A black-and-white photo of a person mid-air in a Superman-style body suspension pose, supported by multiple hooks in their back and legs, smiling joyfully toward the camera. They are suspended horizontally in a large indoor space with high ceilings and visible rigging. A group of onlookers—some seated, some standing—watch with expressions of admiration, amusement, and support. The atmosphere is lively and communal, capturing a moment of shared experience and transformation.

Now that’s some asymmetry!

Skip Flotten’s right ear is a massive three and a half inches in size in this photo (and it’s now at 3 7/8″), but his little left ear is only at about an inch!

Comments

104 responses to “Now that’s some asymmetry!”

  1. .caitlin. Avatar

    That looks amazing! I wonder if he’s going to stretch the little one up to the same size?

  2. .caitlin. Avatar

    That looks amazing! I wonder if he’s going to stretch the little one up to the same size?

  3. Jonathan Avatar

    Wow that would drive me crazy. I can’t stand assymetry in my piercings.

  4. Jonathan Avatar

    Wow that would drive me crazy. I can’t stand assymetry in my piercings.

  5. derkaiser Avatar

    he should get some assymetrical haircut. that would look great!

  6. derkaiser Avatar

    he should get some assymetrical haircut. that would look great!

  7. VeganZombie Avatar

    Wah, that would bug the crap out of me. I’d get so confused if i turned over in my sleep..

  8. VeganZombie Avatar

    Wah, that would bug the crap out of me. I’d get so confused if i turned over in my sleep..

  9. Liz Avatar
    Liz

    God that makes my brain itch

  10. Liz Avatar
    Liz

    God that makes my brain itch

  11. Rebecca Avatar

    Do I see painful looking ear collapse-age?
    :S

    This wouldn’t annoy me but it would annoy everyone I know!
    Haha.

  12. Rebecca Avatar

    Do I see painful looking ear collapse-age?
    :S

    This wouldn’t annoy me but it would annoy everyone I know!
    Haha.

  13. wlcm2t3hmachine Avatar

    Why does it look like one big flat blowout? I mean, I’ve seen 4in. holes that dont makes the skin that full of scar and rotation. You know what I mean? I dont really like his ears, although he does look proud of them.

  14. wlcm2t3hmachine Avatar

    Why does it look like one big flat blowout? I mean, I’ve seen 4in. holes that dont makes the skin that full of scar and rotation. You know what I mean? I dont really like his ears, although he does look proud of them.

  15. em Avatar

    haha i was walking around with my head tilted to the right side when my right ear was at 0g and the left one was still at 2g… no idea what i’d do if i was him. i would probably crawl on my right side or something.

  16. em Avatar

    haha i was walking around with my head tilted to the right side when my right ear was at 0g and the left one was still at 2g… no idea what i’d do if i was him. i would probably crawl on my right side or something.

  17. Amy Avatar
    Amy

    Hehe I couldn’t stand if my lobes weren’t the same size!

  18. Amy Avatar
    Amy

    Hehe I couldn’t stand if my lobes weren’t the same size!

  19. Jay.O Avatar
    Jay.O

    hm, I’m usually not a fan of any kind of facial tattoos, but this one looks pretty;)

  20. Jay.O Avatar
    Jay.O

    hm, I’m usually not a fan of any kind of facial tattoos, but this one looks pretty;)

  21. Sade Avatar
    Sade

    I’d be so damn frustrated if my holes weren’t the same size.I’m actually getting frustrated at the picture now but he looks adorable so I can’t get too irked:)

  22. Sade Avatar
    Sade

    I’d be so damn frustrated if my holes weren’t the same size.I’m actually getting frustrated at the picture now but he looks adorable so I can’t get too irked:)

  23. Giles Wallwork Avatar

    Asymmetry rules. Clean symmetry sucks. IMHO

  24. Giles Wallwork Avatar

    Asymmetry rules. Clean symmetry sucks. IMHO

  25. Shannon Larratt Avatar

    I had a 2″ lobe when the other ear was only about 1/2″…. I think there’s a picture or two on my IAM page and on BME — that was about 15 years ago!

