From Geshem, a pair of young girls in northern Thailand with stretched lobes (and a kid in the background perhaps fantasizing about a facial tattoo!).
Northern Thailand
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63 responses to “Northern Thailand”
wow, the cultural differences are insane. i doubt any parent would get away with having a child that young with stretched ears.
That is really interesting. Funny how as #1 said people in westernized societies would think this is horrible but they are the same people taking there kids to get their ears pierced at the mall when they are younger than these girls. Oh and the little boy wih marker on his face just awsome!
I wonder what would happen in the states (or western world for that matter) if a parent decided to stretch their child’s ears.
that is awesome! she is fucking cute and looks stoked.
one of the most precious faces (and ears) that i have seen in so long! thanks shannon. shes so cute!
one of my favourites posts on modblog
I keep thinking about the QOD question from a vacation bible camp lady asking if a 14g hole would be permanent in some 8yr old camper’s lobe. She thought it was irresponsible for the parent to allow this boy to have his ear pierced this “large” and have this huge hole for life. Of course she is liberal and has no problem with gunned lobes. Then explained how she wasn’t being judgemental. I would love for her to see this picture.
What an awesome pic, her ears are larger then mine by a long way, props to her. I agree with everything said about different cultural contexts, in the west methinks a parent would be charged with child abuse, but in this pic perfectly acceptable, aint the world great.
thailand is amazing. rad food, chill people, great weather. i wish i had my lobes stretched at that age. my ears would be huge now.
makes you just want to walk away form the west don’t it………………….
**FROM** hiss @ me , hehe
That’s awesome.
Gorgeous eyes, too :]
looks like her lobes are in great shape too! absolutely beautiful and fleshy. i wonder at what size she will end up.
No, it doesn’t make me want to just walk away from the west. Cultural differences do not boil down to children with stretched lobes.
if she immigrated to the states and was plunked down in an average gradeschool, she would definitely be the coolest kid in class cause she could fit like 5 crayons in her ears during coloring time
Yes i like this, quite much so indeed.
Her eyes look like hematite! Her lobes are awesome… and it is very interesting to see this…
so cute. i love this picture! i agree, one of my favourites on modblog.
The aesthetics of the ears and the adorable little face are lovely, which worries me as I don’t think little kids should have mods on principle.
However, in Western society lobe piercings on girls are a gender/sexual issue (women will pierce their babies’ lobes to “show” that they’re girls) which is one reason that it makes me uncomfortable.
What are the connotations of the stretched lobes here?
that looks suuuuper cute *awww*
little boy is my hero!
beautiful!
is that like pen on that other kids face? lol
thats really awesome. I wis I’d statred that young 😛
wiwad – Yes, it’s marker, which is like pen.
PS. 😛
I don’t fucking get it. One day Shannon posts a picture of a cute little kid tattooing her daddy, and people go fucking ape shit and start shooting them down “Oh that’s so fucked up” “wah wah wah” etc… then he posts a picture of a cute little kid with stretched ears, and people say it’s so fucking cute. What’s the goddamn deal?!
Personally, I think both are great. I’d let my kid tattoo me, and I think the above picture is cute, but then again I wasn’t shooting my mouth off in the other posts and saying how fucked up it was.
How is a kid tattooing her dad SO bad, but a little girl with stretched lobes (just because she lives in Thailand) so fucking cute?
The hypocrisy is fucking stunning.
geez, yes, it is an adorable photo, and yes her lobes are looking good. but there’s just something about this that doesn’t sit right with me. maybe it’s a cultural barrier keeping me from loving this to bits, but there’s no way the kid could give informed consent for a mod with such long-lasting effects. i know many of us regret our guardians’ decisions to gun pierce our lobes or something similar… don’t see how it’s too much different in this case in terms of the child’s right to control his or her body.
loving the markered up little dude, though!
WhiteTrash, the reason is probably cultural norms. Granted it’s a very stupid reason, but that’s probably the reason.
They are so beautiful! The kids and the lobes. And they look so mature, too.
Hurrah for others cultures! If only the world at large could accept them all…
VERY cute kids.
