Lynn (a BDSM slave) came in today asking for something a bit more unique. She was impressed by the 10g horizontal hood I had done on her last year and wanted to get something a bit more interesting for her master.
She mentioned to me that she wanted to get her outer labia pierced so I suggested two 10g curved titanium barbells with 7/32″ slave ring bead ends. We could then attach four CBR’s to it while it healed. Then she could either weight them or remove them and slide a 1&1/4″ curved barbell through both forming the beginning of a chastity. If she then felt the healing process went well and the jewelry felt good when healed we could continue the project downward forming a complete chastity. She agreed and was so happy with the result when I’d finished she jumped up and gave me a big hug! I had also allowed her master to watch the procedure which I rarely do but I was glad I did.
He complimented me the entire time and was surprisingly nice to Lynn.
Lots of love,
– Lane
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186 responses to “BDSM Slave project”
Looks really nice. i cannot understand BDSM, but well, it doesn’t matter. The only important thing is the piercing now 😉
Looks really nice. i cannot understand BDSM, but well, it doesn’t matter. The only important thing is the piercing now 😉
They look really good, very straight and very even. The HCH doesn’t look too happy though.
They look really good, very straight and very even. The HCH doesn’t look too happy though.
They look really good, very straight and very even. The HCH doesn’t look too happy though.
They look really good, very straight and very even. The HCH doesn’t look too happy though.
They look really good, very straight and very even. The HCH doesn’t look too happy though.
They look really good, very straight and very even. The HCH doesn’t look too happy though.
In my experience, when people in a full-time master/slave relationship come into a piercing studio, the master tends to be…well…very “masterish”. They want to be in control of as many aspects of the process as possible…very often to the extent that the slave has been instructed not to speak. I have seen more than a few slaves rebuked for attempting to answer a question that I asked them directly. That sort of behavior can come across as “not nice”, so perhaps that’s the sort of behavior Lane was expecting, not unreasonably, to experience.
As a piercer, it can be difficult to operate comfortably in these circumstances as I (and most other responsible piercers) want to ensure I’m doing work on someone who wants to be pierced. I have no issue with the nature of a master/slave relationship, but if it seems as though the person getting the piercing truly doesn’t want to be pierced, I have no problems refusing to do the work.
My obligation is to the person I am piercing. I have no obligation to the master or the dynamic of their relationship.
In my experience, when people in a full-time master/slave relationship come into a piercing studio, the master tends to be…well…very “masterish”. They want to be in control of as many aspects of the process as possible…very often to the extent that the slave has been instructed not to speak. I have seen more than a few slaves rebuked for attempting to answer a question that I asked them directly. That sort of behavior can come across as “not nice”, so perhaps that’s the sort of behavior Lane was expecting, not unreasonably, to experience.
As a piercer, it can be difficult to operate comfortably in these circumstances as I (and most other responsible piercers) want to ensure I’m doing work on someone who wants to be pierced. I have no issue with the nature of a master/slave relationship, but if it seems as though the person getting the piercing truly doesn’t want to be pierced, I have no problems refusing to do the work.
My obligation is to the person I am piercing. I have no obligation to the master or the dynamic of their relationship.
In my experience, when people in a full-time master/slave relationship come into a piercing studio, the master tends to be…well…very “masterish”. They want to be in control of as many aspects of the process as possible…very often to the extent that the slave has been instructed not to speak. I have seen more than a few slaves rebuked for attempting to answer a question that I asked them directly. That sort of behavior can come across as “not nice”, so perhaps that’s the sort of behavior Lane was expecting, not unreasonably, to experience.
As a piercer, it can be difficult to operate comfortably in these circumstances as I (and most other responsible piercers) want to ensure I’m doing work on someone who wants to be pierced. I have no issue with the nature of a master/slave relationship, but if it seems as though the person getting the piercing truly doesn’t want to be pierced, I have no problems refusing to do the work.
My obligation is to the person I am piercing. I have no obligation to the master or the dynamic of their relationship.
In my experience, when people in a full-time master/slave relationship come into a piercing studio, the master tends to be…well…very “masterish”. They want to be in control of as many aspects of the process as possible…very often to the extent that the slave has been instructed not to speak. I have seen more than a few slaves rebuked for attempting to answer a question that I asked them directly. That sort of behavior can come across as “not nice”, so perhaps that’s the sort of behavior Lane was expecting, not unreasonably, to experience.
As a piercer, it can be difficult to operate comfortably in these circumstances as I (and most other responsible piercers) want to ensure I’m doing work on someone who wants to be pierced. I have no issue with the nature of a master/slave relationship, but if it seems as though the person getting the piercing truly doesn’t want to be pierced, I have no problems refusing to do the work.
