Well, those are some explicit tattoos! Although I suppose it’s nothing you couldn’t find written on a t-shirt at Target.
UPDATE: For more information, here’s an interview with Michelle.
“Michelle, the pass around girl”
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430 responses to ““Michelle, the pass around girl””
I can’t help noticing the word ‘slutt’. It usually has only one ‘t’.
slut – t
sound it out
If she is really serious about getting help. I think she needs to think about inpatient treatment and possible medication.
My prayer are for her.
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Slut is spelled that way for a reason, it is not a mis type. It is an inside joke between Britni and I. S l u doubte t spells slut.
Michelle
Please.
Google “Tummy Tuck Scars” & click on images. The scar you have is exactly that, a tummy tuck scar. I’m not exactly sure why you are so hesitant to admit to a tummy tuck.
Exploratory surgery does NOT leave a scar that big. It’s called a laparoscope. That is what is *always* used during exploratory surgery.
The only way you would have had a Laparotomy is if you presented to the ER with Abdominal bleeding that needed to be stopped immediately. You would not have had a Laparotomy to look for cancer.
Sweetie, take some advice from me, If you’re going to lie. at least know what the hell you’re talking about. You’re just making yourself look more & more stupid.
Signed, a Scottsdale, AZ Plastic Surgeon
“I assure you, a tummy tuck does not end with a scar from hip bone to hip bone.”
& I assure you that a tummy tuck DOES leave a scar from hip to hip. I’ve had one & I’ve got the scar to prove it.
Why are you denying it??
& before you use the exploratory surgery line again, I’ve also had that & they use a laprascope. They never slice you from side to side for “exploratory surgery”
I’m a plastic surgeon & I can assure you & everybody else reading this that the scar you have is from a tummy tuck.
Want proof? Google “Tummy Tuck Scar” images.
Also, exploratory surgery is done with a laprascope. The only other way you would have ended up with a scar like you have would be from a Laparotomy & you would have only had that if you had presented to the ER with Abdominal bleeding that needed to be stopped asap.
If you’re going to lie, get your facts straight or you just look really dumb.
yay
Mark and Jane by the way are posting from the same IP address. Not sure why they changed names in the middle.
I will be interested in seeing the Dr.Phil show and seeing if he asks about any of these plastic surgeries.He won’t take a lie for an answer.I am sure the majority of questions will be about her addiction, but I am interested to see if the tattoos are addressed.
I have read about Michelle at several websites, not just her myspace. (by the way, doesn’t everyone lie a little on most profiles?)
From my understanding Michelle has twin boys with Britni and (man?name).
Or maybe Britni lied on her page about that.
These things I read may not be true but who knows who lies?It is just plain rude to call someone a liar.You should have said you didn’t believe her and let her state her side instead of attacking her because you think you know something about her life.All from a short interview or an out of date myspace page.
Michelle,I understand about your tattoos.I hope it works for you.I wasn’t curing an addiction, rather, treating a manic episode or two. I just decided on flowers because they were beautiful and I didn’t think I was.
I feel much better,and I hope you will conquer every problem you ever have.
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Thats funny. They are calling me a liar while playing games with posting names. LOLOLOLOLOLOL
Michelle
I don’t understand why it really matters if you had a tuck or not… that’s not really the point of all of this is it? I guess people might not be sure whether to believe your story or not or which parts to take serious… so catching you in a “lie” would help the case.
In any event… I’m interested in the truth, but I don’t think this is worthy of digging for dirt. I think seeing your Dr. Phil interview will be interesting… he’s usually pretty closed minded about body mod type stuff, so coupled with your back story, it couldn’t have been comfortable.
Actually, I am Mark’s wife. He was the one who performed my tummy tuck. I was posting to back up the claims that the scar would be from a tummy tuck, not exploratory surgery.
The only one playing games is you my dear.
Still lol’ing?
Wow this thread is long and bitter. The tummy tuck scar is irrelevant, unless you count it as a mod. I like the tats, a great, bold statement, kudos to you michelle All you wankers bagging her out and/or questioning her lifestyle should shut up and focus on the mods in front of you.
this is trash, period. I don’t know how I stumbled into this trash. that’s why men disrespect females because of some trash like this.
Wow. Drama much, Jane and Mark? You sound perfect for one another.
First, let me assume that Michelle acts out sexually in a compulsive manner, in a way that would commonly be classified as ‘sexual addiction’. (Note that this is not something that is currently recognized by the DSM-IV as esisting.) If I postulate that sexual addiction truly exists, and further the secondary characteristics are similar to those of other addictions, then it would be reasonable to assume that Michelle might exhibit deceptive behaviors, as these would be a typical seondary characteristic. However, this is circular logic. “If someone is an addict, then they will lie about their problems. So if someone lies about their problems, they must be an addict.” It doesn’t really prove anything.
