A black-and-white photo of a person mid-air in a Superman-style body suspension pose, supported by multiple hooks in their back and legs, smiling joyfully toward the camera. They are suspended horizontally in a large indoor space with high ceilings and visible rigging. A group of onlookers—some seated, some standing—watch with expressions of admiration, amusement, and support. The atmosphere is lively and communal, capturing a moment of shared experience and transformation.

DIY Ear Explosion

As Morgan discovered, you can’t force your ears to stretch! That said, figuring out where your body’s limits are is part of the learning process if DIY is your thing. Still, there’s something to be said for taking it really slow — either way, her ear is just fine now, although she lost about a 1/16″ in size from this.

Comments

298 responses to “DIY Ear Explosion”

  1. TheWomanMonster Avatar
    TheWomanMonster

    awww baby come here I’ll clean it up with some witch hazel and tea tree oil until it’s all pretty again.

    Holy hell…
    mine never did that to be sure.

    Worst thing that happened to my poor ears was early on when I just about had the rings pulled out in a mosh pit. *shudder*

  2. TheWomanMonster Avatar
    TheWomanMonster

    awww baby come here I’ll clean it up with some witch hazel and tea tree oil until it’s all pretty again.

    Holy hell…
    mine never did that to be sure.

    Worst thing that happened to my poor ears was early on when I just about had the rings pulled out in a mosh pit. *shudder*

  3. IAM : BxtremeDmodSxM Avatar

    oh my fricking gerd
    …how?

    yeah picking that would be ridiculousssss.
    looks like it hurts

  4. IAM : BxtremeDmodSxM Avatar

    oh my fricking gerd
    …how?

    yeah picking that would be ridiculousssss.
    looks like it hurts

  5. Incisors-of-Doom Avatar

    A little explanation and back history would be educational, as in exactly what she did with what kind of material over what span of time. This this gets me almost as badly as https://www.bme.com/news/2006/10/31/the-grossest-picture-ill-ever-post/ did. Ick.

  6. Incisors-of-Doom Avatar

    A little explanation and back history would be educational, as in exactly what she did with what kind of material over what span of time. This this gets me almost as badly as https://www.bme.com/news/2006/10/31/the-grossest-picture-ill-ever-post/ did. Ick.

  7. Toser Avatar
    Toser

    is it gross that i want to pick that?

  8. Toser Avatar
    Toser

    is it gross that i want to pick that?

  9. xunseenx Avatar

    54. yes, it is gross. y’all scab pickers are grossing me out a ton more than this ear. i just want to cut off all of your fingers. esh. chill.

  10. xunseenx Avatar

    54. yes, it is gross. y’all scab pickers are grossing me out a ton more than this ear. i just want to cut off all of your fingers. esh. chill.

  11. vi Avatar

    how do you let it get to that point?

  12. vi Avatar

    how do you let it get to that point?

  13. Richie Avatar
    Richie

    Damn! Just how quick did you try and stretch it?

  14. Richie Avatar
    Richie

    Damn! Just how quick did you try and stretch it?

  15. when emptiness enshadows bliss Avatar

    the very same thing happened to my ears when i tried stretching with kaos.
    thankfully, they healed.

  16. when emptiness enshadows bliss Avatar

    the very same thing happened to my ears when i tried stretching with kaos.
    thankfully, they healed.

  17. meghan Avatar

    must pick scabs..
    and personally, i want to see what the back of her ear looked like.

  18. meghan Avatar

    must pick scabs..
    and personally, i want to see what the back of her ear looked like.

  19. Pirate Avatar
    Pirate

    The purple in her hair is mad, isn’t it a bad idea to let it close up with all that nasty stuff in it?

  20. Pirate Avatar
    Pirate

    The purple in her hair is mad, isn’t it a bad idea to let it close up with all that nasty stuff in it?

  21. Seb Avatar

    Yet another reason why people SHOULD NOT STRETCH WITH KAOS!

  22. Seb Avatar

    Yet another reason why people SHOULD NOT STRETCH WITH KAOS!

  23. infernalmachine Avatar
    infernalmachine

    yeah, i’m with Seb at #62, it looks like kaos to me and kaos + stretch = BAD.

    sure, some people can do it, but i’d wager those people are either lucky or their lobes have stretched naturally through heavy jewelry / tugging on it. i personally would NEVER EVER take that sort of risk.

  24. infernalmachine Avatar
    infernalmachine

    yeah, i’m with Seb at #62, it looks like kaos to me and kaos + stretch = BAD.

    sure, some people can do it, but i’d wager those people are either lucky or their lobes have stretched naturally through heavy jewelry / tugging on it. i personally would NEVER EVER take that sort of risk.

  25. crystallinectar Avatar

    i just spat poptart all over my keyboard.

  26. crystallinectar Avatar

    i just spat poptart all over my keyboard.

  27. instigator Avatar

    BTW, I’ve stretched several times successfully with Kaos jewelry, and I do not have stretchy skin by nature. They’re a great tool, but you can fuck yourself over really well with just about any good tool out there if you haven’t figured out how to use it. (And then there are some people who just shouldn’t be let loose on the world with a hammer, but I digress.)

    For those interested (and with IAM accounts!), I’ve written a brief entry on my IAM page discussing the nature of silicone jewelry, which is admittedly a bunch of half-educated guesses but it seems to work. Not trying to whore or anything, just thought it would help add to the discussion.

  28. instigator Avatar

    BTW, I’ve stretched several times successfully with Kaos jewelry, and I do not have stretchy skin by nature. They’re a great tool, but you can fuck yourself over really well with just about any good tool out there if you haven’t figured out how to use it. (And then there are some people who just shouldn’t be let loose on the world with a hammer, but I digress.)