My obligation is to the person I am piercing. I have no obligation to the master or the dynamic of their relationship.
In my experience, when people in a full-time master/slave relationship come into a piercing studio, the master tends to be…well…very “masterish”. They want to be in control of as many aspects of the process as possible…very often to the extent that the slave has been instructed not to speak. I have seen more than a few slaves rebuked for attempting to answer a question that I asked them directly. That sort of behavior can come across as “not nice”, so perhaps that’s the sort of behavior Lane was expecting, not unreasonably, to experience.
As a piercer, it can be difficult to operate comfortably in these circumstances as I (and most other responsible piercers) want to ensure I’m doing work on someone who wants to be pierced. I have no issue with the nature of a master/slave relationship, but if it seems as though the person getting the piercing truly doesn’t want to be pierced, I have no problems refusing to do the work.
My obligation is to the person I am piercing. I have no obligation to the master or the dynamic of their relationship.
In my experience, when people in a full-time master/slave relationship come into a piercing studio, the master tends to be…well…very “masterish”. They want to be in control of as many aspects of the process as possible…very often to the extent that the slave has been instructed not to speak. I have seen more than a few slaves rebuked for attempting to answer a question that I asked them directly. That sort of behavior can come across as “not nice”, so perhaps that’s the sort of behavior Lane was expecting, not unreasonably, to experience.
As a piercer, it can be difficult to operate comfortably in these circumstances as I (and most other responsible piercers) want to ensure I’m doing work on someone who wants to be pierced. I have no issue with the nature of a master/slave relationship, but if it seems as though the person getting the piercing truly doesn’t want to be pierced, I have no problems refusing to do the work.
My obligation is to the person I am piercing. I have no obligation to the master or the dynamic of their relationship.
Amorphous: I can see where you’re coming from. And I can definitely understand how you’d be uncomfortable, especially if the slave had been told not to speak. The piercing was probably discussed ahead of time, but you have no way of knowing that. If I were in that situation, I’d be uncomfortable too.
And yes, lifestyle dominants can come across as “not nice” much of the time. They might be cuddly teddy bears in private, but harsher in public. Or they might be harsh all the time. It’s all in a person’s nature, I suppose.
Amorphous: I can see where you’re coming from. And I can definitely understand how you’d be uncomfortable, especially if the slave had been told not to speak. The piercing was probably discussed ahead of time, but you have no way of knowing that. If I were in that situation, I’d be uncomfortable too.
And yes, lifestyle dominants can come across as “not nice” much of the time. They might be cuddly teddy bears in private, but harsher in public. Or they might be harsh all the time. It’s all in a person’s nature, I suppose.
Amorphous: I can see where you’re coming from. And I can definitely understand how you’d be uncomfortable, especially if the slave had been told not to speak. The piercing was probably discussed ahead of time, but you have no way of knowing that. If I were in that situation, I’d be uncomfortable too.
And yes, lifestyle dominants can come across as “not nice” much of the time. They might be cuddly teddy bears in private, but harsher in public. Or they might be harsh all the time. It’s all in a person’s nature, I suppose.
Amorphous: I can see where you’re coming from. And I can definitely understand how you’d be uncomfortable, especially if the slave had been told not to speak. The piercing was probably discussed ahead of time, but you have no way of knowing that. If I were in that situation, I’d be uncomfortable too.
And yes, lifestyle dominants can come across as “not nice” much of the time. They might be cuddly teddy bears in private, but harsher in public. Or they might be harsh all the time. It’s all in a person’s nature, I suppose.
Amorphous: I can see where you’re coming from. And I can definitely understand how you’d be uncomfortable, especially if the slave had been told not to speak. The piercing was probably discussed ahead of time, but you have no way of knowing that. If I were in that situation, I’d be uncomfortable too.
And yes, lifestyle dominants can come across as “not nice” much of the time. They might be cuddly teddy bears in private, but harsher in public. Or they might be harsh all the time. It’s all in a person’s nature, I suppose.
Amorphous: I can see where you’re coming from. And I can definitely understand how you’d be uncomfortable, especially if the slave had been told not to speak. The piercing was probably discussed ahead of time, but you have no way of knowing that. If I were in that situation, I’d be uncomfortable too.
And yes, lifestyle dominants can come across as “not nice” much of the time. They might be cuddly teddy bears in private, but harsher in public. Or they might be harsh all the time. It’s all in a person’s nature, I suppose.