However, saying (or even proving) that she has lied about other things also doesn’t prove that she is lying about something else. If I lie about how much I smoke, that doesn’t prove that I lie about stealing office supplies.
Unless you have some sort of proof that she doesn’t act out sexually in a compulsive, obsessive manner, please shut your fucking pie hole. Thank you.
.:.
Jesus, I’m starting to feel like I should confess to raping dead kittens or something. This hostility needs to be diffused and redristributed…
When I cut, and was trying not to, I would keep a razor blade near me at all times so A) I had something I could look at and say no to, and B) If I succumed I had something clean and safe. So after reading her interview and seeing that she got these in a time where she was trying to stay away from sex, I completely understood. It was a safe alternative and something tangible that showed what she was fighting. I say congrats for fighting. And any sadness I feel is that she’s stuck in the situation not because of any of her choices.
For the tattoos themselves, I think they’re really well done– not my choice of words and phrases per say, but I can respect Michelle for her own personal choices– as I’m sure she would for mine or anyone elses for that matter.
As for any and all tattoos as a whole– we ALL have our regrets, but that’s part of the human experience. We can cover it up in a few years or we can let it ride and hope others can see that we’re more dynamic than our tattoos ever could be.
Attention Whore over here entire body 🙂
ill be amazed if im the first to say this.
didn’t feel like reading every comment..
i’d expect better spelling from someone with a masters in english. i also can’t help but look at the “i fuck” tattoo and wonder if it was drawn on by a six year old.
I’m impressed, well placed, and the ink definitely says it all. I’m not a fan of lettering or triabl pieces on myself.
I prefer artwork, it’s definitely an acquired taste for lettering, or tribal. The over all presentation does make her body an artistic work and a very powerful statement.
I doubt that many people see themselves as clearly as this lady sees herself. After reading the interview, polyamourous isn’t even a word close enough to associate with how her world functions. I’m sure not a lot of traditional relationship individuals can wrap their head around this. I’ve every confidence she will go where and how she wants in life, and know herself better than most ever will.
I wonder if she has ever considered having Britni’s signature tattooed somewhere?
Actually, I thought the “I Fuck” tattoo, was just marker.
i think it is a shame that judging from her internview, a few interviews on polyamoury by britni, and michelle’s myspace page that she comes across pretty much as a pathological liar…her age, where the lives, the gravity of her illness…everything seems like total bs.
not that it matters since this isn’t a psych evaluation blog, though i guess i’m bummed that a woman with such direct and interesting tattoos seems like such an attention whoring tool
I think what bothers me is not the tats, but more that she is an admitted sufferer of an addiction and she has chosen to mark herself with that addiction. What happens when she finally learns to overcome?
Objectification is a form of self-abuse. I wish her all the luck in overcoming her issues.
Reading the article, I’m surprised she’s still married. She must have her wif wrapped round her little finger to be having four affairs a week.
Actually, I’m confused… I’ve seen Michelle mention she’s married but calls Britini her ex in another place, yet above in the comments she says they are still together.
The lack of consistent honesty is alarming – though, it’s not really my place to care. However, I was caring about the situation and any lieing about it only make the whole story more… “story”.
Hm.
#280
If you are going to pick at me make sure you get your facts straight. As others have already noted, I have both a husband and a wife. Britni and Dennis. This 3 way is 8 years old. I am still married and Britni is my X. Even as my X, her and I are still working things out. So, at times we are together and at times we are not. Anything else you want to call me a liar about though you, yourself, have simply failed to read ALL the postings.
As far as threads like this one go? I would ink my entire body with nasty comments before I would log on to a forum and call a person I dont even know, a whore, a bitch, a loser and say she should get AIDS and die. Your so busy judging me you can’t see what your doing is the true evil. My ink does not hurt anyone but your comments, aimed at the wrong person, could really hurt someone. yet, I am the unstable one? I sign my real name and leave my real email address. I post my real pics while my antogonists post from anonymous email addresses and use fake names. Ink or being a coward? I choose, ink.
Michelle
Michelle
apart from the underlying psychological issues – i guess if a guy would have similar tattos: suck my cock, fuck me, hot stud who fucks anything, most of this discussion wouldn´t be happening.
either people would say “what an idiot” or they would see the funny side of it, but since she´s a woman who labels herself as a slut suddenly it´s a big problem. still a woman´s sexuality is perceived entirely different from that of a man.
don´t think these tattos were a great idea, but they spawned an interesting discussion for sure.
