

  20. Warren Hiller Avatar

    the left side (his right in the pic) looks a bit worse compared to the other side…kinda hard to tell based on the picture, since its a full facial pic and not a close up of the bridge.

    personally not a fan of using a CBR in a bridge for the initial piercing…But once its healed would be a lot better option.

    I think it could have used another size up with the ring diameter to reduce the amount of pull,etc…I think that ring size would be ideal for it once healed…But I’ve seen bridges swell quite a bit initially, although that can be a whole climate regional concern and perhaps this guy won’t swell as much.

    But yeah ideal photos to discuss the bridge would be a close up of it in a frontal view, then a side view of the entry and exit point.

  21. Robyn Avatar
    Robyn

    Why are we discussing his bridge when we should clearly just be discussing how attractive he is?

  22. Jurppa Avatar
    Jurppa

    people always say what about when your old and wrinkley, and you have streched lobes and your tats and old, (lobes arnt here) but this is what it looks like and its great, love the photo. great pic!

  23. herekittykitty Avatar
    herekittykitty

    He’s got really pretty eyes and the tattoos suit him well =)

  24. Mollie Avatar

    Robyn: touché! 🙂

  25. Ro Avatar
    Ro

    Lovely, he has such kind eyes.

    I cannot wait until more people embrace tattoos and piercings rather than worrying about what they’ll look like when they’re older. Good tattoos and piercings stand the test of time.

  26. LuK3? Avatar

    I dont reckon he looks that old. It must be the hat.

  27. Alice White Avatar

    That’s one seriously attractive older-ish man. I love the tats on the side of the cheeks, they look brilliant

  28. Mari Avatar
    Mari

    Ashley is my piercer and she’s great at what she does. I really like this gentleman’s work!

  29. resonanteye Avatar

    ah, he is gorgeous!

  30. VikingValkyrie Avatar

    His mods suit him well.

  31. Kat777 Avatar
    Kat777

    i love those tattoos, they compliment his facial structure really well 🙂

  32. Kat777 Avatar
    Kat777

    and i have to agree with the previously stated, he IS a cutie 😉

  33. if6was9 Avatar
    if6was9

    Roo got old?!

    Matney, exactly. 🙂

  34. Bronte Avatar
    Bronte

    Great entry, Shannon.

  35. RooRaaah Crumbs Avatar

    I can assure you he looks nothing like my father, he’s got gorgeous eyes though!

    And scarily how I see myself when I’m older, apart from a few minor cosmetic changes 🙂

  36. Smurf666 Avatar
    Smurf666

    He doesn’t look that old to me?

  37. possessed Avatar

    Distinguished and handsome are exactly the right words for this man! His mods look wonderful and really natural on him. I like subtle facial tattoos the best.

  38. Nika Avatar
    Nika

    He has such beautiful eyes. And his mods suit him really, really well. The tattoos look fantastic on him. I love cute little old men. ^.^

  39. Southern Belle Avatar

    Ok…so here’s the deal with his bridge… I started it with a barbell. If it were ANYONE else I’d make them keep a barbell in it until it’s completely healed. But he wanted it changed before he went out of town.

    In addition… That man could heal a wood stake through his gut. He’s a traveler and has the immune system to prove it. So, I’m leniant with him.

    And the ring is a D-ring… not a CBR. There’s no way I’d put a CBR in a bridge (especially so soon after the piercing with a barbell).

    Oh! And he’s RAD. One of the nicest people ever. We talk for hours when we get the chance. He calls me “kid”. I like it.

  40. Vegas Avatar
    Vegas

    damn i hope my tattoos stay that well formed when im old…

  41. max Avatar
    max

    he’s cute!

  42. Z Avatar
    Z

    Damn, he’s cool looking. Love the way his mods suit his face so well.

  43. Kitteh Avatar
    Kitteh

    Can I adopt him?
    I need a new gramps.

  44. Giles Avatar

    >>>Why are we discussing his bridge when we should clearly just be discussing how attractive he is?

    Oddly because this is a blog about body modification and not “Am I hot or fucking not”….. jeez

  45. HELLS_MoNkEy Avatar

    I like his mods, they suit him well.

    But I have to wonder….would this man find all of these comments at all patronising? I really don’t think he looks all that old. Yes, older than the majority of western people currently with facial piercing and tattooing, but not particularly old.

    Just a thought.

    Anyway, he looks very good, his tattoos are excellent.

  46. Archetype Avatar

    those facial tattoo’s are something else.
    amazing.

  47. Hekate Avatar
    Hekate

    Oh maaaaan, he’s handsome, love those tattoos and eyes *_*
    wow..

  48. mashallah Avatar
    mashallah

    so handsome. i think he looks wonderful.

  49. Z Avatar
    Z

    Kitteh – No way! I call dibs.
    HELLS_MoNkEy – Yeah I changed my original comment which involved calling him old simply because he doesn’t appear that old and even if he is he’s aged wonderfully.

  50. Josh Avatar

    Yay for Ashley! Love that chick. and ive met this guy a few times, heard some stories he had to tell and whatnot. Awesome all around.

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