  26. Shannon Larratt Avatar

    I had a 2″ lobe when the other ear was only about 1/2″…. I think there’s a picture or two on my IAM page and on BME — that was about 15 years ago!

  27. Em Avatar
    Em

    One of my lobes stretches easily (and I stretched too fast at first , as well) and the other is too scarred from a horrible piercing-gun experience to stretch at a normal speed. I’ve got used to the asymmetry and now like it.

  28. Em Avatar
    Em

    One of my lobes stretches easily (and I stretched too fast at first , as well) and the other is too scarred from a horrible piercing-gun experience to stretch at a normal speed. I’ve got used to the asymmetry and now like it.

  29. S Avatar
    S

    “no idea what i’d do if i was him. i would probably crawl on my right side or something.”

    Hahahahaha

  30. S Avatar
    S

    “no idea what i’d do if i was him. i would probably crawl on my right side or something.”

    Hahahahaha

  31. Giles Wallwork Avatar

    Shannon – I had a 2″ lobe when the other ear was only about 1/2″

    LOL That’s exactly the same as me now, give or take a milimetre.

  32. Giles Wallwork Avatar

    Shannon – I had a 2″ lobe when the other ear was only about 1/2″

    LOL That’s exactly the same as me now, give or take a milimetre.

  33. Kyl3K Avatar
    Kyl3K

    Lets see updated pics! Pauly’s at this size now! (3.5)

  34. Kyl3K Avatar
    Kyl3K

    Lets see updated pics! Pauly’s at this size now! (3.5)

  35. feathers Avatar
    feathers

    I have an 8g and a 6g.. guess that’s not as noticeable though eh?! I don’t mind asymmetry, as long as it’d balanced somehow.. that pic isn’t haha..

  36. feathers Avatar
    feathers

    I have an 8g and a 6g.. guess that’s not as noticeable though eh?! I don’t mind asymmetry, as long as it’d balanced somehow.. that pic isn’t haha..

  37. Joe Avatar
    Joe

    I kept covering up one ear with my hand and then switching to the other to see if he would look better with really large or just plain large lobes but I think the different sizes work on him, I wonder why he decided to only stretch his right lobe that big and leave the other one alone

  38. Joe Avatar
    Joe

    I kept covering up one ear with my hand and then switching to the other to see if he would look better with really large or just plain large lobes but I think the different sizes work on him, I wonder why he decided to only stretch his right lobe that big and leave the other one alone

  39. raj Avatar
    raj

    Damn! My jaw literally dropped open and stayed that way as I tried not to think of all the negatives. It reminds me of an incident from nearly 30 years ago, when my baby cousin yanked the 3″ diameter gold earing out of his mother’s (my aunt’s) ear. She was trying not to curse, but I could see she was in pain. While Skip’s asymmetry looks cool, doesn’t he worry about accidents? I guess if he’s stretched the lobe as far as he has, then probably not.

  40. raj Avatar
    raj

    Damn! My jaw literally dropped open and stayed that way as I tried not to think of all the negatives. It reminds me of an incident from nearly 30 years ago, when my baby cousin yanked the 3″ diameter gold earing out of his mother’s (my aunt’s) ear. She was trying not to curse, but I could see she was in pain. While Skip’s asymmetry looks cool, doesn’t he worry about accidents? I guess if he’s stretched the lobe as far as he has, then probably not.

  41. james Avatar
    james

    i seriously laughed out lout at the asymmetry of that.

    how awesome

  42. james Avatar
    james

    i seriously laughed out lout at the asymmetry of that.

    how awesome

  43. james Avatar
    james

    loud*

  44. james Avatar
    james

    loud*

  45. cameron Avatar

    when i saw his face the name Raynutz popped into my head. curious.

  46. cameron Avatar

    when i saw his face the name Raynutz popped into my head. curious.

  47. xchristinex Avatar

    gosh, the wearable area on those is huge.

    just looking at this picture irks me though. i’m very anal about symmetry.

  48. xchristinex Avatar

    gosh, the wearable area on those is huge.

    just looking at this picture irks me though. i’m very anal about symmetry.

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