    For those interested (and with IAM accounts!), I’ve written a brief entry on my IAM page discussing the nature of silicone jewelry, which is admittedly a bunch of half-educated guesses but it seems to work. Not trying to whore or anything, just thought it would help add to the discussion.

  29. Rob in Australia Avatar
    Rob in Australia

    – Stretching with Kaos plugs works great! – IF you follow the same rules as when stretching with solid pllugs – go slow – leave months to heal – just because there is no exposed flesh does NOT mean stretch more.

  30. Rob in Australia Avatar
    Rob in Australia

    – Stretching with Kaos plugs works great! – IF you follow the same rules as when stretching with solid pllugs – go slow – leave months to heal – just because there is no exposed flesh does NOT mean stretch more.

  31. picker here Avatar
    picker here

    I can just imagine gripping the dried blood in the middle with the tips of my nails and pulling back as it slowly releases itself from the flesh in one big lump…

    Ohhhhh

  32. picker here Avatar
    picker here

    I can just imagine gripping the dried blood in the middle with the tips of my nails and pulling back as it slowly releases itself from the flesh in one big lump…

    Ohhhhh

  33. SwEeTiE Avatar

    Oh my lordy …

    That made me want to almost throw up, and I have a pretty strong stomach.

    Ouch ouch ouch.

  34. SwEeTiE Avatar

    Oh my lordy …

    That made me want to almost throw up, and I have a pretty strong stomach.

    Ouch ouch ouch.

  35. HereKittyKitty Avatar
    HereKittyKitty

    OMG I want to soak it in saltwater for hours…just to get that ick down to a minimum.
    And it makes me want to pick my ears and there isn’t even anything wrong with mine!

  36. HereKittyKitty Avatar
    HereKittyKitty

    OMG I want to soak it in saltwater for hours…just to get that ick down to a minimum.
    And it makes me want to pick my ears and there isn’t even anything wrong with mine!

  37. Nic Avatar
    Nic

    It can happen overnight.

    I had a bad reaction to either the silicone eyelets or something that had attached itself to the eyelets. I wasn’t stretching, just using those eyelets for the first (and last) time. Over night they swelled and didn’t look a whole lot better than these ones when I finally got the eyelets out.

  38. Nic Avatar
    Nic

    It can happen overnight.

    I had a bad reaction to either the silicone eyelets or something that had attached itself to the eyelets. I wasn’t stretching, just using those eyelets for the first (and last) time. Over night they swelled and didn’t look a whole lot better than these ones when I finally got the eyelets out.

  39. Meiju Avatar
    Meiju

    Everytime I see pictures like this…I cringe. I never understand how a piercing can get THAT bad! Stretching is obviously a delicate matter for that tissue and if you care for your piercings properly, I don’t see any reason for something like this to happen. I feel really really really bad for her….I’m sure she’ll never do that again!

    I took my time during 2 years to stretch my lobes from 20 ga to 5/8 inch and I never had any problems. I enjoyed the experience tremendously….I think I would have missed out on that if I had scalpled or jumped a ridiculous amount of sizes. No offense to anyone who preferrs to do it those ways 🙂

  40. Meiju Avatar
    Meiju

    Everytime I see pictures like this…I cringe. I never understand how a piercing can get THAT bad! Stretching is obviously a delicate matter for that tissue and if you care for your piercings properly, I don’t see any reason for something like this to happen. I feel really really really bad for her….I’m sure she’ll never do that again!

    I took my time during 2 years to stretch my lobes from 20 ga to 5/8 inch and I never had any problems. I enjoyed the experience tremendously….I think I would have missed out on that if I had scalpled or jumped a ridiculous amount of sizes. No offense to anyone who preferrs to do it those ways 🙂

  41. Jordan Meeter Avatar

    I wanna pick it as well.

  42. Jordan Meeter Avatar

    I wanna pick it as well.

  43. reptilian Avatar

    Every stretch I have done since 00g has been with KAOS, and I’m at 7/8″ now. Now, I don’t advocate people use it to stretch, but if you know your body and how it responds to trauma/stretching, I think you CAN use it…

    that said, her ear is nasty as hell, and I wan to pick at it, then soak it, then pick off the soggy inside-scabs…

  44. reptilian Avatar

    Every stretch I have done since 00g has been with KAOS, and I’m at 7/8″ now. Now, I don’t advocate people use it to stretch, but if you know your body and how it responds to trauma/stretching, I think you CAN use it…

    that said, her ear is nasty as hell, and I wan to pick at it, then soak it, then pick off the soggy inside-scabs…

  45. jade_rose Avatar

    Oh God – I’m cringing and nauseated. I’ve had some nasty wound infections, and I know they can get fucked up really fast, so I’m not going to assume she just left it there to rot for a week or so before she decided it was worth a trip to have it looked at…but oh fuck that looks ghastly. That poor girl, that poor ear! Oh, my poor stomach!

  46. jade_rose Avatar

    Oh God – I’m cringing and nauseated. I’ve had some nasty wound infections, and I know they can get fucked up really fast, so I’m not going to assume she just left it there to rot for a week or so before she decided it was worth a trip to have it looked at…but oh fuck that looks ghastly. That poor girl, that poor ear! Oh, my poor stomach!

  47. Chaq Avatar
    Chaq

    Another scab-picker here!! (Waving hands frantically)

  48. Chaq Avatar
    Chaq

    Another scab-picker here!! (Waving hands frantically)

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