"I have come too far, and I cannot return..."


Last updated on March 14, 2011 February 5, 2016 March 1, 2019



I am:

  • 32 years old 37 years old 40 years old
  • Looking at BME pages since the BME/WORLD started.
  • Member of IAM since August, 2002
  • Former maker of body jewelery.
  • I have lived in the Wizard's Tower... (In fact, it's "mine") A funky apartment in Kensington Market, in a building covered in psychedelic paintings, I've been there for 5 years as of April 1st. 2011 Now live in my dead grandparent's derelict and disintegrating house since end of May, 2011
  • I live with a girl named Gilly-Bean, a busker named Jamie who is about to move out, my long term girlfriend/fiancée (see below) and my two four kitties Aurynn Pants Magnificence (a magnificent tabby) and the Golden-eyed Commander of Wishes ("Goldie") (a gold, white and black calico) AND NOW Rudy (a grey tortie) and Norman (a beautiful sealpoint himalayan)
  • After about a decade of polyamory and womanizing I am in a single recent (1.5 months) long term (5 years as of tomorrow) (8+ years) awesome(sauce) relationship, with DJ Perple Doorknob Broomstick AKA City Center. 
  • Now recovering from a major depressive episode that lasted since late 2009/early 2010. still struggle with depression and anxiety sometimes but doing pretty ok in the grand scheme of things as of 2016. rarely suffer from serious depression or anxiety anymore.
  • I make art-objects, art installations, sacred spaces, and sometimes paint or draw (badly). Sometimes I make electronic music or mixes. I throw raves and volunteer at parties and festivals. Frankly these days I mostly work, drink beer, embroider, paint, play video games, do gardening and the occasional nature walks and sometimes cook a fancy meal for the ol' lady. I am a member of the local NDP so actually have to volunteer to do political crap. This is a lot more occupying during campaign season.
  • I have a propensity for breaking into impromptu dances and/or improvised song (this has still not changed as of 2016 2019)
  •  Can't wait for 2020 so I can compare the state of the world to the old RPG Cyberpunk 2020



    100 percent all-canadian beefcake! Who do you think of when you mastrubate? K-HOLE


New Accounts
6/8/2019 | 0 comments

One of them is even real and not spam.


We both feel sick and tired today. Our big list of major action items appears to be a bit too daunting and many items will be ignored in favour of quiet and easy hobbies

I have been neglectful, my pretties.
6/6/2019 | 0 comments

Between working 6 days a week and all the pet care and housework, and taking reading time or other kinds of cool-down before bed I simply haven't been getting much screen time. I keep telling myself that I'll do a big diary entry here and big post on the secret reddit community on such-and-such day but then it doesn't happen. I also am supposed to be filling in for my NDP RA communications officer but I've been highly neglectful of the RA social media.


I will be in the Rose Festival Parade again this year.

No Title
5/18/2019 | 0 comments

My parents bought us fitbits.


We are going to go on a shopping expedition to get plastic bins and a new scale.

Happy night
5/12/2019 | 0 comments

Uh so another date night last night gf got me booze and took me out to a free punk and metal show I got real drunk and then I stumbled home and ate spicey pizza.

Happy night
4/27/2019 | 0 comments

It's Friday, work wasn't too hard, lover made a delicious and large supper, I have ample cannabis, I came home to find out I just got my first ever reddit gold, last night my riding (electoral district) association nominated the candidate I was hoping for and I saw some nice people at the nomination meeting which also had a good start to fundraising pledges, and my ball python had her first shed in months and it was the most complete seen since getting her.


Happy Weekend

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