Very spiffy. I wonder what kind of traditions lead to this. Is it a coming of age thing, a tride thing, spritual thing??
AAAW!
awwwww, what a cutesie x
haha, this makes me feel bad. her ears are a lot bigger than mine, and im wayyy older, lol.
shes cute, tho
the kid in the background is the best
Hahaha, this so made my day. :3
Total cuteness!
#26: I think the reason people aren’t attacking this pic is BECAUSE it’s so fucking cute. My opinion: As long as it was her choice/ decision, and not her parents, I fully support it. Youngsters are smarter than we give them credit for.
culture is such a beautiful thing. especially when it comes through in body mods.
What a beautiful, happy child! I have to agree with #38; we do tend to assume children can’t make any decisions for themselves, and if stretched lobes are commonplace enough in Thailand that she won’t be socially stigmatized, I see no problem with it.
I only wish mine were so big!
I understand the cultural difference, what I don’t understand is the little girl who was tattooing her father wasn’t even receiving a modification, she was giving one… as far as I know there is no social stigma associated with a kid tattooing their father, so what was all the goddamn fuss about?
Still boggles my mind.
yeah…i don’t get why people would have bitched about the girl tattooing her father, either.
i think i missed that bit.
Sorry, I didn’t clarify. What i meant to say is, she looks cute with her mods, while the father’s tattoo looked like the scribbling of a child and wasn’t what most people would want on their own body. I’m just playing the “Devils Advocat”(sic) here, because I liked them both.
I don’t think anyone is realizing that those are two different little girls…
I think it may be a case of a little girl seeing other people she admires and respects who may have lobes that are stretched this way, and she is merely following in their cultural footsteps in a country which embraces that as a tradition on some levels. We are only hung up on a little girl tattooing her father because we lack a context for that being symbolically meaningful, even though it obviously meant something for both people, whether your principals align with theirs or not. In the west, where we are generally taught to NOT mark ourselves permanently, its easy for adults to forget exactly how many cultures have childhood ritual and customs that leave long lasting and permanent markings, and that these children look forward to those events as powerful markings in their own lives.
People from the bodymod community scare the crap out of everybody else because we are busy creating our own rituals and we all speak in codes of our own. We defy their expectations. Now can we start by defying our own?
Awwwwwwwww this is so cute. I can’t imagine a kid that young having their ears stretched though.
Hmmm.
As a social scientist I believe there is a lot of information needed here before I can really make a decision as to whether I like this or not. Primarily the idea of consent pops up and has this child truly given their total consent to this being done to them or is this part of their local custom?
Western societies tend to let our youth grow to post puberty before we let them make decisions on this kind of alteration which means that they can make an informed choice.
I worry that despite my love of all things stretched this choice was not an option given to this child and that it was something imposed on them as tradition similar to female circumcision.
It may look cute but is it right? Am not pro or con at the moment until I read more.
Is there any other information on this Shannon?
While I understand that this is a cultural issue I personally feel that it is unfair to inflict any modification upon a child, it is something she may well resent as she ages.
I doubt that even if she was asked whether this was something she wanted or not, she has the understanding to answer honestly.
For example, I know for a fact that if I were ask my seven year old son if he wanted a tattoo he would without a doubt say yes. Why? Because his father is tattooed and young children inevitably have the desire to imitate their parents. Does that mean that it would be informed and fair decision, no it wouldn’t.
Very beautiful to see traditional culture still keeping tradition.
Honestly, i dont think its anyone’s place to judge what is right and what is wrong if the other person looks so happy about it.
Obviously there is no one getting hurt, so there is no reason for you to call it wrong. why is it wrong? because its no how YOU were raised?
alot of people dont understand that every individual on the planet is raised in different circumstances, with different experiences and that results in different cultures, and all the diversity we see in the world today. You have no right to judge a human being’s choices as “right” or “wrong” because those choices are a direct result of their experiences, which have very little or nothing to do with yours.
To call someone’s choices “wrong” because they are different is just ignorant. I mean literally ignoing the obvious, these people are different than you. so what? they’re happy. and not hurting anyone.