I am a mother of 3 and have a wonderful husband of 15 years. He is away a lot of time with his job and I wanted something "special" for him to come home to this go around. So I decided that a VCH was the way to give him that surprise.
At A Glance Author anonymous When N/A I went to several shops in town and found a few of them not to my standards for anything like this ie they were rude, the shop was dirty feeling, or the piercer just didn't seem to be comfortable doing this particular piercing. And having someone pierce my body was not something I take lightly.
So after finding "the shop" to have it done in I made the appointment. I looked around the net to see how this would go and how painful it would be. From the things that I gathered it would be a quick pinch and all done. So ok I can do this I tell myself.
The day of the piercing I was nervous but not too badly because what fun this would bring into mine and my husbands life right? I made sure to eat a little something before I went and off I go. When I got there the piercer talked a bit about what he would do and how it would go. He was totally professional and answered ALL of my questions no matter how insignificant or crazy they may have seemed to him. And I did ask quite a few questions that day.
Then on to the room. It was a private place in the shop which was nice since I was going to be dropping my pants. He washed his hands and set up the tools for me to see. They were all individually wrapped. And he changed gloves washed his hands like 2 times before he even touched me which was a total plus since some strange man was going to be handling me in my intimate parts.
Gloved hands and marker in tow he tells me to drop my pants and he even turned around while I was doing this which REALLY surprised me why I don't know but it did. But this did give him brownie points in my book. We talked while he was marking me. Then he told me to check to make sure it was ok and it was.
So on to the piercing. I felt the tube which was cold but not too bad. Then he stands up. Ok I am thinking something is wrong at this point. I asked "Are you done?" he said yep. OH my gosh I fretted all evening over this thing and that was ALL there was to it?
Putting in the jewelry wasn't too bad but I think for me that was the worse part and only because I felt him slide it through. By then I was realizing that I really had done this and actually noticed him messing down south where as before we had talked and when the actual piercing was over I just got quiet.
After it was all done he let me look and my new piercing and get dressed. And again turned around so that I could do all of this. Then he gave me the aftercare and we were all done.
My piercer told me that I could expect a little bit of bleeding but for no more than the evening. When I went to the restroom the first time there was a tiny bit. But that was washed away and I just used a panty liner for anything else that my occur. After that there was no bleeding at all though.
To the man that did my piercing it was his job. Not in a bad way necessarily but in that he didn't want to grope me or look at my tender bits and for that I was grateful. He made me fully at ease with what we were doing to me and I didn't feel uncomfortable with him or what we were doing AT ALL.
My new piercing was tender for a few days but not overly much. I did the soaks a few times and all was good.
My husband got home 6 weeks later not knowing what I had done and he was very pleased with it.The husband was just very surprised that I had let a stranger see me there let alone touch and pierce me there. Something I will never regret doing and neither will he. Now he is trying to get me to have my nipples done........ maybe soon maybe soon.
And from the professional way the piercer was we have started a large tattoo. I felt then and still do now comfortable with my tattoo artist/piercer. He is GREAT!
So all in all this is a great experience for us/me and I would highly recommend going for it if you have the urge. :)