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Average minds discuss events
Small minds discuss people
- Eleanor Roosevelt
9/10/2005 | 1 comments
well- some tough things comin' up in the next few weeks. i guess i shud prepare for the stress, maybe avoid a meltdown.
and my sweetie's headin' up on Friday night. i just need to make it through mediation, the doctor and one preschooler hangin' on my leg for his first week back.
i feel more anxious about court on the 20th though, and this throbbing aching mushy lumpy thing that i'm hoping is nothing to fuss about.
i tell ya- i really really HATE disease and i HATE death. i hate it, i hate it, i hate it. i don't see the point and i'm not too interested in coming to terms with it all either.
then again, it's almost October. i tend to get really angry about it towards my Dad's birthday. and by February, i'm just sad.
but- my sweetie will be living up here for both, and i can't wait to cry in his arms
9/5/2005 | 2 comments
the past drifts behind
as you struggle today-
still a flame that is timeless
can draw you away-
remember the vision
held in your dreams-
a life worth living
and not as it seems-
for your hope is secure
as the journey goes on-
from past to past
and then... to beyond
you have traveled so far-
look up to the heavens
consider a star-
alone in the darkness
a flicker of light-
her strength, her beauty
in the night-
9/4/2005 | 0 comments
well, it's early... for me
and my coffee is yummy enough-
we're heading out on a short road trip, 2 hour drive with ALL that is me, the little guy and the doggie girl. gonna spend some time with one of my bestest best girlfriends and her own little ones and her hubby.
truth- she & i will would rather be off alone at the beach, laughing and talking and talking and talking. she's just a soul mate kind of love for me and we had a 6 year gap, we're still catching up, thank god.
8/31/2005 | 3 comments
so- it's a strange time right now (what else is new)-
not working for... oh my god- almost 6 months and goin' a little stir crazy-
still- i haven't kept track of how much cash i've lost, but- i just don't see it as loss- i have some money from the sale of the house, and sure, i might miss it later on when i want to purchase another home, or pay my freakin' student loans-
but i think that i was more of a mess than i realized- and we wonder why women stay! damn- i knew way back when that leaving was going to be sooo difficult. not because of love and grief, but because guys like EvilX just don't let go-
research shows that it takes 7 times for a woman to leave before she stays gone, AND for those who have dealt with real violence... the most dangerous time for her is AFTER she's left-
oh well- i really hope i could get back into the shelter (for work that is!) or maybe the DV agency for this county- it's my niche, it's my passion- and now- i even understand a bit more about all of the twisted power plays that occur when a client DOES leave-
and u know- it's one thing to know as a professional that any given dad probably won't get the "full residential custody with visitation granted to the child's mother" but- shit- i think i now have the real life experience to be OH so understanding when the threat alone is freaking out one of my clients-
oh freedom- oh freedom- still callin' my name
8/27/2005 | 1 comments
well- i finally did it.
i opened up a private forum for women and girls dealing with domestic violence. i've been putting off since i got here in IAM, because i wanted to be sure that i could put a bit of time into it. but u know, if we wait until the right time to do things, well some of them just do not get done.
The following people signed this petition:
"( I wish I could take a shower right now.)"
barcode "(IAM will find a way to come back to life)"
northern lights "(for inner peace....and lots of chocolate!)"
MeShell "(for joy)"
bodybuilderef "(I was indenpendently wealthy)"
prettypinkkitty007 "(my student loans were paid off.)"
ubuntu "(my teeth were fixed)"
Curt "(you great happiness!)"
.caitlin. "(I didn't have to worry about money)"
ShaggyDope "(i wish i was on a freight train.)"
-Matt- "(..I never had to work, and that noone would ever get sick anymore)"
rayneofsorrow "(I Could be at peace in my head)"
VEAL "(Where did I end up? lol)"
sane "(, i wish i wish i'd never eatin' that fish)"
mountainmansamiam "(I would have had a soul mate, but my number was never drawn)"
sweetcheeks "(For piece of mind, that's all I want.)"
death kisses "( )"
visiblydistorted "(that our grandchildrens' grandchildren won't be corporate slaves)"
BadlyDrawnGirl "(that i could shower ALONE, i have 2 kids. )"
paulo4127 "(I wish I could time travel)"
chemically_lobotomized "(perfect health, smaller boobies, HAWT boyfriend with a big wang!)"
shalla_bal "(I wish for one more day with Gary)"
cirrin "(for peace, inner as well as world)"
catalaioch "(I knew what to wish for. . .)"
Guilt of Eve "(I could breathe under water!)"
charlie_ihsan "(For my Dad's cancer to go away. )"
vizante "(... to play piercing right now )"
The Rainbow Panda "(That every guy was at least Bi. lol)"
HEDGEHOG51 "(I could be content with what I have)"
Lethalgirl "(for respect, love, honor, passion, commitment, learning)"
xJAXONx "( )"
Modster "(For a content life)"
nopek "(for guidance and acceptance)"
Plaid "(i was an oscar meyer weiner. that is what i truely wish to be...)"
thepiercedbird "(for a tuna sammich)"
vmaxgirl "(to love like I have never been hurt before)"
GnomeChomsky "(for my work to be miraculously closed tomorrow)"
DejaMoon "(to just let go. )"
fluffykins "(i could leave )"
Sugar "(for permanent remission from lupus!)"
MizzGrell "(To win the Super 7 so I'll get all that money and help people)"
urban.herbalist "(I had ten fingers.)"
Saline the Salt Cake Queen "(you lived closer and under a rainbow)"
Dawnie "( )"
i say death "(i could just give up and sleep forever)"
Jim "(I had more time)"
Mariposa "(Things would have worked out differently...)"
Miseraya Companya "(To be healthy, mentally and physically.)"
Jol "(I didnt have to always worry)"
Rawiri "(love for everyone)"
Hell on Wheels "(for only the best for the people i care about)"
Jae "(travel was faster and easier)"
CausticTwin "(inner peace as well as being financially able to not work. )"
aack "(I was back home)"
Starr "(i wish i could really fly high above it all...just like in my dreams-)"
darthlaurian "(I could be with my love)"
Eclipsed "(this was easier..)"
Chadgrisly "(I hope you enjoyed passing through. Visit our souvenir shop....)"
Amadahy "(winter will be over quickly)"
kleptesvirgo "( )"
())crayon))> "(I had someone to cuddle)"
You.Are.Beautiful. "(happiness, well-being, peace, and harmony for everyone.)"
EziliGede "(to keep it together and raise my sons well)"
Morning_Star "(Dreams that come true.....)"
helena "(Eternal vacation!)"
HeadlessLego "(Upon a starr...)"
Granger "(for peace, happiness and enough money to get more tattoos)"
YoungMom "(For health and happiness for my friends and family)"
Madsteel "(i could look like before pregnancy...)"
Deeeluxxx "( )"
Celticgent "(happiness to everyone.)"
rebekahsXrevenge "(that we could all see the beauty of life without having to suffer)"
Kalinkina "( )"
lost and found "(to be at peace)"
Alledria "(it would continue raining so I have an excuse to stay in)"
blackandblue "( )"
Sean_P "(Early retirement!)"
dazedeagle "(...oh how I wish.)"
Zobot "(I was a baller!)"
EvenFlow "(My vacation started today)"
3mmy "(i had some monnnnney)"
Caroline452 "(The world wasn't so quick to judge me by my appearence)"
TMHahn "(To learn to live with remembering.)"
Veasy "(I can go Home some day. )"
Nikkimodifiedbeauty92 "(That more people could see me for the girl I am and that everyone could accept each other without judgment )"