UPDATE of "MY PRETTY PA" (1998)
At A Glance Author bhelms Contact bhelms@vicon.net When Five years ago Artist Me Studio At home Location Central PA Hello again !! In 1998 I wrote about my wonderful experience with my self-pierced PA. In addition to presenting a scene-by-scene description of the whole process, the story revealed my innermost self, explored my cross-dressing tendencies, and told how the whole PA experience was heightened by, and became a milestone event of, my TV persona. (BME still has the article in the PA index – Thanks, BME !! I hope others have benefited from reading it.)
So I promised I'd update that experience and I'm waaaay overdue! As it turns out I can now also tell you about my rather new "Fabulous New Nipple Rings"! Please look in the Male Nipple Piercing section for that story! Again – the story below explores my "kinky" side. Keep that in mind if you choose to read on....
So here's the update...
In "My Pretty PA" I related how I chose a very unconventional piercing technique and ring type (really a cheap decoration!) and built up the courage to do the deed myself. I was highly inspired by other folks who submitted their experiences to BME. When I wrote that first piece my new PA was only 24-hours old but was already hinting at its extreme pleasure-giving powers! I am pleased to report that the healing process was complete within 2 months. That erotic addition to my anatomy has greatly heightened my sex life, which is largely autoerogenous. I also sport a rather unconventional chain around my glans as explained in my first article. I have submitted photos (finally!) with this story – maybe you will recognize the combination.
"My Pretty PA" was a gold-colored braided white-metal ring with no captive bead. Thus I could close it completely and rotate its entire circumference through the piercing, a feature I found most intriguing at the time. Alas, after a few short months the "gold" plating had all but disappeared but I continued to wear that small ring for almost a year. I finally longed for something bigger and heavier so I went to the local BM shop to look at some real jewelry. I asked for an 8ga 3/4" ring but they were out of 8s, so I settled for a 10ga. I couldn't wait to get into a Men's room to try it on! In retrospect I'm glad I got the 10ga – that was tight enough in my pierce! Three years later I'm still wearing it. I got several different beads for variety, but I mostly wear the dark gray one. I may still go larger in the future – after all, exploration is the spice of the piercing experience !!
And that ring has the devil in it !!! It wants to be played with constantly! I find myself reaching into my pants pocket several times a day to fondle it and rotate it through its circumference. I really like it when the bead "pops" inside my urethra. Any time I urinate I stop to play with it a bit, and this sometimes leads to masturbation. In time I learned to pee standing up again without making a dribbling mess of things, but I still have to be careful. I have often worn the ring with a bead dangling from the ring (as in one photo). This bead just fits into my urethra as well and it feels GREAT worn that way! When I have both beads inserted, urination becomes a bit tedious as most of the stream squirts out the pierce hole. So I have to aim correctly! Recently I have also taken to wearing a 3" chain with a similar bead on the end. This combination also has some really neat pleasures associated with it. I can tug on that chain from my pocket. The bead tends to swing about a lot when I'm walking around naked, with the chain making a cool "rattling" sound. The chain's motion tugs on my ring, hence my glans in a really erotic way, causing a lot of erections. I'm sure most PA wearers have found some unique characteristics about their hardware that leads to heightened arousal and sexual pleasure! Fucking with the ring is also great, but I have not yet left the beads or dangling chain on during intercourse – more exploration!
I also tried other self-piercings over the past 4 years, notably one in my upper navel that went horribly wrong. I don't have the anatomy for that pierce, but I thought I'd try it anyway – wrong move! I should have listened to the experts. The wound got infected and the pierce was rejected, leaving a serious crater over my bellybutton. But I heal quickly, and this one soon grew back out, thankfully, and I look almost normal in that area now with just a minor discoloration. I also tried several other small, minor ring piercings in my scrotum. These all grew out as well leaving only small scars. I'm not sure if any other piercings "down there" are appropriate for me...
So time moves on and I'm getting ever deeper into this BM lifestyle, what with my New Nipple Piercings and all. I'm not sure where I'll go from here – maybe I'll get some ink done, perhaps a small flower or such in an intimate place! I still have to be discrete with my job and all, so I can't have anything that shows all the time. In the meantime I'm looking for others with whom to share myself and my experiences. If you're in tune with that why not drop me a line? bhelms@vicon.net