ordered new plugs tonight :)  i have been working my butt off lately and think think a few new things will be a good reward.  smerk went home for a visit last week and returned today :)  i gotta say my life is not right with out him, on top of that i have become very hermit like the older i get so i didn't get out unless it was to work or get food...or spend time with my sister.  she has been doing very, very well.  she found a great job with insurance through a good friend, paying her way and working hard, so i treated her to a few new things as well.  it feels good to do that :) but i know i have to start a budget so the next move wont be so stressful...

it's been a while since I've last updated and had the time to really think of how i feel about the recent events, which i guess aren't so recent now.  i, like many of you, wouldn't be who/where i am today if it wasn't for this great community and encouragement to be who i am within my community and succeed.

i joined this community around 13 years ago, when we were all just numbers here and i was living with my father on the north side of Detroit.  i have met some amazing people, went to BBQ's in Toronto and took road trips that will last a lifetime...but what stands out the most is a father similar to my own in the way he thought life should be lived.  one who urged people to be who they are regardless of what society judged them to be.  always open-minded and always welcoming, the best father to have, even if it was for a short time.  i will never forget how he worked to give us this place of equality, a place of acceptance.  so this goes out to all the fathers who left their children far to early...

so my page is going to expire again soon :(  still havent made a tattoo appointment  but i am planning on doing that this week. work is well, i was put into a training program for a management position...its an amazing thing really, being one of 8 chosen and the only one with tattoos and piercings...

good morning. i was supposed to work at 6am today but for the first time in a long time i called in :(  rest is what i need...and some food, im starving...

lately life has been good...really good...a pissible promotion at work, some extra money coming in...the most amazing boy in my life, howd i get so lucky? now all i need is some new work on my arm! have to stop putting it off and just make the damn appointment! anyway im going to stuff my face before i pass out...

its been a week thought i should write more....to bad i have nothing to say.  hmm, i stretched my ears a while back and im so close to an inch, id like to stretch again but i absolutly love the plugs i have now. ill be making an apointment to get more work my sleeve and possibly my chest too. have to get back to work now :'(