A black-and-white photo of a person mid-air in a Superman-style body suspension pose, supported by multiple hooks in their back and legs, smiling joyfully toward the camera. They are suspended horizontally in a large indoor space with high ceilings and visible rigging. A group of onlookers—some seated, some standing—watch with expressions of admiration, amusement, and support. The atmosphere is lively and communal, capturing a moment of shared experience and transformation.

This Can’t Be Taken Away

When Michael joined the Navy about a year ago he had to make some serious sacrifices, including not only removing all of his piercings, but even had his nearly 2″ lobe surgically reconstructed.

I hid a lot of what I felt was me to attempt a new path in life. It was a difficult thing to do, but I knew in the end it was what I wanted. I always knew that I could come back to who I was after a few years, and pick up right where I left off. Nothing would be permanently lost, but a part of me would definitely have to be hidden from plain sight for the time being.

With the sacrifice of my piercings and lifestyle, I decided I wanted to get something to remind myself that no matter what, I’m still the same person I always was, and nothing can change that. Nothing seemed to fit more than the BME Calm logo I’d grown to love for quite a while now. It will be a constant reminder of who I am, was, and will become in the future.

BME is definitely much more than a website… It’s a way of being, and to report the all-too-obvious cliché, a family.

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Comments

14 responses to “This Can’t Be Taken Away”

  1. Brett Avatar
    Brett

    Can’t go wrong with that logo. I absolutely love both versions of Calm.

  2. Brett Avatar
    Brett

    Can’t go wrong with that logo. I absolutely love both versions of Calm.

  3. original_sly Avatar
    original_sly

    Thats a clean tatt yo, very nice 🙂

  4. original_sly Avatar
    original_sly

    Thats a clean tatt yo, very nice 🙂

  5. Burgh Avatar
    Burgh

    shit is dope…
    by the way, it was done by Drewski, an apprentice at Fuzion Ink in Norfolk, VA

  6. Burgh Avatar
    Burgh

    shit is dope…
    by the way, it was done by Drewski, an apprentice at Fuzion Ink in Norfolk, VA

  7. Dylan Avatar

    its perfect.

    BME is definitely much more than a website… It’s a way of being, and to report the all-too-obvious cliché, a family.
    Best was to say it Shannon!

  8. Dylan Avatar

    its perfect.

    BME is definitely much more than a website… It’s a way of being, and to report the all-too-obvious cliché, a family.
    Best was to say it Shannon!

  9. ookah Avatar

    new account, first comment ever. just had to sign up to comment on this one :]. the story behind it almost made me cry :’(. very beatiful, hope you enjoy your “new” life :).

  10. ookah Avatar

    new account, first comment ever. just had to sign up to comment on this one :]. the story behind it almost made me cry :’(. very beatiful, hope you enjoy your “new” life :).

  11. Scrappies Avatar
    Scrappies

    I could never imagine having to have my lobes reversed. Mine are only 5/8 but they are a huge part of who i am. That takes tons of courage.

  12. Scrappies Avatar
    Scrappies

    I could never imagine having to have my lobes reversed. Mine are only 5/8 but they are a huge part of who i am. That takes tons of courage.

  13. vini Avatar

    wise talk man wise talk

  14. vini Avatar

    wise talk man wise talk

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