Michelle–you are gorgeous! Awesome.
wow
the girl of my dreams! i have spent half a lifetime looking for a girl like like michelle. i would marry her tomorrowwe would truely be a boy gfrl nightmare! the couple that fuck & swing together stay together
i love you girl
iwant you…love the ink by the way
All this talk about judgement.
Of course she should be judged on her tattoos, as should everyone here. By them existing they are a characterstic for a person to be judged on.
Whether you judge someone negatively or positively on anything, you are judging them. ALL qualities of a person are weighed and judged by other people. If someone has a tattoo that I think is cool/interesting/whatever, and people usually get things tattooed on them that are important to them, why should I not form opinions of them based on that?
Do I judge someone just for having tattoos? Yes. Is it a negative judgement? No.
If someone has a swastika tattooed across their forearm, is lily white and has a shaved head, should I not judge them? Are you retarded? Maybe there is a reason, and I’d even give the person the benefit of the doubt if there was a good reason, and they weren’t actually a neo-nazi. If you dress a certain way, put symbols on yourself that mean certain things, don’t get offended when someone gets the impression that you live up to your appearance. People should be able to get beyond their initial impressions, but that is another matter altogether.
I don’t claim my judgements extend anywhere beyond my own opinion, but that’s how it works. I judge everybody and form opinions on them as does everybody else.
Judging people on their appearance is not wrong. Why? We all do it. If you think you don’t, you’re a liar, blind, or not human. You can’t help doing it. The problem doesn’t come in judging someone by their appearance. The problem arises when you judge solely on ONE (to the exclusion of all others) thing about their appearance and are, or unable to modify your judgement of them when their character turns out to be different from what their apperance suggested to you.
For example, I meet someone. I see them first, so my brain automatically forms opinions about what I can infer from their appearance. This necessarily have to do with race or tattoos. It could be that I infer that they like the band they have plastered across their shirt. Not absolutes, but inferences. Secondly, they speak, and initial perceptions are modified as you get to know the person more, or they reveal more about themselves.
In the case of this woman, on seeing the tattoo, my first inference would be that she is a slut. If I was proven wrong, I wouldn’t stubbornly stick to my first impression. But can you really fault someone for inferring that this woman is a slut when she willingly had it written on her body multiple times?
Since I tend to like tattoos with powerfull placement I like her work. In my opinion it would be hard to top Michelle’s locations for her ink other than a forehead tattoo.
In a way she’s kind of her own warning label as you can’t say you didn’t know what you were getting into.
I vote for a necklace design next.
Michelle,
No matter what anyone on here says, you seem to be a very beautiful and strong person. Don’t ever let any of this criticism hit home, because it’s based on mere prejudice and hatred. We are all free to do to ourselves as we wish, and I will never consider any of my modifications ugly or degrading. With that said, I hope you will agree with me on that, and feel the same about yours. Please continue to be proud of yourself, and to always remember that for everyone who thinks lowly of you, myself and numerous others think of you as a beautiful and incredible individual.-Patrick Tobin
Read this article about her to get an understanding of why the tattoos are there and what they represent
https://www.bmezine.com/news/pubring/20061028.html
Where is her myspace?
hahaha, whatever makes you happy. i, myself, want to get a huge nipple on the top of my head. so who am i to judge “fuck my whore ass”, “fuck my whore pussy” and “for deposit only?” i have no room to talk.
also, i love how “god” herself left a comment and persecuted this woman. it is her body, she can put whatever the fuck she wants on it. don’t come at her with that quasi-feminist shit, women can do whatever they want with their own bodies.
also, whether or not those scars are from plastic surgery doesn’t matter. again, she can do whatever she wants with her body, she owns it, not you.
Loser
Even if a woman is a sex addict, whatever that is, men have no right to disrespect her. If she is good enough to fuck then they should show her some respect. How is it they are better than her by fucking her? This is an indication of how twisted our society still is. A sexual guy is a stud and a sexual woman is a slut. The double standard still exists. Her co-workers would probably been home beating off if she had not made herself available to them and they have the balls to label her a whore?
Perhaps people are really upset because she proudly displays the labels that they have given her rather than shunning them. If your labels do not make her go away you are powerless to do anything to her.
Women are perhaps jealous because she is openly sexual, something they are afraid to be.
If her sex drive is out of control then perhaps she should visit the Eunuch Archive and learn about Depo Provera. Of course that would not address the emotional issues.
