What did I just do!?
At A Glance
Author Xipe Totec
When It just happened
About two and a half months ago I turned the good ol age of 18. To be honest I hated it. What point was there in being 18? I struggled for some time debating the pro's and con's of "being an adult". Other than the ability to purchase adult material, I couldn't find many positive things about it.

I went to my close friend and explained how I was feeling about everything. She suggested I either get a tattoo or a piercing. I immediately thought of the numerous experiences and pictures I've read and seen here on BME. After thinking a bit about what I wanted to get done, the PA came into mind. I recalled a time in my life when I couldn't understand why a person would want to stick a shaft of metal through their pride and joy. Now I was the one who was thinking about getting it done, I started to wonder what my friends and family would think about me if I got it done. I then asked her what she thought about me getting a PA, she seemed to almost immediately support this idea and took the time to add that she found PA's quite attractive. She also mentioned some of the sexual possibilities with such a piercing. I've found that in my life, if you get a girl talking about "sexual possibilities" you are doing something right. At this point I was almost completely convinced this was the piercing I was going to get.

That night I went home and did some more research to make sure this is what I wanted to do. I read about all the possible problems that could occur when getting a PA. At one point I began to second guess myself, however, that didn't last long once I began to think of the conversation between me and my friend earlier. That was all I needed as far as convincing went, I was going to get a PA.

It just so happens the friend I mentioned above has numerous piercings and is close friends with a local piercer. I didn't know him very well but she swore he would do a good job. I took her advise and the next day we took about a thirty minute drive until we reached our destination. We went inside and were met by my, soon to be, piercer. He already knew what I wanted done because my friend had set up the appointment.

This was it, I had to make my final decision, no turning back now. I took the time to question his knowledge of a PA. I wanted to know that he was right for the job. This isn't my ear, this is my manhood. I asked if he had a PA. He told me he had his done about a year and a half ago and was extremely happy with the results. He said that stretching it will result in "increased" sexual pleasure. He also talked to me about several other piercings that he had done. I asked if he had many people come back with any major problems. He told me the only real problems he's seen are a result of poor care and neglect.

I would have asked more questions but I had a feeling he thought I was paranoid about the whole thing. In all honesty I was, but I had already made up my mind and the anxiety was starting to mess with my stomach. I just wanted to get it done.

He then took me back to a private room We decided on a 5/8ths inch 10 gauge ring. I then dropped my pants and laid back on the table. This had to be one of the strangest feelings I've ever had. Not many people have seen my "junk", and never a fellow man. He then measured and marked where the piercing was to be. I can't say that I have ever drawn on my penis, so this was definitely an odd feeling. This feeling passed the second he lubed up the receiving tube and inserted it into my urethra. My feeling of discomfort left the moment I felt a sharp pain, much like a really hard pinch. Though relatively painful, it wasn't nearly as bad as I thought it would be. He quickly put the ring through, bandaged me up, and I was done.

It's been about a day since I got my piercing. So far I've had to learn how not pee on not only the floor, but myself. It bled a few times, but other than that I haven't had any major issues. I really look forward to stretching it and paying a few visits to my friends house. Over all I am extremely pleased with my "new addition". Finally 18 doesn't seem like such a bad age.


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been edited. We can not guarantee that the experience is accurate, truthful,
or contains valid or even safe advice. We strongly urge you to use BME and
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