A black-and-white photo of a person mid-air in a Superman-style body suspension pose, supported by multiple hooks in their back and legs, smiling joyfully toward the camera. They are suspended horizontally in a large indoor space with high ceilings and visible rigging. A group of onlookers—some seated, some standing—watch with expressions of admiration, amusement, and support. The atmosphere is lively and communal, capturing a moment of shared experience and transformation.

Like mother, like daughter

A while back I posted a photo from Geshem of a cute little girl in Thailand with stretched ears (and her brother who’d drawn on his face) and there was some discussion about cultural context and so on. Anyway, I thought it might be nice to put the photo into a family context as well.

Comments

70 responses to “Like mother, like daughter”

  1. anthony Avatar

    are you crazyy :O the little gurlz who have no concience of the life ! its stupid .. im sorry !

  2. anthony Avatar

    are you crazyy :O the little gurlz who have no concience of the life ! its stupid .. im sorry !

  3. Katze Avatar
    Katze

    Amazing.gorgeous.cute

  4. Katze Avatar
    Katze

    Amazing.gorgeous.cute

  5. Sarah Avatar
    Sarah

    its really odd, i usually feel a bit iffy about seeing younger children with piercings but the little girls stretched lobes just compliment her so much and look so pretty

  6. Sarah Avatar
    Sarah

    its really odd, i usually feel a bit iffy about seeing younger children with piercings but the little girls stretched lobes just compliment her so much and look so pretty

  7. Joey Avatar
    Joey

    In America, that would be considered child abuse.

  8. Joey Avatar
    Joey

    In America, that would be considered child abuse.

  9. Devil's Advocate Avatar
    Devil’s Advocate

    I want to adopt that little girl. She’s so cute. ^__^

    To the people being culturally stupid: It’s like the tradition here of girls getting their ears pierced when they are little. So what, she has big lobes? They are considered beautiful there (and by me, so :p). Better than her being anorexic and wearing a thong (like kids here do…ew, I hate that *sooo* much).

  10. Devil's Advocate Avatar
    Devil’s Advocate

    I want to adopt that little girl. She’s so cute. ^__^

    To the people being culturally stupid: It’s like the tradition here of girls getting their ears pierced when they are little. So what, she has big lobes? They are considered beautiful there (and by me, so :p). Better than her being anorexic and wearing a thong (like kids here do…ew, I hate that *sooo* much).

  11. PrideWar Avatar

    The lobes on the girl look pretty big, nearly as big as mine!
    I recon they are about 30mm?

  12. PrideWar Avatar

    The lobes on the girl look pretty big, nearly as big as mine!
    I recon they are about 30mm?

  13. abigail Avatar
    abigail

    it looks to me that the girls lobes have been stretched to about 10 or a little bigger but no bigger than 14, you have to remember that she has a small head so they obviously look a lot biger in relation. of course it is all tradition, i recently did a trek in a similar hill tribe in thailand, i dont remember seeing any young girls with this but i know one woman LOVED the fact i had 14mm tunnels in, the same size as hers!

  14. abigail Avatar
    abigail

    it looks to me that the girls lobes have been stretched to about 10 or a little bigger but no bigger than 14, you have to remember that she has a small head so they obviously look a lot biger in relation. of course it is all tradition, i recently did a trek in a similar hill tribe in thailand, i dont remember seeing any young girls with this but i know one woman LOVED the fact i had 14mm tunnels in, the same size as hers!

  15. yeppers Avatar
    yeppers

    I think it’s pretty hilarious to see people freaking out about piercing kid’s ears when they don’t even question removing entire chunks of their son’s genitalia.

  16. yeppers Avatar
    yeppers

    I think it’s pretty hilarious to see people freaking out about piercing kid’s ears when they don’t even question removing entire chunks of their son’s genitalia.

  17. knee Avatar
    knee

    People have said they do not care if its tradition, it’s still wrong.

    SO what is worse a little girls stretched lobes, which many of us know, when done right with time and patience stretching is not painful or traumatic!

    Or

    Forcing (I see it as forcing because it’s not the childs decision. That is being made for them.) a infant to have his genital skin cut from him!

    Lets not forget Muay Thai that allows 4yr olds to beat the hell out of each other!

    I don’t know perhaps I’m weird.
    I think the “tradition” of skin being torn from your genitals is a million times worse than then “tradition” of stretching lobes!
    I think people are overreacting.

  18. knee Avatar
    knee

    People have said they do not care if its tradition, it’s still wrong.

    SO what is worse a little girls stretched lobes, which many of us know, when done right with time and patience stretching is not painful or traumatic!

    Or

    Forcing (I see it as forcing because it’s not the childs decision. That is being made for them.) a infant to have his genital skin cut from him!

    Lets not forget Muay Thai that allows 4yr olds to beat the hell out of each other!

    I don’t know perhaps I’m weird.
    I think the “tradition” of skin being torn from your genitals is a million times worse than then “tradition” of stretching lobes!
    I think people are overreacting.

  19. Awestruck Avatar
    Awestruck

    More beautiful people……what a site.

  20. Awestruck Avatar
    Awestruck

    More beautiful people……what a site.

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