The nice part was in this situation they both asked questions and discussed the issues together. I have had situation where the slave was told what to do and I have had to refuse the piercing because I felt they had no choice in what was going to be done to their bodies. That’s why this master’s kindness surprised me. I believe they were more into the fun of role playing than being hard core BDSM participants.
The nice part was in this situation they both asked questions and discussed the issues together. I have had situation where the slave was told what to do and I have had to refuse the piercing because I felt they had no choice in what was going to be done to their bodies. That’s why this master’s kindness surprised me. I believe they were more into the fun of role playing than being hard core BDSM participants.
The nice part was in this situation they both asked questions and discussed the issues together. I have had situation where the slave was told what to do and I have had to refuse the piercing because I felt they had no choice in what was going to be done to their bodies. That’s why this master’s kindness surprised me. I believe they were more into the fun of role playing than being hard core BDSM participants.
The nice part was in this situation they both asked questions and discussed the issues together. I have had situation where the slave was told what to do and I have had to refuse the piercing because I felt they had no choice in what was going to be done to their bodies. That’s why this master’s kindness surprised me. I believe they were more into the fun of role playing than being hard core BDSM participants.
The nice part was in this situation they both asked questions and discussed the issues together. I have had situation where the slave was told what to do and I have had to refuse the piercing because I felt they had no choice in what was going to be done to their bodies. That’s why this master’s kindness surprised me. I believe they were more into the fun of role playing than being hard core BDSM participants.
The nice part was in this situation they both asked questions and discussed the issues together. I have had situation where the slave was told what to do and I have had to refuse the piercing because I felt they had no choice in what was going to be done to their bodies. That’s why this master’s kindness surprised me. I believe they were more into the fun of role playing than being hard core BDSM participants.
#20: Nika there is ways of finding out if it was discussed prior and the overall situation.
In terms of the Master/Sub relationship a proper Master should be willing to give the “master” controls over to you, the piercer, especially when you’re in a piercing studio environment…As the piercing studio is NOT their domain, or something they can control. There is shop protocols and policies that prohibit the master being in control of the situation.
It’s definitely hard though cuz some master’s are VERY dominant, to the point of shutting themselves off from “reality”…To each their own, but luckily any dom/sub I’ve had has been more then respectful of my protocols and policies.
#20: Nika there is ways of finding out if it was discussed prior and the overall situation.
In terms of the Master/Sub relationship a proper Master should be willing to give the “master” controls over to you, the piercer, especially when you’re in a piercing studio environment…As the piercing studio is NOT their domain, or something they can control. There is shop protocols and policies that prohibit the master being in control of the situation.
It’s definitely hard though cuz some master’s are VERY dominant, to the point of shutting themselves off from “reality”…To each their own, but luckily any dom/sub I’ve had has been more then respectful of my protocols and policies.
#20: Nika there is ways of finding out if it was discussed prior and the overall situation.
In terms of the Master/Sub relationship a proper Master should be willing to give the “master” controls over to you, the piercer, especially when you’re in a piercing studio environment…As the piercing studio is NOT their domain, or something they can control. There is shop protocols and policies that prohibit the master being in control of the situation.
It’s definitely hard though cuz some master’s are VERY dominant, to the point of shutting themselves off from “reality”…To each their own, but luckily any dom/sub I’ve had has been more then respectful of my protocols and policies.
#20: Nika there is ways of finding out if it was discussed prior and the overall situation.
In terms of the Master/Sub relationship a proper Master should be willing to give the “master” controls over to you, the piercer, especially when you’re in a piercing studio environment…As the piercing studio is NOT their domain, or something they can control. There is shop protocols and policies that prohibit the master being in control of the situation.
It’s definitely hard though cuz some master’s are VERY dominant, to the point of shutting themselves off from “reality”…To each their own, but luckily any dom/sub I’ve had has been more then respectful of my protocols and policies.
#20: Nika there is ways of finding out if it was discussed prior and the overall situation.
In terms of the Master/Sub relationship a proper Master should be willing to give the “master” controls over to you, the piercer, especially when you’re in a piercing studio environment…As the piercing studio is NOT their domain, or something they can control. There is shop protocols and policies that prohibit the master being in control of the situation.
It’s definitely hard though cuz some master’s are VERY dominant, to the point of shutting themselves off from “reality”…To each their own, but luckily any dom/sub I’ve had has been more then respectful of my protocols and policies.
#20: Nika there is ways of finding out if it was discussed prior and the overall situation.
In terms of the Master/Sub relationship a proper Master should be willing to give the “master” controls over to you, the piercer, especially when you’re in a piercing studio environment…As the piercing studio is NOT their domain, or something they can control. There is shop protocols and policies that prohibit the master being in control of the situation.
