it all started when we went to this rave. first of all, that is
totally not my environment, second of all, i despise dancing, and
third of all, it was eight bucks. there was a definite upside
though. we (there were about six of us in our group) took some
ecstacy, this being my first time. i was expecting it to just be
basically like acid, only with more of a touch and taste buzz.my girlfriend had taken hers about ten minutes before me, so she was out on the dance floor with another female friend of ourswaiting for it to hit her, and when it did they started dancing rather provocatively. i was standing in the corner with my friend ian, sneering. i thought i got ripped off with some bad x...but then it hit me, and i was watching them dance, so me and ian decided to split them up.
i couldnt believe i was actually dancing at a rave (ive always been more of a punk kid) but there i was. i wouldnt really call it dancing. i more or less swayed back and forth while we made out in front of about a hundred strangers. it was odd, but somehow felt right.
ah but whatever, the entire night made for interesting foreplay, so when we finally got to be alone together, the clothes were a-flyin'.
keep in mind that ive only had my ladder for about a week and a half. we struggled with the condoms for a while, but after a few minutes, we looked at each other and said 'fuck it.'
i did a couple no-nos, im sure. i didnt use a condom to keep the jewelry in place. (my girlfriend IS on the pill and we are very monagomous) and i also have not yet changed the barbells for shorter ones. on the upside, she loved it!
i knew i had to be very gentle, so i used that as an oportunity to be (or attempt to be haha) erotically slow. apparently it did the trick though.
i may put off getting more barbells, because my girlfriend said it felt like 'a little section of tickles going in and out' because all three of my piercings are about a centimeter apart right under the glans.
they were a bit sore afterwards, but i went ahead and gave my wee wee a nice salt soak right after we were done trying it out. i also washed it thoroughly because i didnt want to get an infection.
the barbells not only gave her extra sensations, but they did the same for me. im not sure if it was psychological or physical, but it sure was nice to be able to feel the babells under the skin sliding in and out.
all in all, my girlfriend loved it, so im totally happy. thats what i got them for in the first place. it will be much more comfortable for me, though, when i get shorter barbells. imaging a see saw under Your skin (at twelve guage, no less), thats sort of what it felt like. not really paiNful, just wierd feeling.
this morning i felt totally normal, no soreness, a few crusties, no blood. my girlfriend was a wee bit on the tender side though. i think maybe they will take some getting used to on her part. maybe she just got a little overzealous.
i dont think i can ever go back to having sex without the piercings now because of my girlfriends reactions....oh well!
so yeah, i thought i would write this up since i havent read many articles about the sexual effects of frenum ladders. if you are reading this and you dont have a frenum ladder, go get one right now before your lover finds out the pleasures that may be obtained by having a few of these strategically placed speed bumps and leaves you because your penis is naked.
UPDATE:
ok, well, my girlfriend and i once again, did the deed with my jacobs ladder. this time though, they felt much better. i still have the longer barbells in, but i go to get shorter ones in two days FINALLY.anyway, back to the sex. my girlfriend finds it to be uncomfortable when i pull way out, so the barbells are sliding by her...uh...i dunno what its called...the tighter, muscular ring ner the outside of the vagina (you know what im talking about) so getting started is sometimes a bit difficult. but when i get completely inside, she cant seem to get enough. we had sex three times last night, and i must say, it was pretty intense. everytime i finished (she finished too, quite thouroughly) the first thing she did was grab by rump and squeeze "lets do it again! can we do it again?"
once again, i didnt use a condom (i cant stand the damned things...) but like i said earlier, she is on the pill. we started to use one, but the pressure of the latex on my enormous throbbing (just kidding) wanker sort of pinched the skin at the opening of the piercing. so without a barrier to hold the piercing in place, we decided to just use baby oil. LOTS OF IT. WHOLE LOTS OF IT. it definitely reduces the amount of pulling on the barbells, but the barbells also creat more friction, so it all worked out great. i didnt aske my girlfriend, but i could sort of feel a vibrating, specially when i went fast...i dont know if she felt it, but i did. like a tickle.
so yeah, i think she will enjoy the shorter barbells much more, because then they will not 'see saw' as they enter.
i think i will have one more update next week, when i have the new barbells, and if all this doesnt convince you to get pierced, i dont know what will. it is far worth it, asthetically, and physically.