Michelle,
i have no problems with your tattoos, but honestly, the person you portray here vs. your myspace page is so different that it’s confusing…i mean, you say you have been married to britni & dennis for 8 years, meaning you were 19 when y ou got married. then in an article on polyamoury which can be found online she says that you had dennis had previously dated another woman for 5 years, meaning you were at most 14 when you got married dennis. this is in addition to your comments that you had a first husband, who was driven to suicide over your infidelities.
you then state you have had extensive breast reconstructive surgery following metasticized ovarian cancer that spread to your breasts, even though in your myspace you say you had a tummy tuck and an breast job.
i think what is difficult for people is that while your tattoos are very direct and potentially brutally honest, the person you are portraying yourself as is fairly dubious.
Ofcourse I won’t be judging you since I don’t know you at all, but what pops up in my head when I see these tattoos is: Damn, don’t you have any selfrespect?
I donât like the tattoos (with the exception of the âCum Slutâ? one which looks like it may be nicely but you really canât tell with this photo). Itâs not that I find them demeaning or that I donât and Itâs not because I have passed any judgment on her as a person. I just donât like the actual tattoos/work, much like I sure that there are people out there that donât like mine simply because they donât. Art is art. Some of us get and love it, some of us get and donât, and some of us just donât get it period. Why resort to name calling?
I saw this posting when it originally went up a couple days and I have to admit I had no idea it would turn out like this. I am amazed by many of the comments in here and in fact, at times I yelled at my computer screen for the stupidity contained in many of the âopinionsâ? given. Yes, I am aware that you canât hear me when I yell. Iâm sorry but people need to learn that an opinion is no longer just that when someone is desperate enough to present it as a fact. I hope that makes sense, I havenât put in the multiple years that it takes to get a Masters in English. However, I would just like to ask a favour of everyone: please stick to things that you actually know about. Law, Mental Health, Substance Abuse, Psychopharmacology and Surgery are all complicated matters with actual rules, regulations and/or best practices taking years to understand to any intelligent degree. None of the above fall into the âWHAT I THINK ACTUALLY MATTERSâ? category unless you are a somehow part of that system (and by the way reading a Wikipedia entry or doing a Google search for something does NOT make you an expert voice). People know when you are bullshitting.
**Can we stick to what we know and give actual OPINIONS on modifications and stop this juvenile witch hunt for any and all demeaning angles?**
i have so much respect for her.
that’s the most sarcastic i’ve ever been in my life by the way.
A girl after our hearts..lol. As we read Michelle’s interview peaches commented “Finally, another girl like me”. You see? peaches is also a sex-addict….. and yes she is currently tattoo’d with the words “slut/wench/and whore” under the rainbow on her right breast. and “cum slut/fuck toy” around her belly button….. you see? my peaches is also a sex-addict…. and her mind(world) revolves around her next cock/pussy………(and yes there are some images on here of her tat’s and piercings…….
Michael
Michelle,
I did like your ink, it reqires a person to think about their own life. confronting one’s demands is not always easy
and may require meassures that most people would not do. If this helps you over come another challange, then
more power to you.
Michelle… ok, fair enough. I guess the fact is that there is so much about this that it is un-ordinary and hard to compile. I saw you had a husband, but thought I saw something about you being married to Britini (you’re in Cali, iirc it was “legal” at least for a while) so it seemed like you must have gotten divorced/separated. My bad and all apologies for the guffaw.
You too would do well to read all the comments (mine above for example) in which I never called you a liar. I said “any lieing about it”… but I did NOT say you WERE lieing.
I’ve been trying to figure this out. I even sent the link to a friend who’s a sex educator/counselor to get his thoughts. It’s not my profession, I’m an outsider trying to make sense.
And if people would rather focus on the tattoos themselves – it was something I was trying to avoid commenting on. Now I find myself thinking “if you can’t say anything nice, then don’t say anything at all”…so I suppose that should be good enough to express my opinion on the actual tattoos, their placement and what I think of how they look.
I didn’t know this was a forum for character judgment. Whether her stories match up or not- does it ultimately matter? If you think it’s attention-grabbing, ignore it. (It’s ashame people have nothing better to do with their time than try and discredit someone they don’t even know.) I think her chest piece is awesome. Everyone should have the basic right to be respected, regardless of age, sex, race, color, piercings, tattoos, what your mods say or where they are. People with tattoos and piercings are discriminated against enough in certain facets of culture/society, why perpetuate the cycle? The point has been made before but it seems worth repeating- since when are certain mods acceptable and others not? Appropriateness/acceptable-ness and personal taste/preference are two very different issues that I think a lot of people are getting confused.
Any addiction can be devastating, I hope Michelle can get the help she wants/needs.
~ What did she ever do to get some of you so inflamed?
The perfect safe-sex-billboard if you ask me… 😀