It’s definitely hard though cuz some master’s are VERY dominant, to the point of shutting themselves off from “reality”…To each their own, but luckily any dom/sub I’ve had has been more then respectful of my protocols and policies.
“They want to be in control of as many aspects of the process as possible…very often to the extent that the slave has been instructed not to speak. I have seen more than a few slaves rebuked for attempting to answer a question that I asked them directly.”
Okay, that makes sense. There are some people with protocols about when slaves can speak, yes. That always struck me as silly, personally, but to each his own. Though it does seem unwise in a body mod situation to me as well. My personal feeling would be that if someone has those protocols, s/he should answer for the slave if s/he knows the answer, and if s/he can’t, the slave should answer. I don’t think there’s any reason for rebukes in that situation. But that’s me and my opinion.
“They want to be in control of as many aspects of the process as possible…very often to the extent that the slave has been instructed not to speak. I have seen more than a few slaves rebuked for attempting to answer a question that I asked them directly.”
Okay, that makes sense. There are some people with protocols about when slaves can speak, yes. That always struck me as silly, personally, but to each his own. Though it does seem unwise in a body mod situation to me as well. My personal feeling would be that if someone has those protocols, s/he should answer for the slave if s/he knows the answer, and if s/he can’t, the slave should answer. I don’t think there’s any reason for rebukes in that situation. But that’s me and my opinion.
“They want to be in control of as many aspects of the process as possible…very often to the extent that the slave has been instructed not to speak. I have seen more than a few slaves rebuked for attempting to answer a question that I asked them directly.”
Okay, that makes sense. There are some people with protocols about when slaves can speak, yes. That always struck me as silly, personally, but to each his own. Though it does seem unwise in a body mod situation to me as well. My personal feeling would be that if someone has those protocols, s/he should answer for the slave if s/he knows the answer, and if s/he can’t, the slave should answer. I don’t think there’s any reason for rebukes in that situation. But that’s me and my opinion.
“They want to be in control of as many aspects of the process as possible…very often to the extent that the slave has been instructed not to speak. I have seen more than a few slaves rebuked for attempting to answer a question that I asked them directly.”
Okay, that makes sense. There are some people with protocols about when slaves can speak, yes. That always struck me as silly, personally, but to each his own. Though it does seem unwise in a body mod situation to me as well. My personal feeling would be that if someone has those protocols, s/he should answer for the slave if s/he knows the answer, and if s/he can’t, the slave should answer. I don’t think there’s any reason for rebukes in that situation. But that’s me and my opinion.
“They want to be in control of as many aspects of the process as possible…very often to the extent that the slave has been instructed not to speak. I have seen more than a few slaves rebuked for attempting to answer a question that I asked them directly.”
Okay, that makes sense. There are some people with protocols about when slaves can speak, yes. That always struck me as silly, personally, but to each his own. Though it does seem unwise in a body mod situation to me as well. My personal feeling would be that if someone has those protocols, s/he should answer for the slave if s/he knows the answer, and if s/he can’t, the slave should answer. I don’t think there’s any reason for rebukes in that situation. But that’s me and my opinion.
“They want to be in control of as many aspects of the process as possible…very often to the extent that the slave has been instructed not to speak. I have seen more than a few slaves rebuked for attempting to answer a question that I asked them directly.”
Okay, that makes sense. There are some people with protocols about when slaves can speak, yes. That always struck me as silly, personally, but to each his own. Though it does seem unwise in a body mod situation to me as well. My personal feeling would be that if someone has those protocols, s/he should answer for the slave if s/he knows the answer, and if s/he can’t, the slave should answer. I don’t think there’s any reason for rebukes in that situation. But that’s me and my opinion.
Lane: thanks for clearing that up. And yeah, that kind of thing does happen. And that’s a shame in my opinion. My opinion is that even people who want very deep control should be having fun.
Lane: thanks for clearing that up. And yeah, that kind of thing does happen. And that’s a shame in my opinion. My opinion is that even people who want very deep control should be having fun.
Lane: thanks for clearing that up. And yeah, that kind of thing does happen. And that’s a shame in my opinion. My opinion is that even people who want very deep control should be having fun.
Lane: thanks for clearing that up. And yeah, that kind of thing does happen. And that’s a shame in my opinion. My opinion is that even people who want very deep control should be having fun.
Lane: thanks for clearing that up. And yeah, that kind of thing does happen. And that’s a shame in my opinion. My opinion is that even people who want very deep control should be having fun.
Lane: thanks for clearing that up. And yeah, that kind of thing does happen. And that’s a shame in my opinion. My opinion is that even people who want very deep control should be having fun.
