My Mom Finally Admitted, "It's Kinda Cute!"
day was, as it will hereafter be known, The Big Day. My appointment at
Tribal Ways was for 3:00, and with a friend by my side, we set off down
Newbury Street...well actually, we left Harvard Square late and got off the
Copley T at exactly 3:00, realized the piercing place was waaaay down the
other end of the street, and sprinted down Newbury Street, dodging tourists,
dogs, and small children, as well as parking meters.
Fortunately, my
sweat-inducing journey to Tribal Ways had no further bearing on what would
happen next-though I was afraid that due to being 5 minutes late they would be
unable to pierce me, I knew that fate was on my side. Actually, I just knew
that if they couldn't do it I'd probably burst into tears.
So. There were
a few people getting bellybutton piercings who actually went before me, and
then there were 2 cancellations, thus freeing up time for lovely little me,
who found herself sitting on a couch with a very small chihauha and 2
trembling adult women.
I was given an aftercare sheet, then Steven (I
think that's his name..) talked me through the sheet. He was really helpful
because he was very straightforward about the aftercare procedures but also
answered my questions.
I'm used to stuff like this; I had braces twice,
the first time being when I was 8 years old, and had to sit through something
quite similar. Same goes for contact lenses and knee brace. So I'm a veteran
of the Do's and Do Not's and Never's talks.
I must say that by this
time, though I was kind of nervous about the procedure to come, I felt very
confident that I would have no problems following the basic and essential
instructions. I had already made a mental list of the stuff I needed to pick
up at my local pharmacy to make everything work smoothly.
Pretty soon it
was my turn. I took one last reassuring glance at the medical certificates on
the wall, one last glance at the clipboard bearing the contract which I had
signed, and followed Aaron into the piercing room.
I have never seen
anything cleaner. I have been in hospital operating rooms that are more
cluttered. My orthodontists' office was less sterile. This was professional.
I was very, very impressed. My feeling of being much like poor old Bob
Flanagan in the Nine Inch Nails "Happiness In Slavery" video went away. I
realized, hey, they obviously have a really good idea of how to do this, I
know how to handle it, and that's that. I also knew in my heart that it
wouldn't hurt any more than tearing my ACL snowboarding, falling off my
skateboard, getting my braces tightened, or falling on the sharp rocks
outside and needing stitches in my leg.
Aaron explained exactly what he
was going to do. First he cleaned my eyebrow off extremely thoroughly. Then
he marked the enter and exit holes for the piercing, had me check it in the
mirror, and then he clamped it. The clamp part felt kinda funny at first but
I got used to it. Then he put the needle through after having me take a deep
breath and release it when he told me to. This was surprisingly un-painful.
All it really felt like was accidentally grabbing skin with tweezers while
plucking my brows instead of brow hair. Then he corked the needle. I could
feel the cork against the side of my face. It was, overall, a very sensory
experience, and I actually felt very relaxed.
A few minutes later, after
he put the jewelry in (a small 18 gauge silver hoop with a silver ball), he
said I could open my eyes. So I did...and there it was! My first thought was,
"Wow, that looks like it's always been there. And it's so cute!" It didn't
hurt at all; I could feel the pressure of the ring and see it slightly out of
the corner of my eye, but there was no pain. Aaron asked if I felt
light-headed or anything; I said no, just really hungry (this was undoubtedly
from my mini-marathon down Newbury Street). Then he said I was all set, so my
friend and I bade him farewell, talked baby-talk one more time to the
chihauha, and then we were on our way.
My next big adventure was going to
CVS and buying the stuff I'd need to take care of my piercing. I have recently
given up dairy products, thus receiving the "You're going to die of
malnutrition" lecture from both my parents, so right away I figured that
vitamins would be a good idea anyway. In addition, the aftercare sheet
mentioned Vitamin C and Zinc as being very beneficial for the healing process,
so I picked up some of that, the zinc also containing calcium (good for a
veggie like me!).
Then I got some Ivory soap, some absolutely pure cotton
balls, one of those little squirt bottles for my hot water rinses,
and....ahem. Why is their one remaining bottle of Bactine missing a seal? I
drilled the cashier about this and we determined it had indeed been tampered
with. So I paid for everything else and went over to Walgreen's. At
Walgreen's, I found that they did not have the bottles of Bactine, just the
spray, but I figured that I could just spray it onto the cotton ball and it
would be a non-issue...a non-issue that cost 2 dollars more! Oh well, all in
the spirit of good hygiene and fast healing. So I bought that, and that
evening I did my first little aftercare ritual. It went very smoothly. I slept
well and didnt' worry about rolling over onto the piercing, and now I'm
getting ready to clean it again.
I guess you may be wondering, how did my
parents react? Well, I had talked to them A LOT previous to getting it
done...initially I had wanted my tongue pierced but I changed my mind on that
because it was too expensive and seemed to have some unwanted risks involved;
also, my parents were more inclined to let me do my eyebrow. After determining
this and finally getting them to say, "We don't like this decision but we'll
let you do it," I did it. I was actually surprised because my mom admitted,
"It's kinda cute actually" as did my dad.
I'm very glad that they reacted
the way they did, but I'm also glad that I was able to do this all by myself
as a responsible 18-year old adult. I have found that the stares I get for
having spikey blue hair and an eyebrow ring are only out of curiosity and not
disgust; even my brother seemed semi-fascinated by the ring and suddenly
stopped telling me that he hopes it gets infected.
In conclusion, I found
this experience to be rewarding to me, and I am quite happy with my piercng.
For fifty dollars plus the additional cash for aftercare supplies, I
definitely got what I wanted-a helpful, professional, responsible piercing
place, sufficient information on how to take care of my piercing, and even
some extra calcium in my vitamins.
Details
submitted by: Anonymous
on: 28 March 2000
in
Eyebrow Piercing
Artist: Aaron
Studio: Tribal+Ways
Location: Massachusetts