#21 what you are describing is a healthy BDSM relationship. As a lifestyle Domina and having owned live in slaves. I can say that this is how it should be. A Dominant is respectful and cares deeply for the ones who are collared by them.
It is a very meanigful relationship and the saftey mentally and physically of the sumbissive or slave is very much key to the happiness of their owner. There are so many examples of abuse in supposed BDSM relationships that it is sickenenning.
It is clear that Lynn wanted to have these piercing and was rapt at the idea of the chastity her Master would be able to use with her from your work. It is very nice to see people in such an example of a BDSM lifestyle. I think if you ask them you will see it is not just fun and roleplay for them. It is simply that they are very happy and do not see the need to express extreme and humiliating behaviour inorder to fufill both the needs of the Dominant and the submissive.
#21 what you are describing is a healthy BDSM relationship. As a lifestyle Domina and having owned live in slaves. I can say that this is how it should be. A Dominant is respectful and cares deeply for the ones who are collared by them.
It is a very meanigful relationship and the saftey mentally and physically of the sumbissive or slave is very much key to the happiness of their owner. There are so many examples of abuse in supposed BDSM relationships that it is sickenenning.
It is clear that Lynn wanted to have these piercing and was rapt at the idea of the chastity her Master would be able to use with her from your work. It is very nice to see people in such an example of a BDSM lifestyle. I think if you ask them you will see it is not just fun and roleplay for them. It is simply that they are very happy and do not see the need to express extreme and humiliating behaviour inorder to fufill both the needs of the Dominant and the submissive.
#21 what you are describing is a healthy BDSM relationship. As a lifestyle Domina and having owned live in slaves. I can say that this is how it should be. A Dominant is respectful and cares deeply for the ones who are collared by them.
It is a very meanigful relationship and the saftey mentally and physically of the sumbissive or slave is very much key to the happiness of their owner. There are so many examples of abuse in supposed BDSM relationships that it is sickenenning.
It is clear that Lynn wanted to have these piercing and was rapt at the idea of the chastity her Master would be able to use with her from your work. It is very nice to see people in such an example of a BDSM lifestyle. I think if you ask them you will see it is not just fun and roleplay for them. It is simply that they are very happy and do not see the need to express extreme and humiliating behaviour inorder to fufill both the needs of the Dominant and the submissive.
#21 what you are describing is a healthy BDSM relationship. As a lifestyle Domina and having owned live in slaves. I can say that this is how it should be. A Dominant is respectful and cares deeply for the ones who are collared by them.
It is a very meanigful relationship and the saftey mentally and physically of the sumbissive or slave is very much key to the happiness of their owner. There are so many examples of abuse in supposed BDSM relationships that it is sickenenning.
It is clear that Lynn wanted to have these piercing and was rapt at the idea of the chastity her Master would be able to use with her from your work. It is very nice to see people in such an example of a BDSM lifestyle. I think if you ask them you will see it is not just fun and roleplay for them. It is simply that they are very happy and do not see the need to express extreme and humiliating behaviour inorder to fufill both the needs of the Dominant and the submissive.
#21 what you are describing is a healthy BDSM relationship. As a lifestyle Domina and having owned live in slaves. I can say that this is how it should be. A Dominant is respectful and cares deeply for the ones who are collared by them.
It is a very meanigful relationship and the saftey mentally and physically of the sumbissive or slave is very much key to the happiness of their owner. There are so many examples of abuse in supposed BDSM relationships that it is sickenenning.
It is clear that Lynn wanted to have these piercing and was rapt at the idea of the chastity her Master would be able to use with her from your work. It is very nice to see people in such an example of a BDSM lifestyle. I think if you ask them you will see it is not just fun and roleplay for them. It is simply that they are very happy and do not see the need to express extreme and humiliating behaviour inorder to fufill both the needs of the Dominant and the submissive.
#21 what you are describing is a healthy BDSM relationship. As a lifestyle Domina and having owned live in slaves. I can say that this is how it should be. A Dominant is respectful and cares deeply for the ones who are collared by them.
It is a very meanigful relationship and the saftey mentally and physically of the sumbissive or slave is very much key to the happiness of their owner. There are so many examples of abuse in supposed BDSM relationships that it is sickenenning.
It is clear that Lynn wanted to have these piercing and was rapt at the idea of the chastity her Master would be able to use with her from your work. It is very nice to see people in such an example of a BDSM lifestyle. I think if you ask them you will see it is not just fun and roleplay for them. It is simply that they are very happy and do not see the need to express extreme and humiliating behaviour inorder to fufill both the needs of the Dominant and the submissive.